Girth: How big is too big?

Contributor: remember.me remember.me
1.75/5.5 would be "too big" at this point.
06/15/2012
Contributor: Andrew1992 Andrew1992
1.75 is a pretty hefty size, and after two inches it just isn't fun anymore.
06/18/2012
Contributor: pirkit pirkit
1.75 is my limit.
06/18/2012
Contributor: Ranbowfairyali Ranbowfairyali
I think 1.75 is my limit.
06/19/2012
Contributor: Nacht Stern Nacht Stern
I used to consider 1 inch diameter toys girth-y about a year ago.
Now I am in a never ending quest for toy 2 inches and over.

When it comes to anal toys 1 inch in diameter is "the wall" for me.
06/19/2012
Contributor: Girly Juice Girly Juice
1.5 inches is the most girth I can take comfortably. After that, my vagina starts to get cranky.
06/25/2012
Contributor: meezerosity meezerosity
5.5" circumference is where it gets too big for me.
06/25/2012
Contributor: solitudinarian solitudinarian
I've managed 2 inches fine. I generally describe 1.75 inches plus as "girthy".
06/25/2012
Contributor: MistressDandelion MistressDandelion
If something doesn't have give, 1.5'' is already too much for me...
06/25/2012
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
1.5" to 1.75" is best, 2" No, no thank you.
06/26/2012
Contributor: Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous
I've learned that I can take about 2 inches in diameter, anything else is WAYYYY to much. I wouldn't go any larger then that personally.
06/26/2012
Contributor: Lavendar Lavendar
Quote:
Originally posted by Sinfully
Ive yet to meet a human being too big, but maybe I just haven't encountered one yet.
I agree.
06/28/2012
Contributor: giftdgecko giftdgecko
1.5 is the line
07/04/2012
Contributor: Slimdogy Slimdogy
I see this is a old forum..
So what is average girth and do you women run into 1.75 dia / 5.5" girth much ?
08/31/2017
Contributor: Slimdogy Slimdogy
Is 1.75" dia / 5.5" girth average girth ?
08/31/2017
Contributor: NoKnowing NoKnowing
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Originally posted by Slimdogy
Is 1.75" dia / 5.5" girth average girth ?
I think the average girth of a penis is 4.5 inches circumference.
09/14/2017
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
As far as toys go in girth, one should take give/softness in consideration.
Human penis have some give in them.
In our opinion concerning girths of quality dildoes:

1 1/2" Bandit = small
1 3/4- 7/8 Mega = just right
2" Outlaw = big
2 1/3" BD Nox = Special treat

No brainer how to tell if it is too big/girthy. If it hurts, it's TOO BIG !
If you want to go big, work your way up with smaller ones.
09/14/2017
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
As far as toys go in girth, one should take give/softness in consideration.
Human penis have some give in them.
In our opinion concerning girths of quality dildoes:

1 1/2" Bandit = small
1 3/4- 7/8 Mega = just right ... more
I completely agree - soft silicone matters. check the line of Vamp Silicone - they have a wide variety of widths and lengths in both normal and soft silicone versions.

Because we tend to larger dildos these days, we go for soft formulations of Vamp & BD.

Find what's right for you - and experiment a lot!
09/15/2017
Contributor: eurydice91 eurydice91
I personally love big. I have had a wide range of sizes with my partners. Some were big, some were long, some were average, some were ugly and some were perfect.

But I must say I have had 2 Partners at least who were 8 in, maybe more...
One in particular I know was 8 in because I measured it, lol
That's thick but not too thick. And oh my goodness the sex we had!!

He could make me come so fast and he didn't f****** too hard with it or try to do too much... and I kind of really enjoyed playing with it in my mouth.
It just really turned me on and got me really wet
04/17/2018
Contributor: Lisset Finnien Lisset Finnien
Quote:
Originally posted by Bex1331
When talking about a toy, how big does it have to be for you to describe it as being "girthy" or having a large girth? Does texture factor in? What about length:girth ratio?

