I bought my girlfriend her first vibrator a couple years ago. I did a lot of research because I knew she was a little shy about sex toys and wanted to make sure she liked her first one. I chose to get one from Lelo because they looked stylish and seemed to painless to use because of the rechargeable batteries. I ended up picking the Lelo Gigi because it's relatively small and I read that the semi-flat head was also useful for clit stimulation. I've read a lot of praise of the Lelo Mona also since then. In any case, her experience was a success. She has a half dozen vibrators now and really loves them. I think Lelo helped her not feel awkward about using a sex toy, something most of the culture doesn't do so well. There are so many options, and many are wonderful, but I do think a company like Lelo makes great first time vibrators. I really do think they're beautiful. less