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Contributor: adirondacker adirondacker
I love it when my girlfriend wears lingerie and I want to pick something out for her but there are so many choices what would you get?
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LikeSunshineDust , Adriana Ravenlust , Raven , Liz2 , Gunsmoke , Gary , El-Jaro , Jul!a , Avant-garde , loveshocks , Hawk , isisandshiva , billboard , Stujen , mrs.mckrakn , VampKitty , 7Miles , Mills , SerenityRed , potstickers , racoons , MaryExy , leatherjacket , The Curious Couple , Leaving Love , sweetart , Rin (aka Nire) , lilly555 , MissManners , mmmmm , Beaners , Raymaker , joiedejouets , Tata13 , Llahsram , surreptitious , SourAppleMartini , Rokmai , Glinteye
39  (10%)
JPito , Xavier7 , Chevylady37 , jdloelo , Sweet-Justice
5  (1%)
Mamastoys , Valyn , Owl Identified , frisky069 , cottoncandy , Me4real , BlessedRaven , Fun Lover , MyWifeExposed , Annemarie , Misfit Momma , Rossie , Illusional , zachatach , Victoria , lovehurts , Trashley , ~LaUr3n~ , Teaser , Spring , IrishLassie , UnknownGirl , al16 , ellejay , PersonalAngel , amandaco2011 , Trillian , Dr Anal , TheHardOne , kitty377 , Apirka , PeachieClean , NicNat , Highmaintenancegirl916 , Nkev , eeep , SimpleTeaser , Airen Wolf , Stinkytofu10 , Ilovelingerie , woodsdragon , CindyH , chantalgiardina , Love Obsessed , ginainohio , magicmaxx Mr.Mrs , Kinsey , novanilla , Leather & Lace , Vaginas , ichwillwaffels , Dr. Curious , hybridinsurge , *Camoprincess* , chicmichiw , Sima-pusya , hillys , Gimme More , big b , karenm
60  (16%)
Femme Mystique , sarahbear , Nashville , joaniedark , PassionQT , Taylor , newbern2004 , TameTemptress , dawnkye , Ms. N , ily , biancajames , Lavendar , libbyv , rainingapricots , Martiniman , Robespierrethecat
17  (4%)
StrawberryEve , CS2012 , Nightcrawler , dv8 , Morganna
5  (1%)
Yoda , Laura Ricklin , Harpina is gone , sunflower , JDear
5  (1%)
ToyTimeTim , Do emu , Boyfriend
3  (1%)
User Unknown , BrokeNHorny , Jimbo Jones , Goodkittygnbad , imp , jakjak , anonymouscity , Angel deSanguine , spicywife , Alan & Michele , Kaijah , deceased , Rayne Millaray , LilyLust , Danzig ate your mother , Kiir , lexical , removedacnt , MuffysPinguLove , Ciao. , ~miss.heather~ , her.royal.redness , hornymommy , Naughty Student , rojo59 , ArmyWife Kira , Holly Hox , Domineight , KBToys24 , CockGawker , Jill Ingoff , Sugar Mama , LoveNixie , Blinker , SexyySarah , Janis , Midway through , Lady Venus , TheSexista , XXXXXXXXXXXXX , Kinky Skier , Sera , deltalima , sexyhellokitty , DeliciousSurprise , aaa , Coralbell , sexysweetieshan , sugarOne , petite-n-sweet , null , Madeira , beautifulpierced , mllebeauty , meganthomas , butterflygirlxo , J's Alley , Miss Naughty Kitty , Selective Sensualist , sbon , Robin Goodfellow , Twist , pinkzombie , ToyGeek , Phoenix713 , I'll Miss You EF :( , Love Buzz , Tart , Shellz31 , Kimbertrees , Lummox , BigDaddy10 , TexasFire , PropertyOfPotter , Redboxbaby , Anne Ardeur , lamira , moonlitlilly , Eliza , Moein , Emma (Girl With Fire) , Airekah , Mistress Kitty , Mr. E , guard083 , Lily Night , Raggedy Andie , C4ss , danellejohns , darthkitt3n , Sensual husband , 34 , Vaccinium , VenusianThunder , Lady Marmelade , Hadespark , Cream in the Cupcake , shelly8791 , Crystal1 , SapphirexIce , Melafina Funstuf , sexygoddess , kelaaa33wish , ninaspinkturtle , Corrie001 , K101 , slynch , zeebot , PonyGirl Sin , BadgersRose , Mommy2 , Joie de Cherresse , jcprice02 , Kdlips , lanky , Screen Door , reysgirl83 , lovemuscle n cookie , js250 , Jazz , deveener , ss143 , ravipal , dudemeister , Karen Affeldt , Elaira , padmeamidala , BeautifulDarkness , GravyCakes , Kdlove , EJ , starklover , FemmeFlo , SweetieLuv , T&A1987 , Cherrylane , Breas , Stagger13 , True Pleasures , Lover of Leather , JackRaiden , Enchantedkitty , melissa1973 , Masokisti , MeliPixie , All His , Kissy , pokefan15 , Katelyn , cottonxcandy , MissBre , roskat , sexxxkitten , LavenderSkies , SadoMas , Master DarkWolf , DreamWolf , thornrose , Rory , Lady Bear , clp , Clara , XxFallenAngelxX , KRD , Ex-prude , SoloJoe , wwwww , jessiegurl316 , Artishok , ohsnaprawr , Karakaten , Mikemanz , Virgingasms , Passion plum , Living Doll , cj89 , Gluesnffr , Andrey2052 , leanright69 , MissCandyland , SecretKinksters , Incendiaire , nosrslylol , Newmie , jessi2 , tunacan75 , mjtheprincess , Falsepast , wanderer5964 , shorejen9 , CandiHeart , NaughtyHouseWife , spiced , BrittaniMaree , Feisty , LaSchwartz , ashboo32 , Firemenlafd2 , Geogeo , 783883877299373783 , Boosty , B. Loved , CJK , chocolateANDlace
204  (53%)
Backseat Boohoo , Luscious Lily , Rockin' , VelvetBound , ~*SurrealisticFantasy*~ , Wrecked-Czech , Rocky LaFemme , Undressed Reviews , Saraid , EffinSara , doc , PurpleReign , xsapphirexangelx , Sammi , Jman21 , Passionate Pastor , joja , TheCleansing , kcordie , Blu , rdytogo , Checkmate , ~inner~Rhonda~ , hspence , Devz , jay28 , Huggie bear , mmike , Powder , Mikex , WhoopieDoo , geliebt , switzerland , zracer , sarillia , rom323 , VanillaFreeSex , kolink , plaidvulva , Voir , Arlinnae , amenti , ~BabyCakes~ , sillylilkitten
44  (11%)
Sanjay , leatherlover
2  (1%)
Total votes: 384
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06/28/2009
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Contributor: Backseat Boohoo Backseat Boohoo
I love lingerie in general, but if I were forced to pick just one thing, I'd go with garterbelts and stockings, namely black lace. Too sexy for words.
06/28/2009
Contributor: Average Joe Average Joe
I like fishnet, whatever it is, I'm down.
06/28/2009
Contributor: User Unknown User Unknown
I love corsets. Love them.
06/28/2009
Contributor: Luscious Lily Luscious Lily
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Originally posted by Backseat Boohoo
I love lingerie in general, but if I were forced to pick just one thing, I'd go with garterbelts and stockings, namely black lace. Too sexy for words.
Same here. It's also easier to find a size that fits well without trying it on first.
06/28/2009
Contributor: LikeSunshineDust LikeSunshineDust
I absolutely love corsets, but I like picking out my own. I'd rather have my guy bet me really sexy matching bra and panties.
06/29/2009
Contributor: Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
This is a really hard poll for me. I'll probably vote bra and panties. Also, I don't consider corsets lingerie.
06/29/2009
Contributor: Jimbo Jones Jimbo Jones
I really like the look of corsets, but I have no idea how I would ever pick one out for my partner without her input.
06/29/2009
Contributor: User Unknown User Unknown
Quote:
Originally posted by Adriana Ravenlust
This is a really hard poll for me. I'll probably vote bra and panties. Also, I don't consider corsets lingerie.
Hmm, you know I guess that is kind of true. More of an "outfit" and many can be worn in public. I've never thought about whether I technically consider them lingerie. So I guess I'd agree, a matching bra and panty set would make a great gift, and it would be easier to sneakily get her size if it's a surprise.
06/29/2009
Contributor: Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
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Originally posted by User Unknown
Hmm, you know I guess that is kind of true. More of an "outfit" and many can be worn in public. I've never thought about whether I technically consider them lingerie. So I guess I'd agree, a matching bra and panty set would make a ... more
I didn't even see that this was about buying for a gift. Ugh LOL Then I would especially not go with a real corset because of sizing issues. Most women won't even know how to buy one.

