I am thinking about buying lingerie, I have always been very attracted to a hot body in some sexy lingerie. The only problem is is that my girlfriend is not the most skinniest in the world and she is kind of embarrassed with her body i think her body is fine and i tell her this all the time. I mean ya i like a hot body but a hot body to me is a body with a little bit of chunk on it if you know what i mean. I guess im just wondering if there is a way for me to get her to open up more to me and to let down those barriers and i guess feel comfortable to wear such sexy clothes. I praise her and i kiss the ground she walks on please give me advice.
Help getting her to wear lingerie
02/03/2013
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It's awesome that you treat her well and tell her she is fine the way she is. However, low self esteem is something only she can fix. Good news is, you can help her if she wants you to. I wouldn't advise you just buying her lingerie though. If it doesn't fit right it will crush her, especially if it's too small. A good idea is to find models that have a similiar body to your girlfriend wearing lingerie that you'd love her to wear and show her. So that she has an idea of how it will fit her and how it will look. I'd really have to know what kind of size she was. Not sure if she is just a size large or actual plus size. Also, try to show her lingerie that is similar to this as it gives more coverage than say a panty and bra set.
Originally posted by
iliketoys121
I am thinking about buying lingerie, I have always been very attracted to a hot body in some sexy lingerie. The only problem is is that my girlfriend is not the most skinniest in the world and she is kind of embarrassed with her body i think her body
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I am thinking about buying lingerie, I have always been very attracted to a hot body in some sexy lingerie. The only problem is is that my girlfriend is not the most skinniest in the world and she is kind of embarrassed with her body i think her body is fine and i tell her this all the time. I mean ya i like a hot body but a hot body to me is a body with a little bit of chunk on it if you know what i mean. I guess im just wondering if there is a way for me to get her to open up more to me and to let down those barriers and i guess feel comfortable to wear such sexy clothes. I praise her and i kiss the ground she walks on please give me advice.
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02/06/2013
I am skinny with a big ass and it is so hard to find stuff that fits right, like the inseam from crotch to butt will be very small on some items. checking the plus size section like tori said would probably be your best bet. For starters, get her to wear heels somewhere then take her home and say leave the heels on, then work your way up to stockings, and the rest. good luck!
02/06/2013
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just be honest with her
Originally posted by
iliketoys121
I am thinking about buying lingerie, I have always been very attracted to a hot body in some sexy lingerie. The only problem is is that my girlfriend is not the most skinniest in the world and she is kind of embarrassed with her body i think her body
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more
I am thinking about buying lingerie, I have always been very attracted to a hot body in some sexy lingerie. The only problem is is that my girlfriend is not the most skinniest in the world and she is kind of embarrassed with her body i think her body is fine and i tell her this all the time. I mean ya i like a hot body but a hot body to me is a body with a little bit of chunk on it if you know what i mean. I guess im just wondering if there is a way for me to get her to open up more to me and to let down those barriers and i guess feel comfortable to wear such sexy clothes. I praise her and i kiss the ground she walks on please give me advice.
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02/07/2013
I agree. Be honest with her. My wife was just not comfortable wearing lingerie. Wearing sexy bras was about all she was comfortable with. She was not happy with the way she looked or how most things fit. So we talked and I asked her to try a few things.
We found a small independent lingerie shop nearby and decided we would take a look. As soon as we walked in, the owner of the store offered her help. She measured my wife and helped her select a few items. She picked out a red corset and helped my wife put it on and showed her how to lace it up. A few minutes later she invited me back to the small dressing room to take a look. BAMM! It looked awesome....and she knew it. She was standing in front of the triple full length mirrors with the BIGGEST smile on her face. My wife was thrilled. THRILLED! The rest is history. She now has an awesome collection of lingerie and loves to play dress up.
We found a small independent lingerie shop nearby and decided we would take a look. As soon as we walked in, the owner of the store offered her help. She measured my wife and helped her select a few items. She picked out a red corset and helped my wife put it on and showed her how to lace it up. A few minutes later she invited me back to the small dressing room to take a look. BAMM! It looked awesome....and she knew it. She was standing in front of the triple full length mirrors with the BIGGEST smile on her face. My wife was thrilled. THRILLED! The rest is history. She now has an awesome collection of lingerie and loves to play dress up.
02/07/2013
i agree just be honest with her
02/08/2013
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I agree with everyone else. Just be honest with her and make her feel as comfortable as possible
Originally posted by
iliketoys121
I am thinking about buying lingerie, I have always been very attracted to a hot body in some sexy lingerie. The only problem is is that my girlfriend is not the most skinniest in the world and she is kind of embarrassed with her body i think her body
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more
I am thinking about buying lingerie, I have always been very attracted to a hot body in some sexy lingerie. The only problem is is that my girlfriend is not the most skinniest in the world and she is kind of embarrassed with her body i think her body is fine and i tell her this all the time. I mean ya i like a hot body but a hot body to me is a body with a little bit of chunk on it if you know what i mean. I guess im just wondering if there is a way for me to get her to open up more to me and to let down those barriers and i guess feel comfortable to wear such sexy clothes. I praise her and i kiss the ground she walks on please give me advice.
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02/08/2013
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