Have you ever worn lingerie you didn't really like just to satisfy your partner?

Contributor: Solar Ray Solar Ray
Have you ever really hated or disliked lingerie (or certain other items) but to appease or satisfy your partner... you wore/used it anyway? Maybe it was a gift that you didn't want to look ungrateful for etc.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Yes... sometimes it's easier just to wear it instead of seeming ungrateful... relationships are about compromise.
pinkcupcakes , SexyStuff , Misfit Momma , HoneyHoney , shelly8791 , beeauctie2 , Gunsmoke , UnknownGirl , ColorSplash , Xavier7 , Amy Snookum , ToyingCouple , tickle me pink , Enchantedkitty , KrystalFayeO , The Curious Couple , PonyGirl Sin , dv8 , BlackxxxRose
19  (59%)
No... I said I just hated it and they understood. In a relationship you've got to be real and say what's on your mind and know each others likes and hates.
Coralbell , liilii080 , Lady Venus , Jobthingy , girl next door , darthkitt3n , potstickers , IndependentlyHappy , racoons , sexygoddess , Ms. Spice , Ansley , Ghost
13  (41%)
Total votes: 32
Poll is closed
02/16/2011
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Contributor: Coralbell Coralbell
I won't wear things I don't like. No one's ever bought me lingerie, and I wouldn't really want them to for that reason. I will somewhat cater to a guy's taste in colours or styles, but my preferences come first because I'm not gonna wear anything I don't feel good in.
02/16/2011
Contributor: liilii080 liilii080
He like all of it so there's nothing he's specifically requested I wear. And if I'm not comfortable with what I bought I wouldn't go out in it.
02/16/2011
Contributor: potstickers potstickers
I think this would get more votes if it weren't public.
02/16/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
If he took the time to pick it out, and put a lot of thought into it, I would probably wear it once or twice for him.
02/16/2011
Contributor: Jobthingy Jobthingy
He wont go buy lingerie. He would go with me and pick something and i say yes or no. If it is no, it's no
02/16/2011
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
There isn't really any lingerie I hate, but sometimes he likes styles that are more revealing or I think I look bad in... but he is the one looking so if he wants it OK!
02/16/2011
Contributor: HoneyHoney HoneyHoney
He knows what I like, so I'm never disappointed. I wear it all.
02/16/2011
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
I didn't vote because I didn't like the options. I would have voted yes if that is all it said. My boyfriend has picked out quite a bit of lingerie for me. He has great taste. HOWEVER, he has had one choice that I absolutely thought looked ridiculous and isn't my style. He had seen it out of the corner of his eye and commented on how he wanted to see me in it. I could not believe it! I bought it for his birthday and surprised him after making fun of him for a bit to throw him off. ...It's funny this poll came up today because I have been working on the review.
02/16/2011
Contributor: AU AU
Neither extreme seems quite fitting.

My partner has pretty nice taste. If we had two copies of the same catalog and we were told to pick out some lingerie for me, we'd probably pick out some of the same things.

There are panties that He has picked out that I don't really love. I wouldn't say I didn't like them, though. And they were a gift. I wear these panties on the occasion, but not really just to please my partner.
02/17/2011
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I voted for my wife - she's not a big fan of lingerie. It's not that she doesn't like what I buy, it doesn't stay on long and she feels it 'just gets in the way'.
02/17/2011
Contributor: IndependentlyHappy IndependentlyHappy
Neither of the available choices really applies to me, but I voted "no" since I've never felt that I had to wear lingerie simply to please a partner. I wear what pleases me.
02/18/2011
Contributor: SerenityRed SerenityRed
Quote:
Originally posted by Coralbell
I won't wear things I don't like. No one's ever bought me lingerie, and I wouldn't really want them to for that reason. I will somewhat cater to a guy's taste in colours or styles, but my preferences come first because I'm not ... more
I totally agree with you.
02/19/2011
Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
As long as it isn't uncomfortable I'll give it a go. It's not like it stays on long, anyway.
02/19/2011
Contributor: ColorSplash ColorSplash
I have worn lingerie that my partner liked but I disliked. If it gets him in the mood then I would wear it for him as long as I could get the satisfaction in the bedroom.
02/20/2011
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
My partner has never purchased me any lingerie, so I can't vote.

I have worn lingerie that made me feel ridiculous bcs the sizing was all wrong but it looked sexy anyway. I am so open to everything though, I doubt my guy could ever shock me when it comes down to lingerie.
02/20/2011
Contributor: Xavier7 Xavier7
Quote:
Originally posted by Solar Ray
Have you ever really hated or disliked lingerie (or certain other items) but to appease or satisfy your partner... you wore/used it anyway? Maybe it was a gift that you didn't want to look ungrateful for etc.
Yes, I have. Hello Kitty Boxers.
02/23/2011
Contributor: Amy Snookum Amy Snookum
No, we are wearing thing only we like
03/29/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
I have never gotten lingerie that I hated so, I don't know. I would suspect, as long as he thought it was sexy, I would too. He has incredible taste. When he shops for me everything looks fantastic. Not so much, when I shop for myself.
03/29/2011
Contributor: tickle me pink tickle me pink
Not exactly lingerie, but I hate wearing thongs (which does include some of the lingerie I have) but I will wear them occasionally because he really likes them on me.
03/29/2011
Contributor: KrystalFayeO KrystalFayeO
My husband bought me a nightie and panties set and I didn't like the feel of the material, and it didn't make me feel very sexy, but it was the only time he had ever bought me anything like that, so I wore it to make him happy.
04/08/2011
Contributor: K101 K101
Not sure how to vote on this one. I haven't ever disliked any of the items I have, except a few toys but that doesn't hurt his feelings and I certainly wasn't afraid to say I hated the toys. He's just glad when I tell him what I like and dislike. Also, he'd never be upset or think I was being ungrateful if I didn't like something. I've never disliked any lingerie I owned really. I'm the one who picks that out and that's how I like it. I prefer picking what I like and he likes it that way too. If I did dislike something I would say so though. He'd be upset if I done something that I didn't want to do and didn't tell him that I didn't like it or want to wear/do it.
04/17/2011
Contributor: sexygoddess sexygoddess
No.. everyone Ive been with prefers just nothing over lingirie. Saddness
04/17/2011
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
Quote:
Originally posted by Solar Ray
Have you ever really hated or disliked lingerie (or certain other items) but to appease or satisfy your partner... you wore/used it anyway? Maybe it was a gift that you didn't want to look ungrateful for etc.
no if i don't force him to do things he doesn't want to do, i'm not going to do things i don't like
04/18/2011
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
I buy the lingerie and if I hate the item, I'm not wearing it. How can I exude sex and be seductive if I'm constantly scratching, adjusting or otherwise focused on the outfit?
07/20/2011