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We are both Beginners at all this... Usually we just have sex or whatever. But i've be ventering out and buying stuff to add some spice or some kink so to say. and was looking for advice on of beginner toys and things. anyone got any ideas?
There's a difference between kink and spice. Are you looking for sex toys like vibrators and things you can share? Are you looking to get into BDSM?
Zombirella has some good suggestions with the bullets! The Iconic Bullet that she suggested is one of the most popular toys around here.
Personally, I'm always wary on vibrating rings. I don't know what your body types are like, so I don't know that they will work for you, plus materials are a little tricky. But, if you think that your anatomy will match up, you can try something like this ring, which is silicone
As far as "traditional" vibrators go, I highly recommend the Blueberry Bliss
. I received it as a free gift a while back and loved it. It's a great, smooth plastic and still has a little texture to give you a little something extra. It also might be fun for you and your SO to venture into your G-spot. This
has a nice, wide ball for your G-spot. Or, you could try something like this
Also, for the sensual massage route, you can add massage candles. The Dona
brand is fairly inexpensive. Afterglow
is a very popular brand. If you like to take it to the shower, this shower gel is edible
. You can also take some time to paint with chocolate
and lick it off each other. Lots to do!
Let me know if you're into the kinkier things like cuffs and paddles and such. I can help you get some very beginner-friendly suggestions!