Which wand massager should I get? [TAKE TWO]

Contributor: Nazaress Nazaress 02/22/2012

NOTE: DO NOT SAY HITACHI WAND!

I made this thread before but I made the mistake of including the Hitachi Wand. Almost everyone recommended that one but I don't think they actually read any of my criteria or else I don't think they would have picked it. It's probably TOO strong, it's second on my list of favorite power options, it only has two speeds, and it's bulky as heck. The only thing it really has going for it is that it has some interesting attachments but I'm pretty sure that at least some of those attachments could be used on other wand massagers.

So, here's what I'm looking for or would LIKE, if possible. It doesn't necessarily have to have all these things if it makes up for it by being the best.

* Strong, but not TOO strong
* Power option favorites go: 1. Rechargeable, 2. Corded, 3. Batteries
* Different speeds and also has patterns, if possible
* Attachments available and good ones, at that (interested in ones that make clitoral stimulation and clitoral/vaginal stimulation better - not really interested in anything anal)
* Not too-too bulky, if possible

So, there you go. Which one of these (or any of their corded/rechargeable/ba ttery-powered/etc. brethren) should I get?

Invited: All users.

Discussion Topics

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Contributor: Nazaress Nazaress
Which ones of these best fits my preferred criteria and is just overall the best? (I'm making it multiple choice, in case you're having a tough decision deciding which to suggest)
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
DreamWolf , Curiouscat , LaSchwartz , SiNn , oneeyedoctopus , Nora , married with children , sunkissedJess , MidnightStorm
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Powder , Gunsmoke , Ghost , hiroshiro , Hibangel , Positwist , unfulfilled , SJ88 , sweetpea12 , pinkpottergirl , roskat , Do emu , CindyH , K101 , LavenderSkies , sapphyre.wings , Subska , MissCandyland , SparklyGlitter , Form 7 , deltalima
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Gracie , Missmarc , DreamWolf , xGOLDx , Adriana Ravenlust , GONE! , A.Mari , mpfm , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , Hibangel , switzerland , Djiffy , ECU Pirate , Breas , Rawr4483 , ksparkles16 , petname , Subska , cottonxcandy , Stinkytofu10 , Various , Mew , BlooJay , padmeamidala , dhig , Terri69 , sXeVegan90 , Pudyqat
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Gemstone
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Woman China , Gracie , MGDavicnigirl , Nora , K101 , potstickers
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Total votes: 65 (59 voters)
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Contributor: MGDavicnigirl MGDavicnigirl
I don't have any experience with these, but following this conversation!
02/22/2012
Contributor: Nazaress Nazaress
Quote:
Originally posted by MGDavicnigirl
I don't have any experience with these, but following this conversation!
I'm hoping to get some actual answers. I really, really want to get a wand massager but all anyone ever says is "Hitachi Wand" blindly because they want their points and they don't like to read.
02/22/2012
Contributor: Gemstone Gemstone
I own the Miracle Massager and it is powerful but not to the point of making me numb. I love it even though I am still curious about the Hitachi.
02/22/2012
Contributor: Nazaress Nazaress
Quote:
Originally posted by Gemstone
I own the Miracle Massager and it is powerful but not to the point of making me numb. I love it even though I am still curious about the Hitachi.
Thank you for my first (and actual) answer!
02/22/2012
Contributor: Woman China Woman China
I own a Fairy and I am not happy with the buzz vibes. So I'd not recommend any Fairy's to people.

You asked for the massager to have these points:
* Strong, but not TOO strong
* Power option favorites go: 1. Rechargeable, 2. Corded, 3. Batteries
* Different speeds and also has patterns, if possible
* Attachments available and good ones, at that (interested in ones that make clitoral stimulation and clitoral/vaginal stimulation better - not really interested in anything anal)
* Not too-too bulky, if possible

Have you ever thought of getting a rabbit vibe? Or a good quality g-spot toy? It would meet all your criteria, especially the last point of it not being too bulky. It would also be strong, but you would be able to control the strength. They are rechargeable, and most have patterns. There are no attachments but they do make clit play oodles of fun and provide vaginal stimulation.
02/22/2012
Contributor: Gracie Gracie
Wahl 2 speed
02/22/2012
Contributor: Nazaress Nazaress
Quote:
Originally posted by Woman China
I own a Fairy and I am not happy with the buzz vibes. So I'd not recommend any Fairy's to people.

