my guy and I are going to be apart for awhile and I kinda wanted to get him a masturbator as a gift is that weird/would you like if someone did that for you?
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Thoughts on buying a masturbator for significant other
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Is it weird to buy a masturbator for my guy?
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would it be akward for me to give him one since we will be apart for awhile?
04/10/2011
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I've done it for my boyfriend when he goes away and he really enjoys it. It's more personal than if he bought it himself.
04/10/2011
I think it is a great idea. I would love to have my wife buy me something for while I am gone.
04/10/2011
I have done it. Since I bought it for him, he thinks of me while using it, right!
04/10/2011
dont think so
04/10/2011
It depends on how open he is to talking about sex in general, as well as trying new stuff. Some people would be offended, some would have no problem at all. You know your boyfriend best.
04/10/2011
I think it would be a good idea because I know i would like it
04/10/2011
No way! My boyfriend and I are currently apart for the school year, and I'm saving up to get him a Flip Hole or a Cobra Libre. He's used an egg before, but they don't last more than a couple uses.
04/10/2011
It's a great gift!
04/10/2011
I really wanted to buy one for my partner, but he says he doesn't need them, because he rarely masturbates.
However, as you are going to be apart, it would be a nice and caring gift.
However, as you are going to be apart, it would be a nice and caring gift.
04/11/2011
I don't think it's weird at all. In fact, it's pretty thoughtful!
04/11/2011
I've done this for my boyfriend before and he's always been very appreciative and he gets as excited about new toys as I do. I think it's a great gift.
04/11/2011
It would only be awkward if your guy had explicitly expressed disinterest or dislike of the idea of them.
04/11/2011
i don't think it is
04/11/2011
I think this is a great gift idea as long as he is comfortable with it!
04/13/2011
I don't think it's weird but you might ask him if he wants to help pick one out. Just my 2 cents since I am picky about my toys.
04/13/2011
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I bought the Fleshlight Lady Original for Arch because Sigel absolutely loved his and thought it mimics actual sex fairly well. Arch wholeheartedly agrees and actually lets me watch him and his new girlfriend getting it on! SO HAWT!
Originally posted by
cec578
would it be akward for me to give him one since we will be apart for awhile?
04/13/2011
Depends on your relationship with the guy?
04/13/2011
yes why not
04/13/2011
There's nothing at all wrong with that. I'm going to be getting hubby one too, not that he needs it, I just want him to try one.
04/18/2011
Nothing wrong with it. If my husband would use one I would buy one for him
04/18/2011
Perfectly normal and AWESOME in my opinion to do this for a partner.
04/18/2011
I got one for my man, and I see him everyday.
06/06/2011
I'm currently in a long-distance relationship, but I'd buy him masturbators regardless. Lord knows I won't be parting with my toys, so he should have some, too.
06/06/2011
I would like that, do it!
06/08/2011
I am going to be buying one for my boyfriend soon, we just have to pick it out.
06/11/2011
Getting him one is a great idea. I would just stay away from the Tenga Egg, as they only last a couple times if you are lucky.
06/11/2011
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I don't think it would be weird, especially if he likes using them.
Originally posted by
cec578
would it be akward for me to give him one since we will be apart for awhile?
06/13/2011
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go for it could be phone durring phone sex or later when ur back
Originally posted by
cec578
would it be akward for me to give him one since we will be apart for awhile?
06/13/2011
My current has a fleshlight, he loves it.
07/13/2011
I don't think it would be awkward at all.
07/13/2011
I've bought a couple for my husband and I'm not even gone. I think it's fun to watch him use it.
07/13/2011
I am sure he would like the gesture...
07/13/2011
nope
07/20/2011
no!!!!!!!!!!
08/10/2011
I totally want to get a Fleshlight for my guy, but he thinks it would be too embarrassing to clean, especially since he is in college and shares a bathroom. That's the only reason I'm not getting one! I think it's a fantastic idea
08/31/2011
I think getting one as a gift is a good idea, but you might want to get him to help pick it out.
08/31/2011
may be ask him first and if he wants one ,, then give him one,,, just ask first
08/31/2011
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Okay...our answer is with us BOTH sitting here...hubby and wife. Fact is, we think he would LOVE you for it. Sweet and uninhibited gift. HOWEVER, we both find that "man eater" to be a scary looking thing, and while the TANGA's have good reviews, aren't those both "single use" items? If WE were thinking of such a gift, we would get something like a FLESHLIGHT, or one of the more realistic looking REUSABLE masterbators....OR if you are on a more limited budget, get one of those "tube type" masterbators and a nice bottle of lube, together...in a "I'll miss you, please think of me when using this...since I will be thinking about YOU" gift pack.
Originally posted by
cec578
would it be akward for me to give him one since we will be apart for awhile?
Hubbys opinion also...the Tenga's are "complex" feeling but "cold" and not very realistic at all. Kind of like having sex with a "robotic jello mold". We KNOW some guys love them...but he will take a Fleshlight any day, over these.
08/31/2011
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Our thought exactly. Love your "openness" about his "new girlfriend" too.
Originally posted by
Airen Wolf
I bought the Fleshlight Lady Original for Arch because Sigel absolutely loved his and thought it mimics actual sex fairly well. Arch wholeheartedly agrees and actually lets me watch him and his new girlfriend getting it on! SO HAWT!
08/31/2011
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Fleshlights rule.
Originally posted by
mandiegk
I am going to be buying one for my boyfriend soon, we just have to pick it out.
08/31/2011
My gf got me one and I am rarely away ever
09/05/2011
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Yeah, what zie said.
