Share vs. Feeldoe

Contributor: forkeh forkeh
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How do these two products compare? Which one works better in and out of a harness?

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Contributor: deceased deceased
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Originally posted by forkeh
How do these two products compare? Which one works better in and out of a harness?

Thank you.
They both work well in a harness. Share is a little bouncier and thicker and jucier and Feeldoe is much firmer. I find them both easy to use with no harness, although I find Nexus JR the easiest to retain. Out of all the double dildoes I have tried (all 4 Feeldoes, both Shares, Tango, and the three Nexus sizes, I find Tango the hardest to hold with my muscles followed by Nexus Maximus (weighs a ton) and Share XL (weighs like a brick and is floppy) . I'm a driver. It matters a bit less if you are a pillow princess.
07/20/2009
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
I have the Feeldoe(slim) and the Tango and have used the Share. I agree with Kuuipogal. But for me they all pop out just prior to orgasm despite strong Kegels but the "look" w/o a harness is awesome.
I am a hard and vigorous driver so a harness for me has been the solution. I have the Aslan Jaguar and the Spare Parts both super.
07/20/2009
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
I haven't used either, but based on what I've seen with the Tango I'd think that the Share, when used in a harness, would transfer some of the pull to the harness whereas the Feeldoe would concentrate the force from the pull (the pull is the force from pulling the dildo out - does this make sense?) inside the vagina/on the G-spot. You'll still get some stimulation from both of them, the question would be how much do you want.

The Feeldoe also has a vibrator, whereas the Share doesn't. It's just a little silver bullet, and I don't know how stimulating it is, but if you like that sort of thing...

As a getter, the biggest thing I'd notice is that the Share is softer silicone, but has more dynamic range (bump-thin-thick) as it is thrust in and out, whereas the Feeldoe is (via rumors) a bit stiffer and roughly the same size all the way down. Both have a noticable curve, so they'd both hit whatever "spots" were present.
07/21/2009
Contributor: Boxers Over Briefs Boxers Over Briefs
I did a lot of searching about on the web, and it seems that the general consensus is that the Share puts much more emphasis on the g-spot, while the Feeldoe stimulates the clit. If you've got a preference either way, that might help you make a decision.
08/31/2009
Contributor: Greta Greta
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Originally posted by forkeh
How do these two products compare? Which one works better in and out of a harness?

Thank you.
If I did not want to use a harness, I would use the Share, as it stays put better than the Feeldoe. In a harness the Share is great too. I use the Spare Parts Jocque Harness.
10/25/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
The Share's pony is easier to hold in, and it is noticeably softer than the Feeldoe. Definitely look at the Share if you're interested in trying out multiple positions (sometimes the Feeldoe can poke).
10/25/2010
Contributor: Greta Greta
If I HAD to choose between the two (I have been using both for around 2 years) I would choose the Share. It's got a velvety texture and like ScottA notes, the Feeldoe being so firm can bang against my cervix.
10/26/2010
Contributor: Stockton Stockton
I have the Feeldoe slim and the regular Share, and I find that both are shaped right for me to be able to come when wielding them.

The Feeldoe is harder, so it's easier to use for anal penetration than the Share is. My male partner was a bit too tight for the squishier Share to really slip in easily. But that extra squishiness of the Share is a big plus when it comes to vaginal penetration, where my female partners have appreciated that the Share isn't as painfully bangy as the Feeldoe.

I find that I really prefer to use a harness with both of them. The Share is a bit easier to hold onto without a harness, but a harness just adds that extra bit of stability that lets me focus on fucking rather than on worrying about when it's going to slip or pop out. The Feeldoe is useless without a harness for me.

In sum: I really like having both, because I basically just think of the Feeldoe as my cock of choice for anal and the Share as my cock of choice for vaginal. If you have to choose one, I'd really suggest basing the decision on which kind of penetration you're more likely to be using it for.
03/21/2011
Contributor: lesbianlesbian lesbianlesbian
They can both be used with a harness.

The Share is thicker, more matte ( I really like the feeling of the silicone more), and is easier to hold in.
I can't even hold in a feeldoe without a harness.
03/26/2011
Contributor: Paradoxica Paradoxica
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Originally posted by deceased
They both work well in a harness. Share is a little bouncier and thicker and jucier and Feeldoe is much firmer. I find them both easy to use with no harness, although I find Nexus JR the easiest to retain. Out of all the double dildoes I have tried ... more
I simply have to ask...what is a pillow princess?
09/01/2011
Contributor: Paradoxica Paradoxica
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Originally posted by Boxers Over Briefs
I did a lot of searching about on the web, and it seems that the general consensus is that the Share puts much more emphasis on the g-spot, while the Feeldoe stimulates the clit. If you've got a preference either way, that might help you make a ... more
I find the Feeldoe (more) offers a ton of g-spot stimulation for the wearer (or maybe that's just me)...
09/01/2011
Contributor: Paradoxica Paradoxica
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Originally posted by forkeh
How do these two products compare? Which one works better in and out of a harness?

Thank you.
For those who have tried the bunch of 'em, when it comes down to it...if you had to only choose one "strapless" strap on, which would you go with? I my feeldoe more (with spareparts harness)...but it's a little bigger than ideal for me. It's the only one of these I've tried so far and I am thinking of investing in the smaller size Feeldoe. However, it's a huge purchase for me and if there's something even better (hard to imagine!) I wanna know about it! My biggest complaint with the FD is that it is so unyielding...this has only been a problem for me when I'm the receiver... and kind of become limited to missionary because of it. So, it kind of sounds like one of these others might be better. In any case, I'd still probably use the harness for support and to avoid it popping out at the worst possible moments!

