Thoughts on buying a masturbator for significant other

Thoughts on buying a masturbator for significant other

cec578 cec578 04/10/2011

my guy and I are going to be apart for awhile and I kinda wanted to get him a masturbator as a gift is that weird/would you like if someone did that for you?

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cec578 cec578
would it be akward for me to give him one since we will be apart for awhile?
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PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
I've done it for my boyfriend when he goes away and he really enjoys it. It's more personal than if he bought it himself.
04/10/2011
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
I think it is a great idea. I would love to have my wife buy me something for while I am gone.
04/10/2011
Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
I have done it. Since I bought it for him, he thinks of me while using it, right!
04/10/2011
froggiemoma froggiemoma
dont think so
04/10/2011
Yoda Yoda
It depends on how open he is to talking about sex in general, as well as trying new stuff. Some people would be offended, some would have no problem at all. You know your boyfriend best.
04/10/2011
cobiffle cobiffle
I think it would be a good idea because I know i would like it
04/10/2011
bunny love bunny love
No way! My boyfriend and I are currently apart for the school year, and I'm saving up to get him a Flip Hole or a Cobra Libre. He's used an egg before, but they don't last more than a couple uses.
04/10/2011
BadassFatass BadassFatass
It's a great gift!
04/10/2011
A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople)
I really wanted to buy one for my partner, but he says he doesn't need them, because he rarely masturbates.
However, as you are going to be apart, it would be a nice and caring gift.
04/11/2011
indiglo indiglo
I don't think it's weird at all. In fact, it's pretty thoughtful!
04/11/2011
Taylor Taylor
I've done this for my boyfriend before and he's always been very appreciative and he gets as excited about new toys as I do. I think it's a great gift.
04/11/2011
MaryExy MaryExy
It would only be awkward if your guy had explicitly expressed disinterest or dislike of the idea of them.
04/11/2011
sexyk515 sexyk515
i don't think it is
04/11/2011
The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
I think this is a great gift idea as long as he is comfortable with it!
04/13/2011
liilii080 liilii080
I don't think it's weird but you might ask him if he wants to help pick one out. Just my 2 cents since I am picky about my toys.
04/13/2011
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by cec578
would it be akward for me to give him one since we will be apart for awhile?
I bought the Fleshlight Lady Original for Arch because Sigel absolutely loved his and thought it mimics actual sex fairly well. Arch wholeheartedly agrees and actually lets me watch him and his new girlfriend getting it on! SO HAWT!
04/13/2011
zeebot zeebot
Depends on your relationship with the guy?
04/13/2011
Kdlips Kdlips
yes why not
04/13/2011
Joie de Cherresse Joie de Cherresse
There's nothing at all wrong with that. I'm going to be getting hubby one too, not that he needs it, I just want him to try one.
04/18/2011
nicole07 nicole07
Nothing wrong with it. If my husband would use one I would buy one for him
04/18/2011
Solar Ray Solar Ray
Perfectly normal and AWESOME in my opinion to do this for a partner.
04/18/2011
CAKES CAKES
I got one for my man, and I see him everyday.
06/06/2011
clp clp
I'm currently in a long-distance relationship, but I'd buy him masturbators regardless. Lord knows I won't be parting with my toys, so he should have some, too.
06/06/2011
Rightya Rightya
I would like that, do it!
06/08/2011
mandiegk mandiegk
I am going to be buying one for my boyfriend soon, we just have to pick it out.
06/11/2011
lovemuscle n cookie lovemuscle n cookie
Getting him one is a great idea. I would just stay away from the Tenga Egg, as they only last a couple times if you are lucky.
06/11/2011
Retro Retro
Quote:
Originally posted by cec578
would it be akward for me to give him one since we will be apart for awhile?
I don't think it would be weird, especially if he likes using them.
06/13/2011
SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by cec578
would it be akward for me to give him one since we will be apart for awhile?
go for it could be phone durring phone sex or later when ur back
06/13/2011
MJ1337 MJ1337
My current has a fleshlight, he loves it.
07/13/2011
bbb bbb
I don't think it would be awkward at all.
07/13/2011
Ghost Ghost
I've bought a couple for my husband and I'm not even gone. I think it's fun to watch him use it.
07/13/2011
Steve of Eden Steve of Eden
I am sure he would like the gesture...
07/13/2011
thebest thebest
nope
07/20/2011
ladyred ladyred
no!!!!!!!!!!
08/10/2011
Love Perpetua Love Perpetua
I totally want to get a Fleshlight for my guy, but he thinks it would be too embarrassing to clean, especially since he is in college and shares a bathroom. That's the only reason I'm not getting one! I think it's a fantastic idea
08/31/2011
AndroAngel AndroAngel
I think getting one as a gift is a good idea, but you might want to get him to help pick it out.
08/31/2011
Girly Girl Girly Girl
may be ask him first and if he wants one ,, then give him one,,, just ask first
08/31/2011
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by cec578
would it be akward for me to give him one since we will be apart for awhile?