I think a bra and panty set is not intimating and available in enough styles that you could feel out whether a more serious piece of lingerie would be acceptable in the future.
06/29/2009
Contributor: Rockin' Rockin'
I like a good corset paired with a garter belt and stockings. I agree with Adriana that a bra/panty set would be a better choice early on.
06/29/2009
Contributor: Raven Raven
I like a lot of those choices, but a sexy bra and panty set would probably be the easiest and safest, plus the most versatile since they can be worn anywhere, anytime.

But I will say that one of the sexiest gifts my husband ever bought for me was a pair of crotchless pantyhose. We both LOVED them, especially outside the house.
06/29/2009
Contributor: BrokeNHorny BrokeNHorny
Corsets and bustiers are hands down the best in our books. They have the best combination of sexiness and don't reveal too much right away. You have to put a little more effort into the act, and that adds so much to the experience.
06/29/2009
Contributor: Goodkittygnbad Goodkittygnbad
A pretty corset with a nice set of thigh highs will make ANY woman feel beautiful. I had one of the most beautiful corsets that I gave away when an ex and I split, I wish I had it back so bad now. I felt so pretty in it, even when I was just trying it on to see if it still fit. LOL
06/29/2009
Contributor: BrokeNHorny BrokeNHorny
My partner and I reviewed a great corset set for this site. You should check it out, it might be a good addition to your wardrobe. link
06/29/2009
Contributor: imp imp
Corsets hands down but I also wear them with jeans so not always in the category of lingerie, combined with thigh highs and garters ... yum. All women look hot in that get up, but as a gift for a lover then a sexy set of bra and panties always go down a treat, the key is what she feels sexy in too.
06/29/2009
Contributor: Sir Sir
I honestly have no idea. I love seeing my little girl in everything. I'm torn between babydolls and stockings and garter belts. I love seeing her in cute things, so really any of them are good, as long as they're cute on her (which everything is).
06/30/2009
Contributor: adirondacker adirondacker
Thanks everyone for all the input! I do find corsets extremely sexy but from what I've seen here and while shopping it seems corsets are just beyond my shopping know how without my girlfriends input. Since I want to surprise her I think I will end up going with some kind of hosiery and hopefully a garter. It just seems that they would be the best combination of sexy and easy to size without having too ask her too many leading size questions. Now the only problem is whether to go fishnet or sheer but definitely black, thigh high with a lace top!

Which is more comfortable for the girl: fishnet, sheer, or doesn't it matter?
07/03/2009
Contributor: Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
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Originally posted by adirondacker
Thanks everyone for all the input! I do find corsets extremely sexy but from what I've seen here and while shopping it seems corsets are just beyond my shopping know how without my girlfriends input. Since I want to surprise her I think I will ... more
In general, I'd say the sheer pantyhose type is a bit more comfortable but thigh highs of any sort are much more comfortable than full pantyhose and I would consider the type negligible. Maybe try to match is to the type of stuff she wears?
07/03/2009
Contributor: ~*SurrealisticFantasy*~ ~*SurrealisticFantasy*~
I would agree, for a gift stockings and a garter belt are a safe way to go, and very sexy too! And as merinus mentioned earlier, the crtochless variety can be a hell of a good time. As for fishnet vs. sheer, I find them each equally comfortable and sexy - depends on the rest of her outfit, imo, it's more of a style decision than a comfort decision.

Also, does anyone get off on body stockings? Everytime I look at someone wearing one of those things it just looks ridiculously funny to me... hehe...
07/03/2009
Contributor: Valyn Valyn
Ooh, not easy to answer.. I love corsets, but I went with babydolls cause I've seen a few that are super sexy.

~*SurrealisticFantasy* ~, I totally agree. Body stockings always look ridiculous to me..
07/03/2009
Contributor: Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
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Originally posted by ~*SurrealisticFantasy*~
I would agree, for a gift stockings and a garter belt are a safe way to go, and very sexy too! And as merinus mentioned earlier, the crtochless variety can be a hell of a good time. As for fishnet vs. sheer, I find them each equally comfortable and ... more
I think they are all hideous.
07/04/2009
Contributor: spicywife spicywife
Garter belts and stockings are awesome but I like to pair them with a sexy top of some kind. Sheer, lace, whatever.. it's all good
07/05/2009
Contributor: spicywife spicywife
You know your girlfriend best though, if she's worn lingerie in the past, think about what she's picked out for herself and capitalize on that! If she's never tried a garter belt, I think you'd both be pleased. They look and feel sexy!
07/05/2009
Contributor: Rocky LaFemme Rocky LaFemme
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Originally posted by Luscious Lily
Same here. It's also easier to find a size that fits well without trying it on first.
Ditto
07/20/2009
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
I have an athletic build so many things just look silly on me. Size is an ongoing issue and most labels just don't add up for me.
I have been disappointed so many times.
07/20/2009
Contributor: Undressed Reviews Undressed Reviews
Quote:
Originally posted by Backseat Boohoo
I love lingerie in general, but if I were forced to pick just one thing, I'd go with garterbelts and stockings, namely black lace. Too sexy for words.
Yes!
07/27/2009
Contributor: Saraid Saraid
I picked garter belt and stockings, but the thing is, I'm still looking for a decent garter belt. Any advice about brands that are good? I looked at Victoria's Secret and I don't like the ones they have. I want something basic and classy.
11/11/2009
Contributor: EffinSara EffinSara
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Originally posted by Saraid
I picked garter belt and stockings, but the thing is, I'm still looking for a decent garter belt. Any advice about brands that are good? I looked at Victoria's Secret and I don't like the ones they have. I want something basic and classy.
I like the garter belts that Kiss Me Deadly makes... well-made, beautiful, retro-style designs that are still basic enough for everyday wear. Also, comfy! link

As for me, I looooove lingerie and am HUGELY picky. Not price- or brand-wise, because I have lingerie from Victoria's Secret and even H&M that I adore and was super cheap. I also have some Agent Provocateur sets that I never wear. But design and materials are very important to me.
11/11/2009
Contributor: Ciao. Ciao.
Nothing says truly sensual style like a really nice corset. A bra and panties with a matching garter belt is pretty sexy, IMO, but a well-made corset has everything else beat hands down.
11/11/2009