First-time dildo user. Advice?

First-time dildo user. Advice?

addison addison
Hey everyone! So I recently purchased my very first dildo and was just wondering if you have any advice for first-time users?
02/06/2017
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GingerAnn GingerAnn
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02/06/2017
jen1447 jen1447
Congratulations.

What kind of dildo is it?
02/06/2017
addison addison
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Originally posted by jen1447
Congratulations.

What kind of dildo is it?
It's this guy here: link

I've had a few people recommend it to me for first-timers.
02/06/2017
RonLee RonLee
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Originally posted by addison
It's this guy here: link

I've had a few people recommend it to me for first-timers.
That's a nice size and I particularly like that it is silicone.

Please don't put something inside yourself that might poison you... no jelly's no pvc... there are lots of crazy things that adult toys are made of that really shouldn't be made at all. You made a good choice with this one.

Oh one other thing, if you want to use it anally as well as vaginally, consider using female condoms. One in your butt to keep the toy clean if you would switch back and forth. (as a versatile bi guy myself I can attest that the female condom works fine for receptive anal sex)

Use plenty of lube and Have Fun!
02/06/2017
jen1447 jen1447
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Originally posted by addison
It's this guy here: link

I've had a few people recommend it to me for first-timers.
Cool. So I take it you know the basics, right? Get yourself aroused so you have some natural lube going, then start playing with it. Don't try to just jam it all in right away lol, maybe first plop it down on the outside of your lips and nuzzle your clit with it, run it up and down vertically so it splits your lips without going in and always nudges your clit on the upstroke, and repeat as desired. Then go from there ....there's a whole lot more fun to be had inside. Seriously, women's vaginas are god's greatest gift to mankind based on what they can do and the kind of pleasure they're capable of giving and having.

I can go on if you like lol.
02/06/2017
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by addison
It's this guy here: link

I've had a few people recommend it to me for first-timers.
Congratulations on getting the Bendable Buddy. It can be used as dildo and/or vibe.

We did a review and video demo on it 2 yrs ago. It is still in her rotation. She bent it to suit her anatomy. She normally starts with fingers, mine or hers then positions the buddy sideways on her clit. She likes a lot of buzzing and leaves it there for a long time. Then when aroused and wet slips it in slowly.

The multiple settings are great on that as you probably found out. Strong too !

I like the light show when it is on.
02/06/2017
DancerKittyKat DancerKittyKat
I always find lube super helpful! Especially if you're using a new toy for the first time and your body isn't used to it, lubrication is your friend!! I also enjoy clitoral stimulation, both before and during penetration. I find that it relaxes my muscles and makes it easier to accept bigger toys.
02/08/2017
macrac macrac
I am a male and want to find a product that I can insert and wear daily. A comfortable plug with vibration would be nice. Can you recomend something.
10/24/2017
Lena Eden Lena Eden
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Originally posted by macrac
I am a male and want to find a product that I can insert and wear daily. A comfortable plug with vibration would be nice. Can you recomend something.
You can try the one with remote control, like Pearl Charmer or Club vibe 3.OH Hero for some club fun!
10/25/2017
GingerAnn GingerAnn
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Originally posted by addison
Hey everyone! So I recently purchased my very first dildo and was just wondering if you have any advice for first-time users?
Great product, indeed. But I just remembered I wanted to add something - with this dildo being a great toy, it's not suitable for anal sex, at all. Please, don't try using it anally, either by yourself or with someone. This toy has no safe base, so it can get "sucked up" pretty bad.
Jan 28, 6:46 am
EdenUser448 EdenUser448
Just set the environment right, tease yourself for a bit, and then start enjoying the toy from there. That's pretty much it.
Feb 12, 5:04 am
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