Even if you're getting ready for a sexy night with someone, who really gets the most kick out the lingerie? Do you do it for yourself, because it's an amazing confidence booster, or you like the feeling of it being special? Or is your partner who loves the look?
Who do you dress for?
01/19/2013
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Usually for me but sometimes for my partner.
Originally posted by
chicmichiw
Even if you're getting ready for a sexy night with someone, who really gets the most kick out the lingerie? Do you do it for yourself, because it's an amazing confidence booster, or you like the feeling of it being special? Or is your partner
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Even if you're getting ready for a sexy night with someone, who really gets the most kick out the lingerie? Do you do it for yourself, because it's an amazing confidence booster, or you like the feeling of it being special? Or is your partner who loves the look?
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01/19/2013
I dress for both of us. It makes me feel sexy and I know my boyfriend will love it.
01/20/2013
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I know it sounds selfish, but I only dress for me & would feel awkward if I dressed for him. It's probably because he gives me the same exact amount of attention no matter what I wear, so I've not ever felt the pressure to dress for him. It's actually fun though! I like going for what I like and only what I like. I mean, I know how he's going to react, so I'm able to focus on what I feel like in an outfit, and how far I can go. I like to try a lot of different things and the way I dress (even the lingerie I choose) is one of the biggest ways I "self-express,&qu ot; so it's always interesting and I love trying different things and bringing out different sides of me. I used to ask him why he didn't react differently to what I wore, and then finally began to see the good side of him never telling me "this is what you should wear, this is what I'd find sexy" -- I can play with all sorts of looks and do my own thing. I actually learned to appreciate his lack of preference. His answer is always "you're so sexy.... but now let's take it off." LOL. So I just have my own fun and, hey, it just makes it even more fun when it comes off and I'm naked, so I'm okay that he's like that.
Originally posted by
chicmichiw
Even if you're getting ready for a sexy night with someone, who really gets the most kick out the lingerie? Do you do it for yourself, because it's an amazing confidence booster, or you like the feeling of it being special? Or is your partner
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Even if you're getting ready for a sexy night with someone, who really gets the most kick out the lingerie? Do you do it for yourself, because it's an amazing confidence booster, or you like the feeling of it being special? Or is your partner who loves the look?
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01/20/2013
Its a mix, we both get enjoyment of me dressing up.
01/20/2013
I wear the lingerie for me! I love the feeling of being sexy and having such a naughty secret under my clothes.
01/20/2013
When I first started getting lingerie I bought for "him" which would be my ex but after things ended there I still found myself buying it. I often wondered WHY I was still buying when I didn't have anyone to show it off too, my mom told me to buy it for myself if my now partner gets off on it then that is just an added plus. I buy all kinds of cute stuff an send pics to my partner when he is out of town an sadly that is about as far as the lingerie goes for us at the moment. When I go see him or he comes to see me I am usually naked instead of in the sexy stuff.
01/20/2013
Mix of both, really!
01/20/2013
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both
Originally posted by
chicmichiw
Even if you're getting ready for a sexy night with someone, who really gets the most kick out the lingerie? Do you do it for yourself, because it's an amazing confidence booster, or you like the feeling of it being special? Or is your partner
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more
Even if you're getting ready for a sexy night with someone, who really gets the most kick out the lingerie? Do you do it for yourself, because it's an amazing confidence booster, or you like the feeling of it being special? Or is your partner who loves the look?
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01/20/2013
Its fun and he enjoys it.
01/20/2013
I dress for both!
01/20/2013
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I love wearing what he likes to wear because I know he likes it and that gives me more confidence!
Originally posted by
chicmichiw
Even if you're getting ready for a sexy night with someone, who really gets the most kick out the lingerie? Do you do it for yourself, because it's an amazing confidence booster, or you like the feeling of it being special? Or is your partner
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more
Even if you're getting ready for a sexy night with someone, who really gets the most kick out the lingerie? Do you do it for yourself, because it's an amazing confidence booster, or you like the feeling of it being special? Or is your partner who loves the look?
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01/20/2013
mostly for me
01/20/2013
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i do it for both
Originally posted by
chicmichiw
Even if you're getting ready for a sexy night with someone, who really gets the most kick out the lingerie? Do you do it for yourself, because it's an amazing confidence booster, or you like the feeling of it being special? Or is your partner
...
more
Even if you're getting ready for a sexy night with someone, who really gets the most kick out the lingerie? Do you do it for yourself, because it's an amazing confidence booster, or you like the feeling of it being special? Or is your partner who loves the look?
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01/20/2013
I tend to wear lingerie more when I'm alone...so....for me, yeah.
01/20/2013
If I did it at all, it'd be for me.
01/20/2013
Both!
01/20/2013
both for myself n my girl
01/20/2013
A little of both, but mostly for him.
01/20/2013
A little of both!
01/20/2013
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