My first harness was a cheapo, which I found frustrating and disappointing. The cheap ones just lack basic stability and mine was also uncomfortable. Most women want to use it, not just wear it.
When buying your first strap on.. should you go cheap or go expensive?
06/07/2011
Just go for it.. But I did buy a kit first.. Then kinda found my likes and dislikes.. It's a good way to spend a good amount of money on quality but not end up buying a $200 purchase and HATE the way it feels/Handles.
06/10/2011
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Id go for something inbetween till your sure its the type of toy u want
Originally posted by
jursa008
When looking to make your first didlo purchase, would you suggest going all out and buying the expensive one that you think you want? Or would you go cheap so that you can figure out what it is exactly that you are looking for in a strap on?
06/10/2011
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Buy the best-quality harness you can, but go on the cheap side for the dildo (something silicone, though, probably, as bad materials are never worth it).
Originally posted by
jursa008
When looking to make your first didlo purchase, would you suggest going all out and buying the expensive one that you think you want? Or would you go cheap so that you can figure out what it is exactly that you are looking for in a strap on?
06/10/2011
go for something that will last. its worth the extra money
06/10/2011
If I had the money to buy the expensive one I wanted right off the hop then I'd go for it. You'll get around to trying it out sooner or later so why not go for it?
06/10/2011
I would go in the middle unless you know you will love the more expensive one.
06/10/2011
If you don't know if you're going to like it then get a decent silicone dildo first and try out the toy first in whatever orifice you will be using. If you like that then go harness shopping.
A dildo can always be repurposed if you decide you aren't going to use it for strapon.
A dildo can always be repurposed if you decide you aren't going to use it for strapon.
06/10/2011
After having started cheap, gone to middle of the road and finally expensive, I wish I had just started with something well built. It would have saved money in the long run.
07/02/2011
I'm trying to save for a Spareparts harness, so I feel your pain.
07/02/2011
I would go middle of the road until you figure out what you like and try a few different dildos. Also, when I bought my first one I didn't take into consideration the "fit". I'm kind of on the small side and the one I got didn't stay put! Drove me crazy. Make sure the size is adjustable. One size does not fit all when strapping it on! Strap on's are great fun though! Enjoy
07/02/2011
If you know you like strap-on sex and you know what you want in a dildo, invest in quality.
If you don't know that you like strap-on sex and you don't really know what you want in a dildo, do further research (perhaps hook up with someone who has lots of toys and figure out your preferences up close) before buying.
If you don't know that you like strap-on sex and you don't really know what you want in a dildo, do further research (perhaps hook up with someone who has lots of toys and figure out your preferences up close) before buying.
11/24/2011
Buying crappy dildos might make you think you don't like dildos. Get something at least semi-decent.
11/25/2011
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