But, yeah.... which one would you pick if you could only pick one?
09/01/2011
Contributor: emiliaa emiliaa
My friend has the share, and it's got a very nice feel to it. Squishy and soft and she uses it to peg her partner. XD She really likes it . And I have borrowed it before, it's quite nice. Don't know anyone with a feeldoe, though.
09/01/2011
Contributor: Tripod95 Tripod95
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Originally posted by forkeh
How do these two products compare? Which one works better in and out of a harness?

Thank you.
I think the feeldoe is the better product and ive heard it was better out of a harness.
12/12/2011
Contributor: Hallmar82 Hallmar82
I have a knockoff similar to the Feeldoe. Although I like it, I've always wondered if the real thing is better. I think it gives a little too much but is nice for heavy play.
12/12/2011
Contributor: Boobs and Lubes Boobs and Lubes
Our feeldoe is too heavy for play.
02/07/2012
Contributor: Alex Time Alex Time
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Originally posted by Liz2
I have the Feeldoe(slim) and the Tango and have used the Share. I agree with Kuuipogal. But for me they all pop out just prior to orgasm despite strong Kegels but the "look" w/o a harness is awesome.
I am a hard and vigorous driver so a ... more
Wow! Thanks for that... I've been trying to decide between these two harnesses. Tending towards the spare parts but I wonder if it can hold a 1" toy?

Eh, either way, looking at either the share or the more...
04/05/2012
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
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Originally posted by Alex Time
Wow! Thanks for that... I've been trying to decide between these two harnesses. Tending towards the spare parts but I wonder if it can hold a 1" toy?

Eh, either way, looking at either the share or the more...
Since you're a guy and you're responding to a comment about holding the pony in vaginally, I'm going to go out on a limb and assume that you're looking at the toy for pegging (she's wearing it, you're taking it).

In that case I'd definitely go Share for both parties. The sculpted "pony" of the Share fits in better for the wearer, and the more flexible shaft of softer silicone with a smaller head feels much better to me as a reciever. The Feeldoe More's curve and pronounced head can feel good in certain positions, but if you're not in those positions (or if your partner starts thrusting rapidly) it can get uncomfortable.
04/05/2012
Contributor: Alex Time Alex Time
Share it is. Drool...
04/13/2012
Contributor: transfag transfag
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Originally posted by forkeh
How do these two products compare? Which one works better in and out of a harness?

Thank you.
Feeldoe is transphobic, Fun Factory Share isn't. Also, I prefer the Share anyway
05/07/2012
Contributor: dally44 dally44
after reading many many reviews on strapless strap-ons, i think i'm going to purchase the share. what i'm wondering now are some things about which harnesses would be appropriate for use with this?

it seems as though since most harness openings sit at the front of the pelvis, they wouldn't really be useful/comfortable with a strapless strap-on that actually comes out of the vaginal opening...? how does this work well? any thoughts or comments on this? i've been looking for some pictures or something with the share actually in a harness and/or strapped onto a person's body, but can't seem to find any. imagine that.

and here are my main concerns re: harness selection. first off, i prefer something sleek and sexy. i am petite and so is my girlfriend. so basically i want something that is as discreet, yet also allows for some seriously long, hard marathon sessions too.

considering the peek-a-boo clear harness by sportsheets (on a pretty serious budget, and it's cheaper), but knowing that you get what you pay for, i'm also considering the aslan commando and the aslan jaguar harnesses. any reviews on if these will work with the share, and/or any experiences with them at all? are they comfortable? will i be able to (or not be able to) fuck my girlfriend for hours with either or both of them? how do they compare to each other? is one much more sturdy than the other? and how does the vegan option hold up, versus the real leather?

sorry for the million questions... i've used regular strap-ons in the past, but this is my first endeavor into buying harnesses and dildo's separately, and i could use some advice for sure.

any and all advice welcome, and thank you!
05/24/2012
Contributor: Paradoxica Paradoxica
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Originally posted by transfag
Feeldoe is transphobic, Fun Factory Share isn't. Also, I prefer the Share anyway
What does transphobic mean?
08/02/2012
Contributor: Paradoxica Paradoxica
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Originally posted by dally44
after reading many many reviews on strapless strap-ons, i think i'm going to purchase the share. what i'm wondering now are some things about which harnesses would be appropriate for use with this?

it seems as though since most ... more
This is a bit late and you may have already made your purchases, but I'll give you my 2 cents. I am relatively new to harnesses...in the past I did try a couple of cheap ones. But then I invested in the Spare Parts Joque and it is awesome. Comfortable, looks good on, versatile. It fit both me (and I'm rather petite) and my ex, who was a bit bigger. Very adjustable. And there were definitely some fucking-for-hours sessions! The company itself has been amazing. When she and I broke up, I bought one for myself and something about it just didn't fit right. I contacted Spare Parts and they were absolutely awesome. Paid the shipping for me to send it back, fixed it and returned it very fast and fitting just like it should. All the while maintaining great customer service contact. It's so refreshing to have a company stand behind their product and care about their consumers! I highly recommend them. There is another harness design that has my attention. I think it's called Theo. But I can't vouch for it, since I've never tried it.
08/02/2012
Contributor: Herzer Herzer
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Originally posted by Stockton
I have the Feeldoe slim and the regular Share, and I find that both are shaped right for me to be able to come when wielding them.

The Feeldoe is harder, so it's easier to use for anal penetration than the Share is. My male partner was a ... more
Thanks for the great comparison. Just the info I've been looking for.
02/08/2013