dildos vs. "THE REAL THING"

dildos vs. "THE REAL THING"

NJ casanova NJ casanova
Hello, everyone

I have seen a couple repeating comments where women like dildo/toys that have different girth/diameter then actual Penises? Most of what I've read, like a dildo that is .25-.5 inch or so thicker than an actual penis if it's rubber. They like .25-.5 LESS if it glass/metal? I have also seen most dildo's length are given in(overall length)with base/not insert-able(eden has the most accurate information, thank U)is the length depending on the curve?

My questions are...?

I was thinking the softer material gave more of a "gentle thrust"? From the review videos of rubber/vixen(units), my "semi" is ""ALOT"" stiffer than that, let alone a "rage'n Hard-on"? Closest I could compare too,on this site(Eden mega silicone, with a slight(1/4-1/2")longer w/a thicker girth taper towards the base and a vixen "johnny curve") I didn't know if it was more to do with your partner's size/comparison? Or how vigorous the action( softer/larger-easier for masturbation?

I heard/read glass/metal toys need to be smaller??? I guess, since I'm a straight man(not a receiver)I haven't had any experiences compare it to? For example, I can get so aroused it can actual "hurt" to be stretched( bend from my 45 degrees Up normal position)to perpendicular to my body/I can "easily" hang a wet beach towel, with no hands. Harder than any silicone, but lett than plastic/metal, I would compare it to a cucumber's firmness?

I hope to hear with your insites... The more minds I can pick apart, the better I(guys here) can get at our craft

The dildos I've seen in the reviews on this site are "a lot" softer than I'm with a "semi"
11/01/2015
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11/01/2015
edeneve edeneve
Wow, looks like a lot of questions.

I'll offer any info. I can but it's kinda hard to follow the flow of your questions. Can you help us out by separating them from the rest of your comments? Might help others give you the specific answers you're looking for rather than generalized comments.
11/01/2015
NJ casanova NJ casanova
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Originally posted by edeneve
Wow, looks like a lot of questions.

I'll offer any info. I can but it's kinda hard to follow the flow of your questions. Can you help us out by separating them from the rest of your comments? Might help others give you the specific ...
Sorry, I was trying to put too much in 1 thread Since the soft otys are alot softer and the metal/glass slightly stiffer than the real thing, why such a size difference?

1. Do you prefer larger toys than what ur man has and is it just 4 variety?

2. Is the girth discrepancy between the toys/real deal, due to you having total control?

3. Is the girth discrepancy due to the toy beingless stiff than your man?
11/02/2015
Alan & Michele Alan & Michele
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Originally posted by NJ casanova
Sorry, I was trying to put too much in 1 thread Since the soft otys are alot softer and the metal/glass slightly stiffer than the real thing, why such a size difference?

1. Do you prefer larger toys than what ur man has and is it just 4 ...
None of the women I know who use toys compare them to their men at all, but maybe you'll get that comparison you're looking for from someone else.

As for toy materials, a woman's anatomy is not a straight tube. There are curves. Softer materials conform to the curves to varying extents and hit a lot of sweet spots without bruising or bumping anything in the wrong way. Metal and glass toys obviously don't do that, so it's better to have less girth to maneuver around. Does that make sense?
11/11/2015
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by NJ casanova
Hello, everyone

I have seen a couple repeating comments where women like dildo/toys that have different girth/diameter then actual Penises? Most of what I've read, like a dildo that is .25-.5 inch or so thicker than an actual penis if ...
I, OH. will give you OW's take.

No matter how soft the material, says not as soft and comfortable as real thing.

Glass and metal of course, are unforgiving. Even the very curved Pure Wand feels very firm inside.

Curved with some give/flex make them easier to take.

And from my pov, no use giving her same size as myself. Her chance to experience more.
11/11/2015
dhig dhig
agreed that nothing is comfy as the real thing, but the "realer" higher quality toys are still nice
11/13/2015
TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
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Originally posted by dhig
agreed that nothing is comfy as the real thing, but the "realer" higher quality toys are still nice
Ditto.
11/13/2015
grrrldickz grrrldickz
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Originally posted by NJ casanova
Hello, everyone

I have seen a couple repeating comments where women like dildo/toys that have different girth/diameter then actual Penises? Most of what I've read, like a dildo that is .25-.5 inch or so thicker than an actual penis if ...
I like dildos that are dick-sized, but not dick-colored. It's too creepy. I like really fake-looking pink and purple things, or green, or just anything besides skin color dildos. I've never used the glass kind so I'm not sure if I like those or not. I worry they'd be too cold and clinical.
11/27/2015
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