Guys - Need help picking a Fleshlight for a friend!

Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
I recently bought my male friend a Tenga egg. Long story on why, but he ended up really liking it. His birthday is coming up and since he liked the Tenga so much I wanted to upgrade him. I showed him some photos of different ones and he said "you pick, you have more experience." Problem is that I have experience with female sex toys and don't have a penis to test Fleshlights out.

I'd put up a poll on which is best, but there's so many that the poll would be ridiculous. He wasn't a fan of the Freaks line (what a shame!) and I think he'd prefer one in the shape of a vagina rather than an ass or just a hole.

With that info - which Fleshlight should I pick? Which ones are your favorites and why? Is there really a huge difference from model to model?
10/12/2012
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Contributor: Beck Beck
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Originally posted by - Kira -
I recently bought my male friend a Tenga egg. Long story on why, but he ended up really liking it. His birthday is coming up and since he liked the Tenga so much I wanted to upgrade him. I showed him some photos of different ones and he said ... more
Maybe he has a porn star preference?
10/12/2012
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
I really enjoy my Tenga flip hole black. I've never used a fleshlight but wonder how easy it would be to clean compared to how easy it is to clean the Flip Hole.
10/12/2012
Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
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Originally posted by Beck
Maybe he has a porn star preference?
He watches YouPorn and stuff like that. I don't think he'd even know who the featured girls are.
10/12/2012
Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
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Originally posted by RonLee
I really enjoy my Tenga flip hole black. I've never used a fleshlight but wonder how easy it would be to clean compared to how easy it is to clean the Flip Hole.
Hm. I always kinda assumed Fleshlights were the be all and end all of masturbators. Perhaps I'm wrong. If the Tenga is easier to clean that might be a big bonus.
10/12/2012
Contributor: cherryredhead88 cherryredhead88
I'm glad this thread is here because I am having the same issue.

My friend has a toy that he doesn't really care for. We can't figure out what it is since he has had it for a while, but it is simply ribbed on the inside and it is BLOWN to crap!

I know Fleshlights are awesome and the ones I have actually seen are pretty cool. I just don't know what kind of texture he likes.

Like you said, Kira, I am an expert on the female stuff! I personally think all the Fleshlight textures are awesome but everyone has their own preference.

I am gonna grab an egg so he can see what kind of texture he likes, hopefully I can get the fleshlight I requested for him !
10/13/2012
Contributor: Kindred Kindred
For the standard Fleshlights, the only difference is really the interior texture. The material is basically the same with only very slight differences, for example between the opaque Ice model versus the flesh colored ones. The exterior appearance also varies, but that is more aesthetic than functional. You have to read the reviews carefully regarding the internal textures because many will be the same but the product page does not differentiate.

The Fleshlight Sex in a Can line is made of the same material but is overall smaller in length and diameter. So if your friend is above average, the SIAC line would not be recommended.

Fleshlight also has some newer models recently released (Blade and Sword), which I don't know much about except that the canister is now squeezable to increase pressure. I believe the textures are new as well.

The Tenga Flip Hole line (White, Black, Red, and Silver) are large canister style masturbators. The internal material is firmer than a Fleshlight. They open up along the length for easier cleaning. Opinions vary regarding cleaning the Fleshlight, but my opinion is that it is a pain in the ass. Both the traditional Fleshlight and the Tenga Flip Holes are large and somewhat bulky.

A toy to consider that is somewhere between the Fleshlight/Flip Hole and the Tenga Eggs is the Tenga 3D. It's a sleeve without a hard outer case, is more durable than the eggs, and is offered in multiple textures as well.

Hope that helps.
10/13/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
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Originally posted by Kindred
For the standard Fleshlights, the only difference is really the interior texture. The material is basically the same with only very slight differences, for example between the opaque Ice model versus the flesh colored ones. The exterior appearance ... more
I think that is an excellent answer!
10/13/2012
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
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Originally posted by - Kira -
Hm. I always kinda assumed Fleshlights were the be all and end all of masturbators. Perhaps I'm wrong. If the Tenga is easier to clean that might be a big bonus.
BTW Somewhere in the description it says it's good for fifty uses... LOL! I've exceeded that fifty use thing by many multiples of fifty.
Additionally, I've had that same Tenga Flip Hole for a bit over twenty two months now and even though it no longer looks new, it still works well. During a solo session I'll cum in it several times. I won't clean it after each orgasm in a single session but definitely before putting it away. Still no odors and for me that's a big deal, I won't use something like that if it stinks.
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Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
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Originally posted by Kindred
For the standard Fleshlights, the only difference is really the interior texture. The material is basically the same with only very slight differences, for example between the opaque Ice model versus the flesh colored ones. The exterior appearance ... more
SUPER helpful!! Thanks so much!

I guess the texture thing is gonna be hard to pick for someone else. I'm not sure what he'd like. I was looking through them and there are so many.