Originally posted by
Yoda
It depends on how open he is to talking about sex in general, as well as trying new stuff. Some people would be offended, some would have no problem at all. You know your boyfriend best.
10/05/2011
Not at all. Bought a couple for the husband
10/10/2011
Nope, I've bought a couple disposables for my boyfriend and he loved them!
11/07/2011
I would buy one for my husband if he had business trips or something, but since he doesn't, and our sex life is so active, he really doesn't have a need for one.
11/07/2011
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You have to keep in mind, though, not everyone would be comfortable giving their partner a toy that looks like someone else's genitals. Given that discreet masturbators are in the list, I'd probably suggest something from Tenga. They don't have to be single use items. The user can wear a condom to extend the life of them. And yeah, the Man Eater thing is kind of scary... I'd save that more as a gag than a "think of me" gift.
Originally posted by
Bignuf
Okay...our answer is with us BOTH sitting here...hubby and wife. Fact is, we think he would LOVE you for it. Sweet and uninhibited gift. HOWEVER, we both find that "man eater" to be a scary looking thing, and while the TANGA's have good
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Okay...our answer is with us BOTH sitting here...hubby and wife. Fact is, we think he would LOVE you for it. Sweet and uninhibited gift. HOWEVER, we both find that "man eater" to be a scary looking thing, and while the TANGA's have good reviews, aren't those both "single use" items? If WE were thinking of such a gift, we would get something like a FLESHLIGHT, or one of the more realistic looking REUSABLE masterbators....OR if you are on a more limited budget, get one of those "tube type" masterbators and a nice bottle of lube, together...in a "I'll miss you, please think of me when using this...since I will be thinking about YOU" gift pack.
Hubbys opinion also...the Tenga's are "complex" feeling but "cold" and not very realistic at all. Kind of like having sex with a "robotic jello mold". We KNOW some guys love them...but he will take a Fleshlight any day, over these. less
Hubbys opinion also...the Tenga's are "complex" feeling but "cold" and not very realistic at all. Kind of like having sex with a "robotic jello mold". We KNOW some guys love them...but he will take a Fleshlight any day, over these. less
11/07/2011
hmmm... I'd rather recieve inspiration, photos for instance
11/07/2011
What about the Tenga 3D? Seems like a pretty nice, discreet item that is reusable!
11/08/2011
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I think it shows that you're thinking of him... I'd make him promise to let me see him use it at least once though
Originally posted by
cec578
would it be akward for me to give him one since we will be apart for awhile?
01/16/2012
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My fiance was thinking about getting the monster looking one for me with the EF points lol, it's just weird looking. The other two are a one time use thing.
Originally posted by
cec578
would it be akward for me to give him one since we will be apart for awhile?
01/16/2012
01/17/2012
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I want to get my guy one and we aren't even going to be apart
Originally posted by
cec578
would it be akward for me to give him one since we will be apart for awhile?
01/17/2012
My wife has bought toys for me as gifts and I have bought some for her. If you are going to be apart I don't see how caring about his needs and helping him to satisfy them is a bad thing in this case.
03/18/2012
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I don't find it weird, but you're asking a sex-toy forum.
Originally posted by
cec578
would it be akward for me to give him one since we will be apart for awhile?
03/21/2012
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I don't think it's weird, I think your partner will appreciate it
Originally posted by
cec578
would it be akward for me to give him one since we will be apart for awhile?
04/05/2012
nope not at all
04/09/2012
I see nothing wrong with it I have gotten a few of my past partners toys for their masturbation needs.
07/28/2012
I think it is just fine
07/28/2012
It would depend on the guy. I wouldn't mind
07/28/2012
I think it is fine. My guy and I actually going to be apart for a while, so I got him a little something
07/29/2012
I love the idea honestly. Getting a toy for a partner who is going to be away is a great idea.
07/29/2012
I gave him a Tenga Flip Hole for his birthday (not going away or anything) and he loves it!
08/01/2012
I don't think it's weird. I offered to buy one for my boyfriend, though, and he doesn't want one.
08/01/2012
tenga
08/05/2012
I don't think it's weird at all. When my man is away, I like to play. So getting him a toy to play with just makes it fair
08/07/2012
No not strange at all
08/08/2012
great for a gift
08/08/2012
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No, it's not awkward.
Originally posted by
cec578
would it be akward for me to give him one since we will be apart for awhile?
08/09/2012
I'm sure most men would think it was sexy
08/10/2012
As a man I don't mind it at all
08/12/2012
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If you decide to separate, it doesn't matter if it's even temporary, then it's better not to make such a gift, for me it will look too self-confident on your part.
Originally posted by
cec578
would it be akward for me to give him one since we will be apart for awhile?
But if you have to leave, well, say for work in another city for a while, then I think the guy will understand you.
10/19/2021
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Hmm, I doubt that people who decided to break up would consider gifting each other sex toys. At least it sounds a little odd to me.
Originally posted by
DenRu85
If you decide to separate, it doesn't matter if it's even temporary, then it's better not to make such a gift, for me it will look too self-confident on your part.
But if you have to leave, well, say for work in another city for a ... more
But if you have to leave, well, say for work in another city for a ... more
If you decide to separate, it doesn't matter if it's even temporary, then it's better not to make such a gift, for me it will look too self-confident on your part.
But if you have to leave, well, say for work in another city for a while, then I think the guy will understand you. less
But if you have to leave, well, say for work in another city for a while, then I think the guy will understand you. less
However, if talking about a short-time separation, I'd consider it a gesture of care.
10/22/2021
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