First time sex with a virgin girl

Contributor: Dannyboy Dannyboy
Hey, my girlfriend finally wants to lose it. Well she is a bit paranoid about going through the pain of intercourse and all. And she is kinda tight down. So is there any lubes you would recommend that would make the process less painful for her?
I'd also need some suggestion how I should go about it...cause I have never had sex with a virgin girl before.
05/16/2008
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
Informative topic breakdown of First Time:

First time - harness play
My partner and I are interested in bringing a strap-on into the bedroom. This would be a first for both of us. Any suggestions for a good harness...

The first time and love
How do you think they relate? Whether we're talking about your first time with anyone, or your first time with a member of the same sex, Were you in a

First time in, what did you try?
So what was the first kinky thing you ever tried? My first time was fire cupping.

What was your first time like?
Who,What,When,Where,Wh y,How was you first time? I was 15 and me and a buddy were hanging out at my house after school and two of our chick friends...

First timer..
What is a good kit for just starting out with restraints etc.
05/16/2008
Contributor: Shad Shad
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Originally posted by Dannyboy
Hey, my girlfriend finally wants to lose it. Well she is a bit paranoid about going through the pain of intercourse and all. And she is kinda tight down. So is there any lubes you would recommend that would make the process less painful for ... more
This is a very good lube: link And if she's willing, I think that would be a good idea to have her play with a toy before you try penetration with penis.
05/16/2008
Contributor: Stojic Stojic
As per suggestions for sex with a virgin girl, Id say lots of lube, lots of foreplay, and follow her lead.
05/16/2008
Contributor: Veteran Veteran
Do not forget about condoms!
05/16/2008
Contributor: Rufina Rufina
The key to any woman's pleasure is relaxing atmosphere. If your girl is relaxed and not worrying about how she looks, if she is great in bed or is she going to get an orgasm - first time would one of the most pleasurable moments. So just talk to each other and understand that there shouldn't be any goal. The more relaxed she is the less pain she feels. Glass of wine can help - but don't drink more than this!
05/16/2008
Contributor: Cock Wrangler Cock Wrangler
Definitely relax and take your time. Maximus or Probe are both excellent lubes and are not likely to irritate her (some water-based lubes have ingredients that different skin types will react to). Also, your hands and tongue can provide penetration to thoroughly turn her on!
05/19/2008
Contributor: Max Wood Max Wood
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Originally posted by Dannyboy
Hey, my girlfriend finally wants to lose it. Well she is a bit paranoid about going through the pain of intercourse and all. And she is kinda tight down. So is there any lubes you would recommend that would make the process less painful for ... more
Some virgins ARE very tight, and it make take several attempts over several days or weeks to successfully enter her. If you are patient and gentle with her, she will gradually relax and things will get easier. The vagina is an amazing thing with a great capacity to stretch and eventually fit you. It just may take time, so work on helping her to develop her arousal, to the point where she is very wet with natural lubricant. You are her first lover, and she will remember how you treated her gift for the rest of her life. Take your time with her, and it will be well worth it, believe me!
07/08/2008
Contributor: XxXxX XxXxX
Quote:
Originally posted by Dannyboy
Hey, my girlfriend finally wants to lose it. Well she is a bit paranoid about going through the pain of intercourse and all. And she is kinda tight down. So is there any lubes you would recommend that would make the process less painful for ... more
I would just say wear a condom, and follow her lead. Some women are not as vocal as others so watch her face while you are starting, and ease up or continue based on her reactions. Just be gentle, unless she tells you other wise. And just a note. Cuddle with her afterwards. If you act awkward, she will feel the same.
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