A 2 part question on cock rings...

Contributor: indiechick indiechick
Part 1:
I am with someone new and he is having trouble staying erect with me. We are both young so I think it has to do with nerves does anyone have any experience with this that could help us work past this problem. I really like this person and see sex as supplemental to our relationship not the primary focus, but I would still like it to work. We are open to almost anything.

Part 2: What cock ring would you suggest in a situation like this? He is new to the world of sex toys/ cock rings but because he hasn't held and erection I don't know how the sizing will work out. Again all positive comments and ideas welcome.

Thanks in advance eden
08/26/2012
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Contributor: *Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
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Originally posted by indiechick
Part 1:
I am with someone new and he is having trouble staying erect with me. We are both young so I think it has to do with nerves does anyone have any experience with this that could help us work past this problem. I really like this person ... more
I am not much of help here since I haven't had this problem, if he is having a problem staying erect with you is he able to stay erect when he is alone? If not then I would recommend going off to the doctor to see if there is anything wrong. If he can stay erect while he is alone then have him measure his shaft for cock ring sizing. You could also get a penis pump to help obtain an erection then slide the cock ring on to maintain the erection. I wish you both the best of luck with this!
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Contributor: darthkitt3n darthkitt3n
We've had some experience with issues like this. Being nervous does have a negative effect on erections, as does a lack of sleep. Anxiety, like thoughts that he won't be able to perform, can also cause problems. My fiance also has problems with some condoms being too thick for him. If you're using condoms, you may want to switch to another brand or a thinner condom.

As far as cock rings go, I'd try to figure out what the problem is before trying one. We have this ring, which is pretty stretchy yet fits tight.
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