Note: the diamaters and circumferances (circumfri?) were ... more
I’m very new to this and I obviously didn’t understand how big. “ big “ was . My thinkin’ was “the bigger the bettah, right?” I’ve ordered 2 different type dildos and both are huge ... lol...I think I need to reconsider my size options. Bigger is not always bettah
08/08/2018
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by eurydice91
I personally love big. I have had a wide range of sizes with my partners. Some were big, some were long, some were average, some were ugly and some were perfect.But I must say I have had 2 Partners at least who were 8 in, maybe more...One in ... more
Well, congratulations for turning some of us on. Pretty juicy stuff.
08/09/2018
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Well, congratulations for turning some of us on. Pretty juicy stuff.
Don't toss them out. From our experience, might use them at a later date.
08/09/2018
Contributor: Smooth69 Smooth69
I like it easy at 1.5 I can take 1.75 and have to work it anally but love it
So 1.75 starts girthy I guess
Looking forward to trying 2”
08/13/2018
Contributor: Iluvgirth69 Iluvgirth69
I bought a 3 yesterday already fantasizing about girthier. So I’ll let you know lol. It feels really good. It’s becoming an obsession why does it have to feel so good lol
08/23/2018
Contributor: Lisset Finnien Lisset Finnien
I am, as I write this, trying out the Big Boy plug. This is my 3rd time wearing it and I am still undecided.

Length is 4”, insertable length is 3 1/2”, circ. Is 6 1/2, diam is 2”, neck diam is 1 1/4.

For me, It’s rather large. So far the largest I’ve tried. I do so want to like it!!! I do enjoy the stretched feeling but I’m very hesitant to sit completely down on it. I’m not sure why but I’m afraid it will disappear up my tush so I’m sitting kinda awkward... It’s lovely feeling when lying down or walking around. I don’t think I would be able to go any larger though. I think maybe a slightly smaller size would be bettah.
08/27/2018
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by Lisset Finnien
I am, as I write this, trying out the Big Boy plug. This is my 3rd time wearing it and I am still undecided.

Length is 4”, insertable length is 3 1/2”, circ. Is 6 1/2, diam is 2”, neck diam is 1 1/4.

For me, It’s rather large. ... more
My favorite is a 2" glass plug. I have a 2" silicone plug but the matte finish of the plug makes it 'draggy'. With some patience and lube the 2" plug goes in much easier. I usually prep myself in the shower using 1, then 2 then 3 fingers - finally the plug.

The side benefit is that not only does the plug feel great - I'm ready if my wife gets the urge to peg my ass. Her strap on is rather large
08/27/2018
Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
My favorite is a 2" glass plug. I have a 2" silicone plug but the matte finish of the plug makes it 'draggy'. With some patience and lube the 2" plug goes in much easier. I usually prep myself in the shower using 1, then 2 then ... more
And is there a lot of difference between the stretching a glass plug provides and the feeling of a silicone one? I would imagine the material makes a world of difference, one being quite unforgiving while other is much more adaptive to body shape.
04/08/2019
Contributor: KittyGoesRawr KittyGoesRawr
Quote:
Originally posted by Bex1331
When talking about a toy, how big does it have to be for you to describe it as being "girthy" or having a large girth? Does texture factor in? What about length:girth ratio?

Note: the diamaters and circumferances (circumfri?) were ... more
I have severe vaginismus and can’t fit more than 2 fingers, so anything more than 1” diameter hurts like HELL. Like, I legit needed physical therapy just to get a Pap smear. A “thank god I’m a lesbian” moment if there ever was one, eh? Lol

I just ordered one of those skinny lil Atlas dildos, so fingers crossed it won’t hurt me too much!
04/08/2019
Contributor: Leil@ Leil@
Dildo's material is a big deal! It is far more pleasant for me to use soft silicone toy, than hard and rigid ones.
04/09/2019
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by GingerAnn
And is there a lot of difference between the stretching a glass plug provides and the feeling of a silicone one? I would imagine the material makes a world of difference, one being quite unforgiving while other is much more adaptive to body shape. ... more
Actually I have not noticed a difference.

My 2" silicone plug is made with a firm silicone - so there is not really any 'give'. It's just all around less comfortable and useful than the glass. There may be softer silicone formulations - but I'm happy with glass - which is uber hygienic - so I'm staying with I have.
04/10/2019