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Contributor: jhanerton jhanerton
Hellooo,

I've been surfing products, and I need a little help here. Are there any products any of you could suggest for my particular needs/desires/ohplease gods?

My husband is well endowed. TOO well endowed, so what I need is something that can give him lots of pleasure, while limiting the load for me. Losing two inches would be great, and while I've found many products for extensions, I haven't come across anything that addresses our needs.

Cockrings look like they may be able to assist some, but I was thinking that there has to be something out there specific to our needs (and hopefully listed on this wonderful site)

Thank you all.
04/20/2010
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Contributor: Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
So you want something to limit how far he can penetrate you?

Some cock rings might be able to do this, if you get something a little bulky or use several but I think telling him to control his thrusts would be easier.
04/20/2010
Contributor: Victoria Victoria
I remember hearing about this product called the "not too deep donut" a while ago.

You could foreseeably have him wear a large plushy cock ring around just his shaft so he cannot penetrate you completely. Or a stack of them, like Adriana suggested!
04/20/2010
Contributor: jhanerton jhanerton
Quote:
Originally posted by Adriana Ravenlust
So you want something to limit how far he can penetrate you?

Some cock rings might be able to do this, if you get something a little bulky or use several but I think telling him to control his thrusts would be easier.
Thank you Adriana, this will be our first experience with toys, so the guidance is definatly appreciated. He keeps his thrusts mild, but with all these gadgets I was hoping to find something that would make it feel for him like he was going all the way in. The cock rings I'll look into. Thank you!
04/21/2010
Contributor: jhanerton jhanerton
Quote:
Originally posted by Victoria
I remember hearing about this product called the "not too deep donut" a while ago.

You could foreseeably have him wear a large plushy cock ring around just his shaft so he cannot penetrate you completely. Or a stack of them, like ... more
I'll look into this donut.. thank you!
04/21/2010
Contributor: Luscious Lily Luscious Lily
It's the "Not Too Deep" donut set by Pipedream. Here's what they look like: link

EF doesn't carry them, but there are a bunch of sites that do.
04/21/2010
Contributor: jhanerton jhanerton
Quote:
Originally posted by Luscious Lily
It's the "Not Too Deep" donut set by Pipedream. Here's what they look like: link

EF doesn't carry them, but there are a bunch of sites that do.
Thank you. I have to say, the packaging is a little creepy (I'm so new to all of this), but I think it would get the job done.

I have another question...

what do you ladies think would be a good clit vibrator for the two of us? I've read that the closer you are to orgasm when you begin, the greater the capacity your vag has for stretching. I'm two inches from ordering the layaspot, but I thought I'd check with you guys to see what you thought. He's a really active and attentive lover, so I'd want something that would be fun for him to use on me. Something smaller might be sexier for him, but I don't know. What have you guys used and liked?
04/21/2010
Contributor: Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
Quote:
Originally posted by jhanerton
Thank you. I have to say, the packaging is a little creepy (I'm so new to all of this), but I think it would get the job done.

I have another question...

what do you ladies think would be a good clit vibrator for the two of us? ... more
I personally really like Layaspot. I don't think it would work quite as well with someone else at the wheel because of how it fits over your mons; it works a little better for solo use.
04/21/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by Luscious Lily
It's the "Not Too Deep" donut set by Pipedream. Here's what they look like: link

EF doesn't carry them, but there are a bunch of sites that do.
Hmmm with some good slick lube those might be a great idea for the well endowed man.
04/22/2010
Contributor: Elodie Elodie
Quote:
Originally posted by jhanerton
Thank you. I have to say, the packaging is a little creepy (I'm so new to all of this), but I think it would get the job done.

I have another question...

what do you ladies think would be a good clit vibrator for the two of us? ... more
My boyfriend and I have found the Delilah really fun during foreplay. Lots of reach for him to get where he wants to.
04/22/2010