Or rather, a more detailed question is, do you ever prefer a certain sex toy over your partner, if you do?
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Do you ever prefer a sex toy over your partner?
02/01/2011
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I do, sometimes.
02/01/2011
It really depends. If he's too tired or not in the mood, I will absolutely take they toy route. I'd rather be with my partner but I have needs and I don't have to rely on him to fulfill me. I'd rather be with him, but it doesn't always work.
02/01/2011
Nah... Nothing really beats a good romp in the sack with my favorite penis.
02/01/2011
Even if he doesn't vibrate
02/01/2011
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I LIKE a sex toy when controlled by a partner but I never prefer a toy to my partner's cocks...there is just no comparison.
Originally posted by
Xavier7
Or rather, a more detailed question is, do you ever prefer a certain sex toy over your partner, if you do?
02/01/2011
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There are ways to make him vibrate just sayin' LOL
Originally posted by
fghjkl
Even if he doesn't vibrate
02/01/2011
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Yeah, that's why either one of us goes with sex toys sometimes.
Originally posted by
liilii080
It really depends. If he's too tired or not in the mood, I will absolutely take they toy route. I'd rather be with my partner but I have needs and I don't have to rely on him to fulfill me. I'd rather be with him, but it doesn't always work.
02/01/2011
Well, when he's away (deployed) my vibe is my best friend, however nothing beats the real thing.
02/01/2011
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What toy?
Originally posted by
Xavier7
I do, sometimes.
02/01/2011
Sometimes it's not about sex or intimacy or taking care of anybody's needs but my own and involving another person can complicate what, at that point in time, just needs to be a short, easy orgasm.
But, toys are not, as a rule, even remotely an acceptable substitute for the real thing.
But, toys are not, as a rule, even remotely an acceptable substitute for the real thing.
02/01/2011
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Amen. I'll be well stocked the next time he goes, but a vibrator can't cuddle when you're done. It'a always better to have the real deal.
Originally posted by
Mnemosyne
Well, when he's away (deployed) my vibe is my best friend, however nothing beats the real thing.
02/01/2011
I'd say my wife would not admit it - but having sex without her toy driven 1st orgasm would not just be as good. We're just lucky she doesn't need to make that choice, I'm happy to give her both the toy and myself.
02/01/2011
I always prefer my boyfriend. Toys are just a bonus.
02/02/2011
It really depends on how I am feeling in general. I would always LOVE my partner over anything else but when my partner is not in the mood or seems like he doesn't want to do anything.. I don't push it because I have found if I do, it is always disappointing sex.
02/02/2011
never. only reason why i use em is cause hubby isnt alwasy around and/or willing. only pull em out when hes at work
02/02/2011
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Totally understand.
Originally posted by
Mnemosyne
Well, when he's away (deployed) my vibe is my best friend, however nothing beats the real thing.
02/19/2011
Toys are not a substitute for a partner.
However... toys are an excellent substitute for using your hand
However... toys are an excellent substitute for using your hand
02/19/2011
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I couldn't have put it better. We feel the same way. I can't "get there" without a toy, BUT, he does most of the work, and the orgasm is always better if he's in control and WITH me. Of course partner sex is much more intimate than alone time with a toy.
Originally posted by
Gunsmoke
I'd say my wife would not admit it - but having sex without her toy driven 1st orgasm would not just be as good. We're just lucky she doesn't need to make that choice, I'm happy to give her both the toy and myself.
You hit the nail on the head, Gun.
02/19/2011
Toys could never take the place of my husband, but sometimes I don't want to have sex, I just want a quick concentrated orgasm and go to sleep.
02/19/2011
Toys have been a great addition to our bedroom activities.
They make sex possible when we are apart; but when we are together, the toys take our sex to a completely different level.
If the choice is one or the other, I'll take my wife over any toy every time!
They make sex possible when we are apart; but when we are together, the toys take our sex to a completely different level.
If the choice is one or the other, I'll take my wife over any toy every time!
02/19/2011
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Yea - in some ways were in a parallel universe!
Originally posted by
P'Gell
I couldn't have put it better. We feel the same way. I can't "get there" without a toy, BUT, he does most of the work, and the orgasm is always better if he's in control and WITH me. Of course partner sex is much more intimate
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I couldn't have put it better. We feel the same way. I can't "get there" without a toy, BUT, he does most of the work, and the orgasm is always better if he's in control and WITH me. Of course partner sex is much more intimate than alone time with a toy.
You hit the nail on the head, Gun. less
You hit the nail on the head, Gun. less
02/19/2011
If I was pissed off with a partner, then yes.
Otherwise, I'd take the partner over any toys!
Otherwise, I'd take the partner over any toys!
02/24/2011
Partner + toys, partner, toys. In that order.
03/10/2011
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Sometimes, yes.
Originally posted by
Xavier7
Or rather, a more detailed question is, do you ever prefer a certain sex toy over your partner, if you do?
03/15/2011
Well, I prefer what he does. However, I can't have an orgasm without a powerful wand style vibrator. Even though his giving me cunnilingus feels better than the vibrator, I need the damn thing to come.
Also, he can't very well fuck me while he goes down, and sometimes his hands are either busy somewhere else, or his arthritis is bothering him (yeah, he's an old guy) so using a nice big dil or phallic vibe while he goes down is necessary.
So, both. Sometimes we have sex with no toys, just "making love" and it's sweet. But, if I am going to come, we have to break out the silicone & plastic.
Also, he can't very well fuck me while he goes down, and sometimes his hands are either busy somewhere else, or his arthritis is bothering him (yeah, he's an old guy) so using a nice big dil or phallic vibe while he goes down is necessary.
So, both. Sometimes we have sex with no toys, just "making love" and it's sweet. But, if I am going to come, we have to break out the silicone & plastic.
03/15/2011
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Weird, ain't it?
Originally posted by
Gunsmoke
Yea - in some ways were in a parallel universe!
I just realized I answered this question twice.
I'm losing track of what I have already done on this site. *sigh*
03/15/2011
I'd certainly always take her over the toys, but toys do keep me sane while she's driving me crazy...
03/15/2011
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my boyfriend seems to a lot. he says it's just because it's less work, lol. but it still sucks, me being as horny as i am all the time.
Originally posted by
Xavier7
Or rather, a more detailed question is, do you ever prefer a certain sex toy over your partner, if you do?
03/20/2011
We can keep our hands off each other to interfere with toys
03/22/2011