Which butt plug to get?

Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl 01/30/2012

I want to get a new butt plug, but I can only get one. Between these two, which one would you recommend? FYI: I'm looking for something that will stay put during intercourse, and also be large/filling enough to adequately prepare me for anal sex. I like that the N'Joy is steel, which is good for temp play and has a nice weight to it, but the Jolly Roger has that nice texture.. Decisions, decisions!

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Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
Which toy would you recommend?
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Contributor: Cookie Monster Mike Cookie Monster Mike
Personally I would choose the Pure Plug Large if it was my choice between the 2. The silicone one just seems so much and would be out lived fairly quickly. But then again if you are a beginner, the pure plug large would most likely not be a good starting choice.
01/30/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I have the small and medium Njoy plugs - although they are very comfortable to wear - it just takes a small amount of lube to get them inside - I don't see them as good preparation for anal sex. The necks are so small as to be almost non existent.

I don't know about the other toy you suggested - but that wouldn't be my first choice. As a recent beginner to anal play I'd suggest you look for the following:

A tapered front-end - the Jolly Jack is too abrupt
Something that has a max of 1" 'peak' to start with - then I moved up to 1.5"
Then the taper should be about 50% of the peak diameter
I also like one with vibes - but it isn't a must

If you like silicone
The Pleasure Plug 2link and B Bomb link look like a good beginner plugs.

I like glass and there are plenty of those out there - happy hunting.
01/30/2012
Contributor: Lucidity Lucidity
You can't go wrong with Njoy products.
01/30/2012
Contributor: EdenJP EdenJP
Quote:
Originally posted by bayosgirl
Which toy would you recommend?
Pure plug large
01/30/2012
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
I have the small and medium Njoy plugs - although they are very comfortable to wear - it just takes a small amount of lube to get them inside - I don't see them as good preparation for anal sex. The necks are so small as to be almost non ... more
Yeah, that's what I was thinking about the Njoy--it doesn't look like it's long or even thick enough to prepare for anal sex. FWIW, I'm not exactly new to anal play. I have the Lil' End butt plug (which I very quickly outgrew, but still use as a warmup-the problem is it slips out way too easily) and I also use the Gold Laced G, a glass dildo, anally. I don't think the round end on the Jolly Jack would bother me at this stage in the game. I'm just concerned that, like the Lil' End, it might slip out during use.
01/30/2012
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
Quote:
Originally posted by bayosgirl
Yeah, that's what I was thinking about the Njoy--it doesn't look like it's long or even thick enough to prepare for anal sex. FWIW, I'm not exactly new to anal play. I have the Lil' End butt plug (which I very quickly outgrew, but ... more
The Pure Plug worked for me as an anal prep toy, and it'll definitely stay put during DP.
02/02/2012
Contributor: BlooJay BlooJay
The steel one looks cool.
02/03/2012
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
Quote:
Originally posted by Rossie
The Pure Plug worked for me as an anal prep toy, and it'll definitely stay put during DP.
Good to know. thank you!
02/03/2012
Contributor: AJvil AJvil
Quote:
Originally posted by bayosgirl
Which toy would you recommend?
pure
02/03/2012
Contributor: Mr. E Mr. E
I have the Njoy. It is a great toy. It's easy to retain, but I don't think it will do much to prepare you for anal sex.

I do not own the Jolly Jack, but due to the size and shape of it's neck, it also looks like it will stay put.

These are both nice toys. Good luck and have fun!
02/03/2012
Contributor: ichwillwaffels ichwillwaffels
Quote:
Originally posted by bayosgirl
Which toy would you recommend?
I'd prefer the pure plug
02/07/2012
Contributor: richsam richsam
Pure plug
02/07/2012
Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
I like the look of the Jolly Jack, but I have heard GREAT things about the Pure Plugs!
02/10/2012
Contributor: Allstars316 Allstars316
I like the pure plug. I will be getting one. But small first.
02/11/2012
Contributor: Tork48309 Tork48309
Love the pure plug.
02/12/2012
Contributor: kawigrl kawigrl
jolly
02/12/2012
Contributor: Modern^Spank^Anthem Modern^Spank^Anthem
pure plug
02/12/2012
Contributor: Kaltir Kaltir
Ordering the Pure Plug myself
02/16/2012
Contributor: sweet&lush sweet&lush
jolly jack
02/16/2012
Contributor: Lizzy Lizzy
Pure plug. idk if i'd start with the large though
03/25/2012
Contributor: DiamondKoala DiamondKoala
Pure plug because I feel like the steel is smoother, responds better to temperature play, and seems like a better taper.
03/25/2012
Contributor: Undead Undead
Quote:
Originally posted by bayosgirl
Which toy would you recommend?
Pure
03/25/2012
Contributor: sweetpea12 sweetpea12
Quote:
Originally posted by bayosgirl
Which toy would you recommend?
The pure butt plug looks amazing, I would really recommend it but not for beginners. I am gradually getting bigger butt plugs and I have had my eye on these for a while
03/26/2012
Contributor: LAndJ LAndJ
I like the look of the pure plug better.
03/29/2012
Contributor: mlmac mlmac
I have the pure plug medium and recently I got the pure plug large. I love em both. The medium seems to move around a little more inside of me then the large, but both are a great.
Not really sure about the Jollyjack. Never owned one.
03/29/2012
Contributor: Sexy Housewife Sexy Housewife
Quote:
Originally posted by bayosgirl
Which toy would you recommend?
I have a Love Pacifier Advanced that i started with for a toy (we've already done anal). I like it well enough. I NJoy would have been nice, but out of our price range. I was able to get mine for like $9 on sale.

