Crisco is an extremely good lubricant - far and away better then the petroleum based crap from Walmart or Walgreens with ingredients in it you don't really don't what the fuck they are. The reason Crisco is so good of a lubricant is it last so much longer and does it "so well" It is natural. If it troubles you to use what you cook with, buy a separate smaller container for your "Christies Toybox." This is has been a long standing practice at my house provides the best to worlds (safe cooking & private "extended :>) fun times". It may be better for us males and it (or lard) is where the expression "grease one's palm" came from. Crisco is to males what vibrators are to women. My wife has come in on my "toying myself" times and has used the opportunity to join in having some fun. She has not had an adverse reaction ever. She like the supplement of "Wet" for added slickness. It helps break "the ice" and allows and easy transition to great love making without the awkward and somewhat embarrasing semi-dryness sometimes encountered.