Okay...our answer is with us BOTH sitting here...hubby and wife. Fact is, we think he would LOVE you for it. Sweet and uninhibited gift. HOWEVER, we both find that "man eater" to be a scary looking thing, and while the TANGA's have good reviews, aren't those both "single use" items? If WE were thinking of such a gift, we would get something like a FLESHLIGHT, or one of the more realistic looking REUSABLE masterbators....OR if you are on a more limited budget, get one of those "tube type" masterbators and a nice bottle of lube, together...in a "I'll miss you, please think of me when using this...since I will be thinking about YOU" gift pack.
Hubbys opinion also...the Tenga's are "complex" feeling but "cold" and not very realistic at all. Kind of like having sex with a "robotic jello mold". We KNOW some guys love them...but he will take a Fleshlight any day, over these.
08/31/2011
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Airen Wolf
I bought the Fleshlight Lady Original for Arch because Sigel absolutely loved his and thought it mimics actual sex fairly well. Arch wholeheartedly agrees and actually lets me watch him and his new girlfriend getting it on! SO HAWT!
Our thought exactly. Love your "openness" about his "new girlfriend" too.
08/31/2011
Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by mandiegk
I am going to be buying one for my boyfriend soon, we just have to pick it out.
Fleshlights rule.
08/31/2011
Jon S Jon S
My gf got me one and I am rarely away ever
09/05/2011
carenautilus carenautilus
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Originally posted by Yoda
It depends on how open he is to talking about sex in general, as well as trying new stuff. Some people would be offended, some would have no problem at all. You know your boyfriend best.
Yeah, what zie said.
10/05/2011
pixxie87 pixxie87
Not at all. Bought a couple for the husband
10/10/2011
null null
Nope, I've bought a couple disposables for my boyfriend and he loved them!
11/07/2011
Kaltir Kaltir
I would buy one for my husband if he had business trips or something, but since he doesn't, and our sex life is so active, he really doesn't have a need for one.
11/07/2011
True Pleasures True Pleasures
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
Okay...our answer is with us BOTH sitting here...hubby and wife. Fact is, we think he would LOVE you for it. Sweet and uninhibited gift. HOWEVER, we both find that "man eater" to be a scary looking thing, and while the TANGA's have good ...
You have to keep in mind, though, not everyone would be comfortable giving their partner a toy that looks like someone else's genitals. Given that discreet masturbators are in the list, I'd probably suggest something from Tenga. They don't have to be single use items. The user can wear a condom to extend the life of them. And yeah, the Man Eater thing is kind of scary... I'd save that more as a gag than a "think of me" gift.
11/07/2011
Rawhide Rawhide
hmmm... I'd rather recieve inspiration, photos for instance
11/07/2011
Love Perpetua Love Perpetua
What about the Tenga 3D? Seems like a pretty nice, discreet item that is reusable!
11/08/2011
ddd masturbator(bye all!) ddd masturbator(bye all!)
Quote:
Originally posted by cec578
would it be akward for me to give him one since we will be apart for awhile?
I think it shows that you're thinking of him... I'd make him promise to let me see him use it at least once though
01/16/2012
Undead Undead
Quote:
Originally posted by cec578
would it be akward for me to give him one since we will be apart for awhile?
My fiance was thinking about getting the monster looking one for me with the EF points lol, it's just weird looking. The other two are a one time use thing.
01/16/2012
markwashere markwashere
Fleslight Stu
01/17/2012
NarcissisticLust NarcissisticLust
Quote:
Originally posted by cec578
would it be akward for me to give him one since we will be apart for awhile?
I want to get my guy one and we aren't even going to be apart
01/17/2012
romstomp romstomp
My wife has bought toys for me as gifts and I have bought some for her. If you are going to be apart I don't see how caring about his needs and helping him to satisfy them is a bad thing in this case.
03/18/2012
goofballmaster goofballmaster
Quote:
Originally posted by cec578
would it be akward for me to give him one since we will be apart for awhile?
I don't find it weird, but you're asking a sex-toy forum.
03/21/2012
Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Quote:
Originally posted by cec578
would it be akward for me to give him one since we will be apart for awhile?
I don't think it's weird, I think your partner will appreciate it
04/05/2012
Clubbinseals Clubbinseals
nope not at all
04/09/2012
Undecided Undecided
I see nothing wrong with it I have gotten a few of my past partners toys for their masturbation needs.
07/28/2012
Vegan Silk Vegan Silk
I think it is just fine
07/28/2012
Lizard Lizard
It would depend on the guy. I wouldn't mind
07/28/2012
Feisty Feisty
I think it is fine. My guy and I actually going to be apart for a while, so I got him a little something
07/29/2012
Lanore Lanore
I love the idea honestly. Getting a toy for a partner who is going to be away is a great idea.
07/29/2012
Ex-prude Ex-prude
I gave him a Tenga Flip Hole for his birthday (not going away or anything) and he loves it!
08/01/2012
quinceykay quinceykay
I don't think it's weird. I offered to buy one for my boyfriend, though, and he doesn't want one.
08/01/2012
wes wes
tenga
08/05/2012
AriaRN AriaRN
I don't think it's weird at all. When my man is away, I like to play. So getting him a toy to play with just makes it fair
08/07/2012
Falsepast Falsepast
No not strange at all
08/08/2012
Abombadong Abombadong
great for a gift
08/08/2012
goofballmaster goofballmaster
Quote:
Originally posted by cec578
would it be akward for me to give him one since we will be apart for awhile?
No, it's not awkward.
08/09/2012
Lovely Jubblies Lovely Jubblies
I'm sure most men would think it was sexy
08/10/2012
giftdgecko giftdgecko
As a man I don't mind it at all
08/12/2012
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