When you're single (or when you were single) and dating, at what point in your dating progress to you confess to your new interest that you're a sex toy enthusiast? Or do you? Please share stories.
All the single ladies! (Ladies who used to be single are welcome too! :-)
02/27/2012
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I think it is important to know before getting too involved with someone, because if it is not something they can deal with then they are not for me.
02/27/2012
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So, would you bring it up on a first date?
Originally posted by
Beck
I think it is important to know before getting too involved with someone, because if it is not something they can deal with then they are not for me.
02/27/2012
depends on the girl. Some girls are freaked out, others are freaky little things that will take the A-Bomb on 1st dates..... hahahha
02/27/2012
Once we're committed I suppose. I like to start bringing it out once we get physically intimate.
02/27/2012
Usually on the first date. I leave my toys out in the open, and my dates usually see them.
02/27/2012
Toys come up whenever we start talking about preferences in the sack (usually after the first sexytime). I don't give them room to decide whether or not they like the idea of me using toys; it's part of the package and they have to take it or leave it. Whether we use them together and how we use them is up for discussion, though.
02/27/2012
when the time seems appropriate, i guess.
02/27/2012
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I try to hold it off as long as I can because I think it makes some people uncomfortable
Originally posted by
charletnarouh
When you're single (or when you were single) and dating, at what point in your dating progress to you confess to your new interest that you're a sex toy enthusiast? Or do you? Please share stories.
02/27/2012
Committed Relationship
02/27/2012
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Yes I would. I want to know what kind of person they are and that is the kind of person I am, so yes first date. There is no point in going farther if you can't deal with a persons life style.
Originally posted by
charletnarouh
So, would you bring it up on a first date?
02/27/2012
I'm in an LTR, but I didn't let on anything until we were well into a committed relationship.
02/27/2012
I tell people right away. I have no shame.
02/27/2012
I always let them know as soon as it's comfortable to bring it up, like when we start discussing sex. I feel that after I get into a relationship with someone is a little too late.
02/27/2012
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Not until we're officially in a committed relationship.
Originally posted by
Beck
I think it is important to know before getting too involved with someone, because if it is not something they can deal with then they are not for me.
02/27/2012
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when e discuss sex
Originally posted by
charletnarouh
When you're single (or when you were single) and dating, at what point in your dating progress to you confess to your new interest that you're a sex toy enthusiast? Or do you? Please share stories.
02/27/2012
I share when we started talking about sex, and show them some toys; then explain that they don't replace another person they just either supplement them or are for when I am stuck without them
02/27/2012
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I try to do it as soon as sex comes up. The thing is I cannot orgasm without the help of a vibrator... so as long as he cares about making me orgasm, he can just deal with the toys.
Originally posted by
charletnarouh
When you're single (or when you were single) and dating, at what point in your dating progress to you confess to your new interest that you're a sex toy enthusiast? Or do you? Please share stories.
02/27/2012
As soon as sex is discussed
02/27/2012
I brought it up within the first few dates. I'm with Beck on this though, that if they aren't ok with it, then a relationship won't work between us.
02/27/2012
Committed relationship or when you start sleeping together....which for me is one and the same.
02/27/2012
Committed relationship.
02/27/2012
waited until committed relationship.
02/28/2012
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Brave! I wouldn't have the nerve!
Originally posted by
Ms. Spice
Usually on the first date. I leave my toys out in the open, and my dates usually see them.
03/21/2012
Not until we are in a committed relationship.
03/21/2012
Once we start having a committed relationship
03/21/2012
When I was dating my boyfriend early on, one of his very brief, ex-partners had publicly posted about an old incident of when she found his sex toys -- not the kind of thing you want to be reading nor the ideal way to bring up sex toys with someone you're just dating. After reluctantly pointing out the public post, my boyfriend and I had an open conversation about our individual interests with sex toys. that post eventually came down.
03/21/2012
Right after sex becomes a thing. I'm going to want my toys included, so they need to know ASAP.
03/21/2012
whoa, who voted never?
how could you keep such a thing a secret?
how could you keep such a thing a secret?
03/21/2012
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