Ever hear of someone becoming less kinky?

Ever hear of someone becoming less kinky?

Supervixen Supervixen
Usually I think we think of kinkiness as a progression in sexual expression, mostly because they are experiences that we have that are wide and varied, so they add to our bag of tricks, so to speak. But have you ever heard of someone becoming less kinky and more vanilla? And not just to appease a partner; I mean, someone becomes vanilla, losing interest in kink for whatever reason?
11/10/2012
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Supervixen Supervixen
I don't know why I put this in the vibrators category. Sorry about that.
11/10/2012
Girly Juice Girly Juice
I know someone who was once very into rough sex but then was sexually assaulted, after which she could only really handle gentle/loving sex.
11/10/2012
Okamicat69 Okamicat69
not that I know of
11/10/2012
Taylor Taylor
I think some people might go through a phase where they dabble in kinky activities and settle down afterwards. I don't think it's unusual to like different things at different times of your life.
11/10/2012
Ex-prude Ex-prude
It's called aging.
It's just like when people go through the stages in their lives where they party more. A lot of people just grow out of it. Not always a good thing.
11/10/2012
Petite Valentine Petite Valentine
People change over time — it's natural, and the changes are not always permanent. I wouldn't really think anything of it unless it's a change that's upsetting their partner.
11/10/2012
Supervixen Supervixen
Quote:
Originally posted by Taylor
I think some people might go through a phase where they dabble in kinky activities and settle down afterwards. I don't think it's unusual to like different things at different times of your life.
I know sexual interests can change, but I would think you would usually see it go more in one direction than the other, barring awful experiences like sexual trauma, where someone might react to it by losing interest in sex that's rougher. I've never heard of someone losing interest in things like bondage, spanking, role play, etc., maybe because those are usually things that people discover about their sexual selves and tend to want to explore more. It would be like losing interest, as a food connoisseur, in spices and flavors...like your palate suddenly just doesn't matter any more to you.

That's not to say that vanilla people are wrong for their tastes, or anything, but it seems more like a once you go one direction, you tend not to go back. I have a feeling that it's also got something to do with personality.
11/11/2012
Trysexual Trysexual
I know people who have gone from being promiscuous and doing group/threesomes or swinging and then going vanilla.
11/11/2012
KinkyNicki92 KinkyNicki92
Sometimes its a phase and its something they wanted to try. They get into it for a little while just because it was good at the time but some may start longing for what they were doing before...
11/12/2012
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