What gives you the strongest orgasm? Handjob or masturbator?

Contributor: B8trDude B8trDude
What gives you the strongest orgasm? If only a specific masturbator(s) gives you the best load, list them below.
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84  (61%)
6  (4%)
15  (11%)
Total votes: 137
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08/08/2010
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Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Depends what you want - they're both different sensations. The masturbators tend to be more "enclosing", the hand is more focused but can be tighter.

Choice of masturbator definitely matters.
08/08/2010
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
I am happy ether way. Hand is faster but after twenty some odd years I really enjoy the different masturbators. As far as the best for me, when the wife uses her hand. One of my all time best climax was this way, nothing like it since as far as masturbating.
08/08/2010
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I'm a believer that our mind is responsible for 90% of our sensuality - my mind is much more into having my partner pleasure me than doing it myself. Maybe it's because my wife is very creative with her technique - mixing in oral and anal stimulation.
08/08/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
I'm a believer that our mind is responsible for 90% of our sensuality - my mind is much more into having my partner pleasure me than doing it myself. Maybe it's because my wife is very creative with her technique - mixing in oral and anal ... more
I think that B8trdude is referring to solo situations.
08/09/2010
Contributor: Envy Envy
My bf says his sleeve does, that his hand can get real boring real quick.
08/09/2010
Contributor: B8trDude B8trDude
You're correct, ScottA. I am referring to solo situations. Having just tried a masturbator for the first time, I was rather amazed to see how strong the orgasm was. So far, it seems like others seem to seem to have the same experience with masturbators. It'll be interesting to see what others say too.
08/09/2010
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
My b/f tells me he rarely uses his hand now that he has 2 sleeves. He says his climax is stronger with a sleeve and he also plays longer.
Having watched him, I agree!!
08/09/2010
Contributor: redheadedperfection redheadedperfection
Masturbators! In my opinion, if your hand does a better job, you need a different masturbator!
08/10/2010
Contributor: B8trDude B8trDude
Quote:
Originally posted by redheadedperfection
Masturbators! In my opinion, if your hand does a better job, you need a different masturbator!
Looks like my hand is going to start feeling a bit lonely - and after all these years Right now, I'm just worried that I'll wear out the Flip Hole before its time!
08/10/2010
Contributor: Sera Sera
Quote:
Originally posted by B8trDude
What gives you the strongest orgasm? If only a specific masturbator(s) gives you the best load, list them below.
My husband is more of a hand job kind of guy.
08/11/2010
Contributor: Yoda Yoda
Hand jobs are definitely sexier, but masturbators give such an intense sensation.
08/17/2010
Contributor: The Nakanas The Nakanas
I still use both, but a big part of that is not wanting to destroy my Maven too quickly. It feels awesome and I last a little longer with it too.
08/23/2010
Contributor: TheNuTz TheNuTz
Fleshlights ae amazing products. I have been enjoying them for a while with and without partners.
09/13/2010
Contributor: Mr. E Mr. E
We have a significant collection of toys, but somehow not the first masturbator. I just never had an interest in getting one. I just didn't think there was anything to them. Everything in the local shops looks like junk. Now, I realize that after looking at the current poll results, I need to look into trying one.
09/13/2010
Contributor: TheNuTz TheNuTz
Yeah Mr.E i think you might be surprised how realistic some of them have become from the cheap junk they mostly seem to carry in the adult store around the block. I recomend a fleshlight, but then again you aren;t me. So read a few items reviews and decide for yourself..
09/13/2010
Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
I use my hand for quickies when I don't want to clean up a small mess. I do have more satisfying O's with sleeves (esp. hands-free ones).
09/13/2010
Contributor: Onanist Onanist
By far, I experience more powerful orgasms using masturbators. I use the Tenga Flip Hole White, Head Honcho and the Silicone Male Masturbator and each provides the same strong orgasm. When I use my hand, I'm left with an unfulfilled feeling, so I'll only use my hand when I'm pressed for time.
09/14/2010
Contributor: Avant-garde Avant-garde
Masturbators without question. Fleshlights are Awesome!!!
09/19/2010
Contributor: brandonbadassm brandonbadassm
Id have to go with a handjob just because its more sensual then using a toy on yourself id rather have a pretty ladie doing it for me
09/20/2010
Contributor: Phoenix713 Phoenix713
Quote:
Originally posted by B8trDude
What gives you the strongest orgasm? If only a specific masturbator(s) gives you the best load, list them below.
I voted handjob, but then I've never tried a male toy.
11/10/2010
Contributor: kitti kitti
i like my husband's handjob to me...
11/10/2010
Contributor: Mr.RightNow Mr.RightNow
handjob
02/16/2011
Contributor: ud328 ud328
I chose specific masturbator and my explanation? When my masturbator is my lady!
02/17/2011
Contributor: Mark43 Mark43
Masturbator
03/21/2011
Contributor: zracer zracer
the stu fleshlight and learn to hold it in.
03/21/2011
Contributor: tits only tits only
my hubby like me to give him hand jobs
05/09/2011
Contributor: Selective Sensualist Selective Sensualist
My husband prefers my hands over any masturbator.
05/22/2011
Contributor: MrWishyWashy MrWishyWashy
Masturbator, sorry ladies...
10/10/2011