All the single ladies! (Ladies who used to be single are welcome too! :-)

All the single ladies! (Ladies who used to be single are welcome too! :-)

charletnarouh charletnarouh
When you're single (or when you were single) and dating, at what point in your dating progress to you confess to your new interest that you're a sex toy enthusiast? Or do you? Please share stories.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Right away!
5
A few dates in.
When we start discussing sex.
21
When it becomes obvious we're going to have sex.
3
When we're having sex, I bring them up or bring them into the encounter.
3
After the first time we have sex.
3
After we've had sex a few times.
6
Not until we're officially in a committed relationship.
23
When we move in together.
Never!
1
Other. Please elaborate!
Total votes: 65 (41 voters)
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Beck Beck
I think it is important to know before getting too involved with someone, because if it is not something they can deal with then they are not for me.
02/27/2012
charletnarouh charletnarouh
Quote:
Originally posted by Beck
I think it is important to know before getting too involved with someone, because if it is not something they can deal with then they are not for me.
So, would you bring it up on a first date?
02/27/2012
godweensatan godweensatan
depends on the girl. Some girls are freaked out, others are freaky little things that will take the A-Bomb on 1st dates..... hahahha
02/27/2012
ellejay ellejay
Once we're committed I suppose. I like to start bringing it out once we get physically intimate.
02/27/2012
Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
Usually on the first date. I leave my toys out in the open, and my dates usually see them.
02/27/2012
Positwist Positwist
Toys come up whenever we start talking about preferences in the sack (usually after the first sexytime). I don't give them room to decide whether or not they like the idea of me using toys; it's part of the package and they have to take it or leave it. Whether we use them together and how we use them is up for discussion, though.
02/27/2012
roskat roskat
when the time seems appropriate, i guess.
02/27/2012
sweetpea12 sweetpea12
Quote:
Originally posted by charletnarouh
When you're single (or when you were single) and dating, at what point in your dating progress to you confess to your new interest that you're a sex toy enthusiast? Or do you? Please share stories.
I try to hold it off as long as I can because I think it makes some people uncomfortable
02/27/2012
EdenJP EdenJP
Committed Relationship
02/27/2012
Beck Beck
Quote:
Originally posted by charletnarouh
So, would you bring it up on a first date?
Yes I would. I want to know what kind of person they are and that is the kind of person I am, so yes first date. There is no point in going farther if you can't deal with a persons life style.
02/27/2012
LAndJ LAndJ
I'm in an LTR, but I didn't let on anything until we were well into a committed relationship.
02/27/2012
Secret Pleasure Secret Pleasure
I tell people right away. I have no shame.
02/27/2012
cottonxcandy cottonxcandy
I always let them know as soon as it's comfortable to bring it up, like when we start discussing sex. I feel that after I get into a relationship with someone is a little too late.
02/27/2012
freda freda
Quote:
Originally posted by Beck
I think it is important to know before getting too involved with someone, because if it is not something they can deal with then they are not for me.
Not until we're officially in a committed relationship.
02/27/2012
The Mother of a SiNner The Mother of a SiNner
Quote:
Originally posted by charletnarouh
When you're single (or when you were single) and dating, at what point in your dating progress to you confess to your new interest that you're a sex toy enthusiast? Or do you? Please share stories.
when e discuss sex
02/27/2012
pinkpottergirl pinkpottergirl
I share when we started talking about sex, and show them some toys; then explain that they don't replace another person they just either supplement them or are for when I am stuck without them
02/27/2012
Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by charletnarouh
When you're single (or when you were single) and dating, at what point in your dating progress to you confess to your new interest that you're a sex toy enthusiast? Or do you? Please share stories.
I try to do it as soon as sex comes up. The thing is I cannot orgasm without the help of a vibrator... so as long as he cares about making me orgasm, he can just deal with the toys.
02/27/2012
Lizzy Lizzy
As soon as sex is discussed
02/27/2012
MGDavicnigirl MGDavicnigirl
I brought it up within the first few dates. I'm with Beck on this though, that if they aren't ok with it, then a relationship won't work between us.
02/27/2012
bayosgirl bayosgirl
Committed relationship or when you start sleeping together....which for me is one and the same.
02/27/2012
Hibangel Hibangel
Committed relationship.
02/27/2012
Lady Bear Lady Bear
waited until committed relationship.
02/28/2012
sydney106 sydney106
Quote:
Originally posted by Ms. Spice
Usually on the first date. I leave my toys out in the open, and my dates usually see them.
Brave! I wouldn't have the nerve!
03/21/2012
MissCandyland MissCandyland
Not until we are in a committed relationship.
03/21/2012
SparklyGlitter SparklyGlitter
Once we start having a committed relationship
03/21/2012
dragonn dragonn
When I was dating my boyfriend early on, one of his very brief, ex-partners had publicly posted about an old incident of when she found his sex toys -- not the kind of thing you want to be reading nor the ideal way to bring up sex toys with someone you're just dating. After reluctantly pointing out the public post, my boyfriend and I had an open conversation about our individual interests with sex toys. that post eventually came down.
03/21/2012
Djiffy Djiffy
Right after sex becomes a thing. I'm going to want my toys included, so they need to know ASAP.
03/21/2012
MR Chickhabit MR Chickhabit
whoa, who voted never?

how could you keep such a thing a secret?
03/21/2012
Total posts: 29
Unique posters: 27