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Contributor: Lena Eden Lena Eden
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In one of the discussions, we were talking about the importance of size. The bigger the better? And dildos are not an exception.

Oversized dildos were among bestsellers last month. Does it mean that folks are getting ready for new heights in time for the Masturbation Month?

If you had to choose between short & thick dildo and long & slim one, which one would you choose? Why?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Lena Eden , OH&W, Lovebears , Gunsmoke , wicked48 , LadyYennifer , La Bachatera , LuLuRiot , lock down , GingerAnn , IJ , kat17 , Kinkykat8 , MysteryShopper007 , kat434 , iovys , BuggeryBabe , Soundside46 , cgs6 , louise83 , slightly curious , Whateverslides , sevennn , Z4z , Robin Goodfellow , MrSpanky , Cummingpartyof2 , ArdentAshley , Missy27 , bad lovely , frisky069 , happycamper , Dumplingz69 , phoenixrising28 , martvivid , KinkLover
35  (95%)
Pure Mischief , dummythicckitten
2  (5%)
Total votes: 37
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Contributor: LuLuRiot LuLuRiot
Quote:
Originally posted by Lena Eden
In one of the discussions, we were talking about the importance of size. The bigger the better? And dildos are not an exception.

Oversized dildos were among bestsellers last month. Does it mean that folks are getting ready for new heights in ... more
I personally LOVE thick. Just feels...I don't know fuller? It's a yes for thick from me lol
05/17/2018
Contributor: Lena Eden Lena Eden
(EdenFantasys)
Quote:
Originally posted by LuLuRiot
I personally LOVE thick. Just feels...I don't know fuller? It's a yes for thick from me lol
Yeaahh!! The stretching feeling is amazing.

What's your favorite big-size toy?
05/17/2018
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Up to a point girth is preferred - actually by both of us. We stop at about 2.25" diameter. The only short (6") fat one we have is Vixskin Randy - the rest are a combination of girth and length like the Vixskin Outlaw, Vamp Carina & Greta (Vamp is no longer in business).

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05/17/2018
Contributor: Lena Eden Lena Eden
(EdenFantasys)
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
Up to a point girth is preferred - actually by both of us. We stop at about 2.25" diameter. The only short (6") fat one we have is Vixskin Randy - the rest are a combination of girth and length like the Vixskin Outlaw, Vamp Carina & ... more
How about the inflatable toys? Do you have any experience with them?
05/18/2018
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by Lena Eden
How about the inflatable toys? Do you have any experience with them?
No inflatables. I've never seen one in silicone and I won't buy anything else. However we have made extensive use of tapered silicone toys to help get ready for larger toys.

I found the Champlette to be effective because of the taper and the smooth silicone finish. I liked it so much that I found a discontinued version of it called the Champ. They look the same except the Champ tapers up to 2" - the Champlette only 1.5".

It's a good thing that silicone pretty much lasts forever! I have at least 4 favorite dildos that can no longer be purchased!
05/24/2018
Contributor: Lena Eden Lena Eden
(EdenFantasys)
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
No inflatables. I've never seen one in silicone and I won't buy anything else. However we have made extensive use of tapered silicone toys to help get ready for larger toys.

I found the Champlette to be effective because of the taper ... more
I have good news We've got plenty of inflatable silicone toys on EdenFanatsys today. So, now you can enjoy the fantastic stretching feeling without worrying about the material safety.

One of the newest toys is Zenith prostate massager. There are also silicone rabbits, strap-on sets, and so on.. Everything you need for unrivaled pleasure

May I know what are the dildos you miss?? probably we can add them in stock?
05/29/2018
Contributor: lock down lock down
We enjoy thicker toys and fisting her her satisfaction. Lot's of girth is always welcome at our house.
05/30/2018
Contributor: Pure Mischief Pure Mischief
Hmmmm... longer for oral play and thicker for down below
05/30/2018
Contributor: Smooth69 Smooth69
If I had to choose I’d take it wider like 2” before longer
But I could take 2” x 8” long now
My ass is begging for another new one
10/19/2018
Contributor: Iluvgirth69 Iluvgirth69
Oh damn I want that thing inside of me.
10/25/2018
Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
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02/12/2019
Contributor: gehuwd gehuwd
Girth for sure. In fact the girthy giant in the picture is the thickest one we have. It takes some warming up, but have been able to fit all of it vaginally.
03/13/2019
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
What a cheap copy and paste rip off - are we points farming or what!
07/07/2019
Contributor: Leil@ Leil@
(EdenFantasys)
The perfect option for me is midsized toys, but if to choose between girth and length, I would pick the girth. I don't really like when a toy is too long, even in case of anal penetration
07/10/2019
Contributor: C and J C and J
Girth
11/23/2019
Contributor: John E W John E W
I went with girth. But I would have to say a mix between both. I like a full feeling while having a certain length. The misses prefers length as girth is painful for her.
12/06/2019
Contributor: ArdentAshley ArdentAshley
For me, the girthier - the better. I guess, my vagina is not very long even in the aroused state, so long toys can even be painful at some point. But I do love the sense of fullness!
10/09/2020
Contributor: NinaH NinaH
I'm up to girth either. Toys with decent thickness are very stimulating even if they don't have a texture. At the same time, the length is important also! Too short toys are just unable to hit all the sweet spots inside.
10/09/2020
Contributor: Sex Guy Sex Guy
My GF prefers girth as many women do, as for me, length matters too
10/09/2020
Contributor: Ryden Cox Ryden Cox
I get off much more with girth. Length can be painful 'cause as an intersex person, it hits some internal gonads and doesn't feel great.
10/10/2020
Contributor: Marion Thundering Marion Thundering
I like long. Really long and thick.
10/14/2020
Contributor: Angela M Angela M
Girth! Especially if the head is like a mushroom, it rubs the G -spot perfectly!
10/19/2020
Contributor: PegMe PegMe
Quote:
Originally posted by Lena Eden
In one of the discussions, we were talking about the importance of size. The bigger the better? And dildos are not an exception.

Oversized dildos were among bestsellers last month. Does it mean that folks are getting ready for new heights in ... more
As a pegging bottom, I love the full feeling of a thick dildo. While I like our 9 in. insertable Hoodlum (great texture, 1 1/2 in diameter) I perfer the thicker 7 1/2 in. Dr. Skin (2 in. diameter). I feels more "natural" and seems easier to use in the harness.
10/29/2020
Contributor: Shark09 Shark09
I would choose the short girthy one.
I love feeling stretched out.
11/06/2020
Contributor: Shark09 Shark09
Quote:
Originally posted by Shark09
I would choose the short girthy one.
I love feeling stretched out.
Actually now that I think about it. I think a long girthy one will also feel great. I love the stretching feeling.
11/08/2020
Contributor: ScytheSong ScytheSong
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
No inflatables. I've never seen one in silicone and I won't buy anything else. However we have made extensive use of tapered silicone toys to help get ready for larger toys.

I found the Champlette to be effective because of the taper ... more
Primal Hardwere has some inflatable silicone toys. If you aren't put off by anthropomorphic canine dick, they are high quality.
11/09/2020
Contributor: I preferred a mix between the two I preferred a mix between the two
Both are equally important
11/17/2020
Contributor: Honeydipper66 Honeydipper66
Girth, hands down
09/29/2022