link

Njoy makes other versionsof plugs than those too

and i found that my favorite position for anal was me on top. That way i could control the penetration, speed, all of that. worked great!

Sadly we can't do it much since after the birth of our 2nd daughter i got a hemorrhoid
03/29/2012
Contributor: Brenard Brenard
I would go with the Pure Plug.
03/29/2012
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
If you want a plug that's good to leave in and stimulating then go with the nJoy. The downside is that it might not be as good for anal warmup - with the Jolly Jack you can do some thrusting and leave the anus opened up to the "body" width for a while.

For warmup there's always fingers, though.
03/29/2012
Contributor: Enchantedkitty Enchantedkitty
pure plug!
03/30/2012
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by bayosgirl
Which toy would you recommend?
Pure
04/05/2012
Contributor: te te
Large Pure plug gets my vote.
04/05/2012
Contributor: fufucat fufucat
Quote:
Originally posted by bayosgirl
Which toy would you recommend?
05/15/2012
Contributor: roskat roskat
Pure plug gets my vote.
05/15/2012
Contributor: sexystuffeve sexystuffeve
Quote:
Originally posted by bayosgirl
Which toy would you recommend?
Wow both of those look really intense, especially for a bigginer.
05/15/2012
Contributor: Terri69 Terri69
I would go with the Pure plug
07/02/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
The pure plug large
07/03/2012
Contributor: brevado brevado
Love my pure plug!
09/09/2012
Contributor: Why Not? Why Not?
While the Jolly could be fun, the Pure Plug is some thing that you will keep in your collection forever.
09/10/2012
Contributor: Sima-pusya Sima-pusya
Pure plug large
09/10/2012
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
Pure plug, definitely. I love my medium
11/16/2012
Contributor: malantha malantha
Quote:
Originally posted by bayosgirl
Which toy would you recommend?
I hear nothing but raving reviews for the pure plugs
11/16/2012
Contributor: angel42539 angel42539
Quote:
Originally posted by Cookie Monster Mike
Personally I would choose the Pure Plug Large if it was my choice between the 2. The silicone one just seems so much and would be out lived fairly quickly. But then again if you are a beginner, the pure plug large would most likely not be a good ... more
I agree
11/16/2012
Contributor: Robinhoood Robinhoood
good question
11/16/2012
Contributor: Arlinnae Arlinnae
depends how much you are willing to pay
11/16/2012
Contributor: Robespierrethecat Robespierrethecat
the jolly jack looks like it's bigger and would stay in better.
11/16/2012
Contributor: Girly Juice Girly Juice
As much as I love Happy Valley, the firmness of their silicone isn't great for butts. I find their anal toys really uncomfortable. The Pure Plugs, on the other hand, are flawless.
11/17/2012
Contributor: Aishiteru Aishiteru
The pure plug.
11/17/2012
Contributor: Real or memorex Real or memorex
njoy all the way.
11/17/2012
Contributor: lovelylolaa lovelylolaa
Pure plug
12/12/2012
Contributor: lovebites lovebites
pure plug
12/12/2012
Contributor: No-nita No-nita
Njoy products are just gorgeous and expertly designed. I'd go with that because I've been lusting after their stuff for ages.
12/12/2012
Contributor: Sirena Sirena
Quote:
Originally posted by bayosgirl
Which toy would you recommend?
No question about it, the Pure plug.
12/12/2012
Contributor: UsArmyGuy UsArmyGuy
Jolly Jack, only because its cheaper
12/13/2012