@rossie def. agree, silicone is the safest. I use to purchase vibe. dildoes that were made of other material. but recently i switched to using the highest grade of safest material. i noticed that too, even purchasing a dual g spot bunny vibe, at first is hard to insert, or use because its a little rough feeling. but once moist from the bodys natural moisture,i think it is a better choice. i do not use any lubricants or products to moisturize below. it takes a while, but i finally am able to use it. i am the only one who uses it. and a lot of products i am sensitive to. so thats why i am not that concerned with the waiting/moisture to use it part. no rush. did any body ever try the ora ring? i had four c sections, so when it comes to internal pleasure as you would say, its a hit and miss. it feels less stress with just using more of a clitoris pleasure toy. specially with my husband not being fond with oral sex too much, i noticed the ora ring also has life like movements with similar oral sex like feeling. i def. am thinking about it. not 100% sure.... gotta go! it was lovely chatting! nice to meet you rossie! names christina. take care and have a wonderful day!!!