Clitoral vibrator advice for wife

Contributor: Bill220 Bill220
My wife is wanting a new vibrator and I have no idea what I should get her (Xmas gift).

A little background. She has a very difficult time having an orgasm with a toy (either alone or with me assisting with fingers or a dildo) and can't have one during intercourse even if we go for 1/2 hour. She's had some success with the Doc Johnson Pocket Rocket but wants something that will get her there faster. After reading the great reviews, I bought her a Luv Your Body but she didn't like it at all. The point of the vibrator was too large to effectively reach her clitoris. She has a very small clitoris, and I mean small. She bought this Clitoral Hummer, tried both the pointy end and the cupped end to no avail.

I'm not sure what to look at next. Should we try something huge and powerful like this Hitachi? That thing looks almost dangerous but it gets some great reviews. The plug in thing isn't a big deal and neither is the noise factor.

Any suggestions or thoughts?
12/01/2012
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Contributor: Gracie Gracie
I have a couple of suggestions, Mimi and wevibe's tango are great clit vibes. I know they are pricey, but they are a nice quality! And the strongest rechargables I have found. The problem finding a vibe that meets her needs is that there are so many variables in the vibrations among different toys. Many women need very pinpoint vibrations to reach climax. I need broad stimulation myself. I also need a vibe that can be used to apply pressure. Some vibrators will have a big decrease in power when that happens other vibrators maintain their strength better. Then there are rumbly vs buzzy vibrations. Rumbly vibrations penetrate the skin and vibrate the underlying tissue as well as the surface while buzzy vibrations are more concentrated on the surface. It takes a lot of trial and error to find out what her preferences are so be patient. What I love might not suit her at all. I knew right away I needed powerful vibrations. I have the hitachi and I love mine! If it is too powerful for her you can place a washcloth between her and the vibrator. Feel free to drop by my wall or p.m. me if you have other questions.
12/01/2012
Contributor: Gracie Gracie
Also I would recomend unfullfilled's reviews as she has also had a journey finding toys to assist with orgasm issues. There are many women who have issues not being able to orgasm without assistance!
12/01/2012
Contributor: Girly Juice Girly Juice
My all-time favorite clitoral vibes are the Eroscillator, Jimmyjane Form 2, Lelo Siri, and We-Vibe Tango. They all have pretty different shapes but the motor strengths are comparable in all 4.
12/01/2012
Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
If she has trouble hitting her clit with vibrators, Hitachi will likely be too wide. I'm gonna second some of the suggestions already made: MiMi, Tango, and Salsa. The Eroscillator is a bit hit or miss. Some people swear by it, but it does nothing for me. I know some others who haven't had luck with it either.
12/01/2012
Contributor: travelnurse travelnurse
Yes, the Mimi or the salsa!!!
12/01/2012
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
MiMi, Tango, and Salsa are great suggestions.
12/01/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
Agreeing with the Mimi, Tango, Salsa toys. I didn't have luck with Mimi. I recommend Salsa and Tango to everyone. If you are looking for a cheaper option the Wanachi Mini and the Iconic Smoothie are decent. Not as good as Salsa or Tango.

I'm going to say that skipping the Hitachi is a good idea because if she has a small clit that is hard to reach with pin pointed toys, a large massager head isn't going to do anything but numb her. The Cal Exotics My Mini Miracle Massager has a smaller head and it's powerful too. That might work better for her. Also read my review about that one...the product page has material information wrong.
12/01/2012
Contributor: Bill220 Bill220
Thank you ladies! I'm going to jot these down, have my wife jump on here and she can decide.
12/02/2012
Contributor: Mr. John Mr. John
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Originally posted by Bill220
My wife is wanting a new vibrator and I have no idea what I should get her (Xmas gift).

A little background. She has a very difficult time having an orgasm with a toy (either alone or with me assisting with fingers or a dildo) and can't ... more
You may want to try oscillations rather than vibrations. The one that works for my wife no matter what is her Eroscillator. She likes to take her time when possible, but always comes hard. The Eroscillator 2 deluxe with the grapes attachment is her all time favorite.
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