I've read that almost all Pure Wand users recommend that the wand be used in a gentle rocking back-and-forth manner vs. the more traditional thrusting in-and-out. My question comes as to the specific way you rock it back and forth for best results. Seems like you would want to rock it by keeping some constant pressure down and away on the wand (i.e., the pivot point is the bottom of the vulva), so that it puts more upward pressure on the g-spot. However, I have read a few people mention rocking across the clit (i.e., the pivot point is at the top of the vulva). So which technique do you use? Anyone not rock back and forth and actually use more of a thrusting technique? Just trying to help my wife figure out how to get the best results from the wand. Thanks.
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Pure Wand Technique Question
05/04/2012
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When we got our Pure Wand - many moons ago. I gave it to her and told her to figure it out and to teach me - and that worked out really well. However because variety is nice, I use some other techniques including;
Sliding the shaft along her vulva and clit as I keep the ball pressed up against the anterior portion of her vagina
Thrusting the ball along the anterior vagina to reach both her g-spot and deeper a-spot (careful with the cervix on this one). Typically her vagina elongates with arousal - so penetration distance increases
Drawing the ball up to the g-spot - then letting gravity pull it back down to the back/bottom - then repeat.
Occasionally I'll move the ball from side-to-side along the g-spot
Have fun! Doing things like this - is what makes sex fun. For us it's become more like recreation.We laugh and joke a lot about what doesn't work - but then when something does work - the fireworks explode!
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Thrusting the ball along the anterior vagina to reach both her g-spot and deeper a-spot (careful with the cervix on this one). Typically her vagina elongates with arousal - so penetration distance increases
Drawing the ball up to the g-spot - then letting gravity pull it back down to the back/bottom - then repeat.
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Have fun! Doing things like this - is what makes sex fun. For us it's become more like recreation.We laugh and joke a lot about what doesn't work - but then when something does work - the fireworks explode!
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Thanks Gunsmoke!
Originally posted by
Gunsmoke
When we got our Pure Wand - many moons ago. I gave it to her and told her to figure it out and to teach me - and that worked out really well. However because variety is nice, I use some other techniques including;
Sliding the shaft along her ... more
Sliding the shaft along her ... more
When we got our Pure Wand - many moons ago. I gave it to her and told her to figure it out and to teach me - and that worked out really well. However because variety is nice, I use some other techniques including;
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Have fun! Doing things like this - is what makes sex fun. For us it's become more like recreation.We laugh and joke a lot about what doesn't work - but then when something does work - the fireworks explode! less
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Toys such as the Pure Wand are very individual, so Gunsmoke's recommendation to let her figure it out and teach you is a very good idea. The one thing that is pretty much guaranteed to be out is hard thrusting. The Pure Wand is just too heavy and hard to control with that method.
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Maybe I'm strange but I thrust the Pure Wand - and all G-spot toys. Rocking just doesn't feel as good to me. Not huge thrusts, just maybe an inch or two of in and out movement.
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Just ordered the pure wand. Trying to use these tips for a successful first use. I do not like to leave my husband out of the action so any tips are appreciated!
Originally posted by
Gunsmoke
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Sliding the shaft along her ... more
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Sliding the shaft along her vulva and clit as I keep the ball pressed up against the anterior portion of her vagina
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09/03/2012
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An inch or two of controlled thrusting should be fine - the play that's usually "out" is anything hard or fast.
Originally posted by
Tuesday
Maybe I'm strange but I thrust the Pure Wand - and all G-spot toys. Rocking just doesn't feel as good to me. Not huge thrusts, just maybe an inch or two of in and out movement.
09/05/2012
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