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Contributor: Kitten has left the site Kitten has left the site 03/22/2012

I have been wondering lately about anal. I've had anal sex before, but to me, it didn't really feel all that great and I wanna start exploring that area of pleasure.
I have my eye on a couple toys, and I wanna know which would be best to start out with.
If anyone has another toy in mind that's good for beginners, be sure to comment it!

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Which is better? (32 posts)
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Which would be better for first time anal toy?
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Contributor: Ryuson Ryuson
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I might start with something softer like these:
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03/22/2012
Contributor: sapphyre.wings sapphyre.wings
I would definitely go with something softer. I think the ones Ryuson posted look wonderful!
03/22/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
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Originally posted by Kitten has left the site
Which would be better for first time anal toy?
I think both can be great for first time anal. My very first toy was a glass dildo, and it felt wonderful. I think you can go with glass the first time, just make sure you use lube
03/22/2012
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Look at the Tantus Ripple or similar toys. Same basic shape but flexible.

Fingers are another great first butt toy.
03/23/2012
Contributor: Undead Undead
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Originally posted by Kitten has left the site
Which would be better for first time anal toy?
I would start with something of a softer material
03/23/2012
Contributor: Dirminxia Dirminxia
If it have had anal sex before, then something more solid might be a good place to begin exploring, but if you aren't comfortable, use soften toys, or fingers to begin with.
03/23/2012
Contributor: Zombirella Zombirella
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Originally posted by Kitten has left the site
Which would be better for first time anal toy?
The smaller one but like others have said, I would look for something silicone or soft.
03/23/2012
Contributor: wildorchid wildorchid
Softer is my vote as well. Here's my personal suggestion link
03/23/2012
Contributor: Allstars316 Allstars316
The emerald is what I would choose
03/23/2012
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
The Emerald will be a good first toy, you might look at the Gold Laced G as well.
03/23/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
I like the looks of the plugs Ryuson mentioned. I haven't tried them, but they look nice and they have silicone.
03/23/2012
Contributor: sweetpea12 sweetpea12
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Originally posted by Kitten has left the site
Which would be better for first time anal toy?
For your first time the Emerald explorer is probably perfect just because it has the large ring so it's easy to manipulate. And it looks more beginner friendly. The sapphire falls looks really interesting but not great for first time anal play
03/26/2012
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
The plugs Ryson linked may be a good first try.

I also like the Plug Der Lust Small for beginners, although you may outgrow it eventually, as I did.

The Love Pacifier in Small is a good silicone plug also, in a nice teardrop shape. The handle of this toy is firmer than the one on the Plug Der Lust, so you won't fold over if you push too hard on it after outgrowing it. I've had mine for a long time and still really love it.
03/26/2012
Contributor: Brandonn Brandonn
Emerald explorer
03/27/2012
Contributor: Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous
Emerald explorer
03/28/2012
Contributor: MamaDivine MamaDivine
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Originally posted by Kitten has left the site
Which would be better for first time anal toy?
I like the first one. because of the loop at the bottom
03/30/2012
Contributor: GONE! GONE!
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Originally posted by MamaDivine
I like the first one. because of the loop at the bottom
This. For my first time, I would want something I would know for certain could be grabbed and gotten out easily.
03/31/2012
Contributor: Master DarkWolf Master DarkWolf
It depends on how you would want to try it.
04/02/2012
Contributor: Do emu Do emu
Emerald explorer.
04/02/2012
Contributor: The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by Kitten has left the site
Which would be better for first time anal toy?
The emerald explorer is a great toy BUT dont discount pyrex glass toys. I love that material.
04/02/2012
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
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Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
The emerald explorer is a great toy BUT dont discount pyrex glass toys. I love that material.
I think Emerald is made of generic Pyrex (borosilicate).
04/02/2012
Contributor: True Pleasures True Pleasures
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Originally posted by ScottA
Look at the Tantus Ripple or similar toys. Same basic shape but flexible.

Fingers are another great first butt toy.
I have to second the Tantus Ripple. I have the smaller version. When you get used to that, you can work up to their larger one.
04/02/2012
Contributor: DiamondKoala DiamondKoala
If you are set on glass the the explorer because it has a better base, but overall I would suggest something like the Ripple or Groove.
04/03/2012
Contributor: Clubbinseals Clubbinseals
Emerald explorer cuz its got a handle
04/05/2012
Contributor: BlooJay BlooJay
I agree, the emerald explorer because of the handle.
04/12/2012
Contributor: AbbyLover AbbyLover
hope you have fun
04/14/2012
Contributor: Lady Bear Lady Bear
Emerald explorer
04/16/2012
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
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Originally posted by Kitten has left the site
Which would be better for first time anal toy?
Well the one is called an explorer, so I'll take a blind guess.
04/30/2012
Contributor: Terri69 Terri69
I would get the emerald
06/15/2012
Contributor: mmmmm mmmmm
Emerald explorer
06/15/2012
Contributor: Talena Talena
coming from someone who just tried the beaded like the ones above...beaded does feel better. Go with the Emerald Explorer...it's straight and has a good handle.
06/15/2012