There are so many great toys out there that I dont think there is ONE best vibrator. You just want to find the one that is right for you. You might not like my favorites at all. But if you are just starting out try narrowing it down to a catagory, like clit vibe or g-spot vibe and then go from there. If you look at my profile I would be happy to answer any questions about any of the vibes I have. Sometimes it helps if you just start eliminating what you don't want and see what's left.