I love me some soft dildos. I like to get rough and am scared i'll hurt myself.
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Softer or Harder Dildos?
01/02/2011
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Isn't hard always better?
Originally posted by
Eliza
Do you prefer a softer, more flexible dildo or a harder one?
01/02/2011
hornypoet69
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Not always. Especially for anal use, many people find hard dildos too intense. A real penis isn't rock hard, so it makes sense for sex toys to have a little bit of give to them.
Originally posted by
Matty1980
Isn't hard always better?
01/02/2011
i'd go with mixtures of both. then again i only have one toy for now, and it's hard, but still kind of squishy.
01/03/2011
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What is a good one you'd suggest for g-spot stimulation? I'm trying to work towards having my first g-spot orgasm and I haven't had much luck yet.
Originally posted by
joja
My favorite dildo materials are pure silicone and glass. I use them for different purposes - rock hard glass toys are good for g-spot stimulation, while the give of silicone is good for thrusting.
01/03/2011
I prefer softer when it comes to dildos!
01/03/2011
Hard! I glass!
But I'm finally buying a softer dildo with this next order...with a steel to even it out
But I'm finally buying a softer dildo with this next order...with a steel to even it out
01/03/2011
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Look for a curved one such as the Amethyst, Pure Wand or similar. If you don't want things so hard G-Force is good as well.
Originally posted by
Eliza
What is a good one you'd suggest for g-spot stimulation? I'm trying to work towards having my first g-spot orgasm and I haven't had much luck yet.
01/03/2011
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I prefer softer for vaginal pleasuring and harder for anal. I LOVE my glass wave wand.
Originally posted by
Eliza
Do you prefer a softer, more flexible dildo or a harder one?
02/08/2011
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I prefer softer for vaginal pleasuring and harder for anal. I LOVE my glass wave wand!
Originally posted by
Eliza
Do you prefer a softer, more flexible dildo or a harder one?
02/08/2011
If it is shaped right, I like harder ones. If not, I prefer them a bit softer and flexible. So, both for me!
02/08/2011
Harder definitely.
02/09/2011
I think that it depends on the size/shape of the toy, as well as what kind of mood I'm in. Hard, curved g-spot vibes are just painful for me, so in those instances I'd much prefer softer ones.
02/09/2011
A few years back I bought a dildo that was on the hard side. My wife absolutely hated it. She said that it hurt to bad and it almost ruined dildos for her. So I voted for the softer ones. But I guess what I really meant is that it has to be firm enough to be able to insert it good, but soft enough to be able to give it a good ride and enjoy it.
02/09/2011
I think it all depends on my mood and what I want at any given time.
02/09/2011
I tend to prefer softer so I don't bruise my cervix. I also think soft is easier to manipulate they way I want it.
02/09/2011
I prefer the in-betweens, and my preference for how hard/soft I want the toy to be depends more on how large it is and the shape. It makes a difference.
03/02/2011
i like both!
03/30/2011
My girl likes the harder ones because she doesnt like ones that bend.
03/30/2011
I think it just depends
04/26/2011
I prefer softer
04/26/2011
I like both. It just depends on my mood.
04/26/2011
I've been into hard so far... But just ordered a Vixskin toy, so I'll see how I like that!
04/26/2011
i prefer harder
04/26/2011
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soft for me plz
Originally posted by
Eliza
Do you prefer a softer, more flexible dildo or a harder one?
04/26/2011
I like both, but I prefer a softer one. The more realistic the better to me.
04/27/2011
I like softer toys, since they curve better internally for me. I think the Silk Medium has just about the perfect hardness consistency for my tastes, actually.
04/27/2011
I admire a soft fleshed, mildly firm dildo. If that makes since? The outer flesh needs to be squishy and soft while the inner core needs to be firm to allow me to control movement. I loves them that way!
04/27/2011
I prefer them to be softer because the harder ones usually feel uncomfortable and make me feel sore afterward.
04/27/2011
we like a balance
04/27/2011