Have you tried the STU? I thought that one sounded interesting, though if they're all a pain in the ass to clean the Tenga 3D may be a better way to go.
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Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
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Originally posted by RonLee
BTW Somewhere in the description it says it's good for fifty uses... LOL! I've exceeded that fifty use thing by many multiples of fifty.
Additionally, I've had that same Tenga Flip Hole for a bit over twenty two months now and even ... more
Good to know. I think I've heard other people report that they get more uses out of it than listed as well. Starting to sound like Tenga is the way to go.
10/13/2012
Contributor: cherryredhead88 cherryredhead88
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Originally posted by - Kira -
SUPER helpful!! Thanks so much!

I guess the texture thing is gonna be hard to pick for someone else. I'm not sure what he'd like. I was looking through them and there are so many.

Have you tried the STU? I thought that one ... more
I got the STU for a friend a year or so ago and he absolutely loved it. I wanted a cock just so I could play with it! It was still in tact the last I knew.

It supposedly helps guys last longer but we didn't notice a big difference. I think any toy will help a guy last longer if it is used enough.

The fleshlight sleeves are replaceable, right?

The 3D looks cool but it seems like it would be a pain to flip inside out all the time.
10/13/2012
Contributor: Kindred Kindred
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Originally posted by - Kira -
SUPER helpful!! Thanks so much!

I guess the texture thing is gonna be hard to pick for someone else. I'm not sure what he'd like. I was looking through them and there are so many.

Have you tried the STU? I thought that one ... more
I have not tried the STU. And yes, texture preference is going to be individual dependent. It's really going to be hard to predict what any one person will like.

And to be honest, none of the masturbators are super easy in regards to cleaning. The Fleshlight you have to rinse out and then air dry (usually takes a few days) so that the inside is completely dry before you store it away, lest it grow mold on the inside.

The Tenga Flip Holes are easier to clean because they open up, but you still have to let them air dry for a few hours before storing.

The 3Ds are easy to wash out because they can be inverted (carefully so you don't splash yourself in the face) but you also have to keep them out to air dry for a day or so before storing them.

You can use a hair dryer on a cool setting to dry any of them faster and more thoroughly.

Something else to consider is that the Fleshlight and Flip Hole models can be used "hands free," meaning you can stick them between pillows or the mattress and box spring without having to hold them.

You'll find opinions differ among the masturbators in general because each is slightly different and so preference is individual.
10/13/2012
Contributor: Kindred Kindred
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Originally posted by cherryredhead88
I got the STU for a friend a year or so ago and he absolutely loved it. I wanted a cock just so I could play with it! It was still in tact the last I knew.

It supposedly helps guys last longer but we didn't notice a big difference. I ... more
Yes, the Fleshlight sleeves are replaceable. Once you have the case, any of the standard sleeves will fit in it. However, awhile back Fleshlight made the decision to only sell individual sleeves on their own site. I don't believe they are available anywhere else, although I have not actually searched for them myself.

Flipping the 3Ds inside out for cleaning is a little bit of a hassle. However, I find I can clean it better and dry it faster than the Fleshlight sleeves, which can not be inverted. That may just be my personal preference.

I believe Tim as reviewed several of the Fleshlights, Flip Holes, and the 3Ds. He may be a good person to ask for his opinion.
10/13/2012
Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
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Originally posted by Kindred
I have not tried the STU. And yes, texture preference is going to be individual dependent. It's really going to be hard to predict what any one person will like.

And to be honest, none of the masturbators are super easy in regards to ... more
Wow. All that cleaning sounds like a pain. I didn't realize they were such high upkeep. No wonder the eggs are so popular. lol
10/13/2012
Contributor: mpfm mpfm
Personal preference is going to vary widely, but here's what my husband likes. He has several fleshlights, a tenga flip hole, one of the tenga 3Ds and Maven. Out of the fleshlights he likes Misty Stone's ass the best-but I don't think that is sold here. He likes it because it feels tighter than the other fleshlights he has. He doesn't like the flip hole. The tenga 3d works very well for him. His favorite is Maven. It's lightweigt, a good fit with nice pressure, and relatively easy to clean.
10/13/2012
Contributor: Kindred Kindred
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Originally posted by mpfm
Personal preference is going to vary widely, but here's what my husband likes. He has several fleshlights, a tenga flip hole, one of the tenga 3Ds and Maven. Out of the fleshlights he likes Misty Stone's ass the best-but I don't think ... more
EF does not sell the Misty Stone backdoor fantasy, but the Forbidden texture is available on EF in the Jenna Haze Forbidden. This is what I mean about reading reviews carefully. Many share the same internal texture but the name does not necessarily indicate it as such. As another example, I believe all of the Fleshlight Girls vagina line feature the Lotus texture. So Stoya, Riley Steele, Jesse Jane, etc. all have the same texture. The only difference is the external appearance.

The Maven is popular as a good and cheap alternative. However, the size tends to favor guys that are above average.
10/13/2012
Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
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Originally posted by Kindred
EF does not sell the Misty Stone backdoor fantasy, but the Forbidden texture is available on EF in the Jenna Haze Forbidden. This is what I mean about reading reviews carefully. Many share the same internal texture but the name does not necessarily ... more
I have no idea about his size and I don't think his wife would appreciate me asking. LOL

It's kinda confusing that so many have the same texture inside. It would be nice if that was made more clear on the product pages.
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