I am curious about the g-spot that I'm told I have but at 46 years of age, I haven't found it and neither have any of my partners. I am tempted to purchase a g-spot vibrator but don't know where to begin. I'm sure there are posts about it, I've looked at g-spot vibrators and am considering purchasing one just so I can find this elusive creature, but I would love to hear opinions and thoughts. Where the heck is this g-spot located and what should I look at when trying to find the toy that's perfect to help me find it? less

It's real and I personally suggest you find it with your, or a lovers finger, then you can choose a toy whose texture and size will most meet your needs at stimulating that spot. If you try yourself, put your well lubed index finger inside yourself, and you will find a "patch" of tissue, slightly more firm, and textured, then the tissue around it (feels like the surface of a walnut, only squishy and soft). It is on the FRONT side of your vaginal tunnel (on the belly side) not the back side, and it may be from an inch inside, to the most common middle depth in the vaginal canal. In a few woman, from what I have heard, it may even be higher up in the vaginal vault. Once you have found it, try having you or a lover gently stroke or rub it, till you cum. Once you know how deep in it is for you, you can choose toys accordingly. less

It's real and I personally suggest you find it with your, or a lovers finger, then you can choose a toy whose texture and size will most meet your needs at stimulating that spot. If you try yourself, put your well lubed index finger inside yourself, and you will find a "patch" of tissue, slightly more firm, and textured, then the tissue around it (feels like the surface of a walnut, only squishy and soft). It is on the FRONT side of your vaginal tunnel (on the belly side) not the back side, and it may be from an inch inside, to the most common middle depth in the vaginal canal. In a few woman, from what I have heard, it may even be higher up in the vaginal vault. Once you have found it, try having you or a lover gently stroke or rub it, till you cum. Once you know how deep in it is for you, you can choose toys accordingly. less

HI bignuf!

nice to meet you!

If that is ok, can i ask you something about the g-spot topic?
ok, wife and mom of four. 28 years old and four repeated c-sections, all in 05' 06' 08' and 09'. now when i look for an orgasm its rubbing along the clitoris. now i also heard the g-spot sensation like your describing. but see when i tryed exploring on my own, with finger or toy it hurts. i mean i feel discomfort with insert. i went to obgyn, everything is ok as far as the plumbing. no std's or such. i always get tested even married faithfully for 13 years. but yea, when i try to find this g-spot sensation, anything inserted like makes pressure where i either have to urinate or literally im going to vomit. is this maybe due to repeated c-sections? or is it possible to not have a g-spot? I always since first encountered with masturbation have always played with the clit area. Sorry if i came off weird or a stupid question. Thanks so much and have a great night!

christina! less