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Do you have thoughts of public sex by remote?

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Contributor: Mr. John Mr. John
Have you had thoughts of having sex in a public setting using a remote controlled toy? You could be alone, or with that other person in your life. Maybe you have already experienced this. Was it successful? What is your ideal venue or setting to have this tantalizing sexual event occur. Is it a local bar, or romantic restaurant dinner? Maybe you might plan for a movie. Would you like to be amongst friends, who have no knowledge whatsoever of what’s occurring. This all said, what toy will you be bringing to the party. Personally, I've purchased the Lelo Tiani II, but have yet to introduce it for play. What are your plans and ideas, if any?
04/16/2013
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Contributor: eri86 eri86
I don't call that public sex. I call that public foreplay. And I wouldn't. Not until they come up with a vibe that makes NO noise.
04/16/2013
Contributor: Mr. John Mr. John
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Originally posted by eri86
I don't call that public sex. I call that public foreplay. And I wouldn't. Not until they come up with a vibe that makes NO noise.
Sex does not simply pertain to intercourse. If you do orgasm from an event such as using a remote vibrator, I would describe that as sex. My post is a simple attempt at seeking a wide range of responses, rather than specific ones. I suppose in my case it’s semantic ambiguity.

Please know that I do very much appreciate your thoughts. In particular, your response about vibrators making to much noise was the type of feedback I was looking for. Thank you.
04/16/2013
Contributor: snowminx snowminx
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Originally posted by eri86
I don't call that public sex. I call that public foreplay. And I wouldn't. Not until they come up with a vibe that makes NO noise.
I agree with this, yeah sex isn't just intercourse but I don't think playing with yourself/toys is actually sex. That's like saying you lost your virginity from jacking off. When I saw "public sex by remote" I had to take a double take, maybe you should have just said "thoughts about using toys in public"
04/16/2013
Contributor: steelaster steelaster
I have had sex in public places before of different kinds. I actually purchased a vibrator with the above intent. I think a quiet vibrator with be fine, 1-2 bees should work. The Tiani 2 is very quiet and if you're in a public place I doubt anyone would know. If you are in a place with a lot of volume anyway like a dance club or a movie theater you could do this easily in my opinion. Personally I don't really like to fool around in restaurants because I can't enjoy sexual activities when I'm hungry. Hope this helps!
04/16/2013
Contributor: AmethystQueen AmethystQueen
I do, but I've never done it.
04/16/2013
Contributor: Badonk Badonk
i would say the toy would have to be completely silent. but i still would just wait until i got home
04/16/2013
Contributor: B. Loved B. Loved
I know I would like to, but I know that when it comes down to it, I would be too paranoid to actually enjoy using a remote controlled toy in public.
04/17/2013
Contributor: Eugler Eugler
I would really love it but I think the remote toys are not sophisticated enough yet.
They have to stay in place and have enough power to do their job.
If it was possible I would love to replay the vibrator scene of 'the ugly truth' (you will find on youtube)
04/17/2013
Contributor: Hummingbird Hummingbird
Came very close one time with the Club Vibe 2.0H, a co-worker caught me with the remote in my hand and asked what it was. Now I wish I had given it to him.
04/17/2013
Contributor: GirlOnGirl GirlOnGirl
I have thought about it and am hoping to try it eventually. I wish they had better options for remote controlled toys though. So far, none of the ones I've seen really appeal to me.
04/17/2013
Contributor: sunflower sunflower
I've thought (ok maybe fantasized) about the idea. I wouldn't want it in my pants but I'd love to hold the remote for someone else lol. Especially as a dom/sub thing mmmm yes
I guess to be completely discreet it would have to be either a loud place or a quiet vibrator?
04/17/2013
Contributor: Eugler Eugler
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Originally posted by Hummingbird
Came very close one time with the Club Vibe 2.0H, a co-worker caught me with the remote in my hand and asked what it was. Now I wish I had given it to him.
Very close to what?

Would you recommend the Clubvibe2.0H ?
04/17/2013
Contributor: Mr. John Mr. John
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Originally posted by snowminx
I agree with this, yeah sex isn't just intercourse but I don't think playing with yourself/toys is actually sex. That's like saying you lost your virginity from jacking off. When I saw "public sex by remote" I had to take a ... more
In retrospect, I think your correct. But, once you post the title you are unable to change/edit it. Mistakes are made, but I think most people can get beyond it.
04/17/2013