Everybody (while growing up and from talking with friends) says that all men masturbate often, and it's a load of crap. I was under the impression that all men masturbate daily, however my husband only masturbates on average once every two months or so. I requested to review a fleshlight for my husband and though I won't get it for about a month, he is getting pretty excited about it. The fleshlight website has some demos and videos showing off their different sleeves and explains them a bit. I would suggest maybe looking at the site with him to see if he is even interested before springing a new toy on him. I will be getting an "ice" version that is clear. My husband was pretty excited that I would be able to watch the action when he used it.
Like I said, I haven't received it yet, but my hubby has been pretty excited to get something that will be just for him, and that I will enjoy watching him use. Although I pointed him to it, he felt good that he picked out what he wanted.
There are other cheaper options out there too (like Sue Johnson's Head Honcho link
) but I found my husband really liked all the visual stimulation from the Fleshlight website. He seemed to be drawn to the more masculine look of the flashlight-like case too.
Just something to think about, and best of luck!