I would say it's important just like any other aspect of a relationship
How important is sex in your relationship?
01/29/2012
I feel a little shallow answering that sex is extremely important, but it really is. My current partner is AMAZING in bed and he and I are both extremely kinky and adventurous with high libidos. And it's great, and I can't imagine anything less now that I've had this.
01/29/2012
Its pretty up there for me. id say an 8 or so. Not just the sex per se, but the intimacy moreso.
01/29/2012
When the sex breaks down, so does everything else in our relationship. It's a really good inidicator for us.
01/29/2012
For me it's a 6, and 8 for my husband. I don't feel like having sex all the time due to different reasons, but if my husband doesn't get to have sex with me for too long, he starts getting grumpy.
01/29/2012
Not that important to him but very important to me.
01/29/2012
It's about an 8. We both love sex, and it's a big part of our relationship, but there's many other facets to our love.
01/29/2012
Sex is very important. If we don't do anything for a while, I've noticed we get to a point where we'd almost be willing to rip each other's head off because we get so cranky.
01/29/2012
Somewhat. It is a part of the relationship, but I realize it isn't everything. A lot of it depended upon our schedule, energy level, kids, and life circumstances around us.
01/29/2012
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It is a big chunk of why we HAVE a "relationship". Otherwise, you just have a good room mate.
Originally posted by
Mrs.Giggity
On a scale of 1-10. 10 being VERY IMPORTANT.
I recently asked my husband this and he said a 6! I was a little upset by this, I thought his answer would have been higher but I am the nympho in our marriage. For me it's a 10.
I recently asked my husband this and he said a 6! I was a little upset by this, I thought his answer would have been higher but I am the nympho in our marriage. For me it's a 10.
01/29/2012
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WOW...I read somewhere else where you said, "DAILY" and didn't realize you meant...DAILY. WOW. Just don't know how you find the time. We are very active...but it is HARD to really stay with daily...even when we have tried.
Originally posted by
P'Gell
It's one of the things that holds us together. Our relationship has always been very physical. I'd say it's a 10 in our relationship. We have sex very frequently, on average once a day, sometimes more, sometimes we skip a day.
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It's one of the things that holds us together. Our relationship has always been very physical. I'd say it's a 10 in our relationship. We have sex very frequently, on average once a day, sometimes more, sometimes we skip a day.
It's what works for us. We've been together for decades, so it isn't "wearing off" or because we are new to each other. less
It's what works for us. We've been together for decades, so it isn't "wearing off" or because we are new to each other. less
01/29/2012
I think sex is like the oil that keeps the engine going. The relationship is the engine, but sex seems to make it all work smoothly. Without the oil the engine doesn't work very well.
01/29/2012
It's important, but it's not everything. We had patches where we didn't have any sex for months due for medical reasons, and while it caused a degree of stress, we worked through it. Our communication got better, and our marriage is stronger for it. I'm grateful that those patches are over, though...
02/07/2012
I think it's very important.
02/07/2012
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wow no one hates sex haha
Originally posted by
Mrs.Giggity
On a scale of 1-10. 10 being VERY IMPORTANT.
I recently asked my husband this and he said a 6! I was a little upset by this, I thought his answer would have been higher but I am the nympho in our marriage. For me it's a 10.
I recently asked my husband this and he said a 6! I was a little upset by this, I thought his answer would have been higher but I am the nympho in our marriage. For me it's a 10.
02/08/2012
Somewhat
02/08/2012
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Very, we don't live together yet so we have to plan around each other's mother's schedules but ATLEAST once or twice a week is great. I can't wait to move in together.
Originally posted by
Mrs.Giggity
On a scale of 1-10. 10 being VERY IMPORTANT.
I recently asked my husband this and he said a 6! I was a little upset by this, I thought his answer would have been higher but I am the nympho in our marriage. For me it's a 10.
I recently asked my husband this and he said a 6! I was a little upset by this, I thought his answer would have been higher but I am the nympho in our marriage. For me it's a 10.
02/08/2012
very
02/08/2012
For both of us it is very important
02/09/2012
Its the only reason i put up with all the crap
02/12/2012
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It's important, but not the most important thing
Originally posted by
Mrs.Giggity
On a scale of 1-10. 10 being VERY IMPORTANT.
I recently asked my husband this and he said a 6! I was a little upset by this, I thought his answer would have been higher but I am the nympho in our marriage. For me it's a 10.
I recently asked my husband this and he said a 6! I was a little upset by this, I thought his answer would have been higher but I am the nympho in our marriage. For me it's a 10.
02/13/2012
Very important for both of us.
02/13/2012
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I'd say VERY important. Through sex we got to know each other, and we were each others firsts so it was such a beautiful bonding moment. Just the thought of his skin or his face makes me melt.
Originally posted by
Mrs.Giggity
On a scale of 1-10. 10 being VERY IMPORTANT.
I recently asked my husband this and he said a 6! I was a little upset by this, I thought his answer would have been higher but I am the nympho in our marriage. For me it's a 10.
I recently asked my husband this and he said a 6! I was a little upset by this, I thought his answer would have been higher but I am the nympho in our marriage. For me it's a 10.
02/13/2012
It helps build that bond. We always joke that it is just a perk of our relationship.
02/13/2012
It's important but along with other things.
03/02/2012
I imagine your results are going to be a little skewed on EdenFantasys. : P It's very important for me--8?
03/02/2012
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Very important
Originally posted by
Mrs.Giggity
On a scale of 1-10. 10 being VERY IMPORTANT.
I recently asked my husband this and he said a 6! I was a little upset by this, I thought his answer would have been higher but I am the nympho in our marriage. For me it's a 10.
I recently asked my husband this and he said a 6! I was a little upset by this, I thought his answer would have been higher but I am the nympho in our marriage. For me it's a 10.
03/03/2012
Without sex I can get needy, and cranky...
03/03/2012
It's pretty important, but it's more about the effort and wanting to actually have sex than the sex itself...sometimes.
03/03/2012
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When we were having trouble in our marriage and Sigel was struggling with the things he had done he actually suggested that we have a platonic relationhip. I told him that I was in no way interested in being only his friend no matter how close that friendship. I wanted and needed his sexual attention because it was a special part of what I loved about him. I still feel the same way and thank goodness his self castigation didn't last long because it would have been a deal breaker for me.
Originally posted by
Mrs.Giggity
On a scale of 1-10. 10 being VERY IMPORTANT.
I recently asked my husband this and he said a 6! I was a little upset by this, I thought his answer would have been higher but I am the nympho in our marriage. For me it's a 10.
I recently asked my husband this and he said a 6! I was a little upset by this, I thought his answer would have been higher but I am the nympho in our marriage. For me it's a 10.
Like most 40 year olds we aren't the sex bunnies we once were (thank god) but we still enjoy a widely varied sex life and it is very intimate and feeds a part of our souls that mere friendship couldn't. He isn't my male roommate he is my lover and to me that is sexxy, red hot in the extreme.
With Arch Ihad a deep friendship before the sexual relationship developed and I couldn't imagine not wanting to see the look on his face when we are either initiating or in the middle of sex...and he is always ready. I would say he would answer that sex isn't all that important to our relationship but he wouldn't want to do without it either. LOL Actually he just said that it's not terribly important, he only requires sex 1-2 times a day. That's pretty reasonable according to him!
03/03/2012