You asked for the massager to have these points:
* Strong, but not TOO strong
* Power option favorites go: 1. Rechargeable, 2. ... more
I do have a rabbit vibrator. I have two, actually. The first is a cheap jelly toy I only got because it was a Facebook Friends deal. It's kind of meh and the ears are pokey. The second is a Zini Zook, which has a million and one different patterns and is overall just awesome. I LOVE it as a vibrator but not so much as a rabbit. The clitoral attachment is very, very weak. I plan on getting more rabbits in the future but I don't have a single wand. I want to join the craze! I'd also probably use it as an actual massager, too, because I have terrible back pain issues.
02/22/2012
Contributor: Nazaress Nazaress
Quote:
Originally posted by Gracie
Wahl 2 speed
It's bulky-looking (though that may just be the picture) and it only has two speeds but wow, look at all those attachments! Plus it'd also be great as an actual massager since, you know, that's its intended use. I'll keep this one in mind.
02/22/2012
Contributor: DreamWolf DreamWolf
I would pick the Rechargeable Fairy because it's USB, and Couture Collection because of the fine attachments...
02/22/2012
Contributor: xGOLDx xGOLDx
As much as I don't usually care for Cal Ex products, the Couture Collection has a good speed range, and some definite strength behind that baby, so it gets my vote. Plus it is pretty small and not too heavy, so won't be bulky either.
02/22/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
If really sounds like you want a rechargeable rabbit than a wand here. Just because you have 2 already, doesn't mean you have all the rabbits you need You really should use the money on more rabbits. Jopen line has some nice looking rabbits, also I recommend trying Lelo Ina.
02/22/2012
Contributor: MGDavicnigirl MGDavicnigirl
Quote:
Originally posted by Nazaress
I'm hoping to get some actual answers. I really, really want to get a wand massager but all anyone ever says is "Hitachi Wand" blindly because they want their points and they don't like to read.
Yeah, I'm not sold on a hatachi. I don't think it will meet my needs either. I'm not sure if this was directed at me responding to your thread, but I genuinely want to know.
02/22/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
We love our Mystic Wand. Bought it before the rechargeable one was introduced - but If I had it to do over, I would go for the rechargeable Mystic Wand.
02/22/2012
Contributor: Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
Inspire is multispeed
02/22/2012
Contributor: SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by Nazaress
Which ones of these best fits my preferred criteria and is just overall the best? (I'm making it multiple choice, in case you're having a tough decision deciding which to suggest)
I have the fairy so its the only one i could recomend
02/22/2012
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
For me, the Fairies are too buzzy (I like deep, low register vibrations) and the others are too weak or have issues with quality. I know the Wahl may seem strong, but you can dull the strength with a blanket or a towel or your nightgown or your panties, but you can't do anything to increase the strength of lower quality vibrating wands.

JMO.
02/23/2012
Contributor: Ghost Ghost
I love my Mystic Wand Rechargeable!
02/23/2012
Contributor: Nazaress Nazaress
Quote:
Originally posted by MGDavicnigirl
Yeah, I'm not sold on a hatachi. I don't think it will meet my needs either. I'm not sure if this was directed at me responding to your thread, but I genuinely want to know.
Lol. Yes! It was, actually! So hopefully this thread is useful to us both.

@ Missmarc: The Ina looks clampy but I'm not sure yet. There's so many rabbits in the Jopen line, it's going to take me a while to pick one. I plan on getting more. Definitely. But I was also hoping to get a wand for the actual "massage" aspect. I should have put that in my topic but I wasn't thinking. Lol.

@ P'Gell: That's very, very true. I didn't think of that!
02/23/2012
Contributor: Nazaress Nazaress
People are voting in the thread I abandoned instead of this one. Lol. So vote in this one!
02/23/2012
Contributor: hiroshiro hiroshiro
I own a fairy and a mystic ...I guess I prefer the mystic better :/ probably because it's cuter, but I hate the flexible head.
02/23/2012
Contributor: Hibangel Hibangel
I'd say inspire, and mystic next. just my $.02.
02/23/2012
Contributor: MGDavicnigirl MGDavicnigirl
Do you like more throbby or buzzy sensations?
02/24/2012
Contributor: ECU Pirate ECU Pirate
all good choices
02/24/2012
Contributor: Positwist Positwist
Quote:
Originally posted by Nazaress
It's bulky-looking (though that may just be the picture) and it only has two speeds but wow, look at all those attachments! Plus it'd also be great as an actual massager since, you know, that's its intended use. I'll keep this one in mind.
Nazaress, if you don't want TOO strong, stay away from the Wahl. Since it only has two speeds (lowest: 5 vrooms; highest: HOLY SH--), you'll be stuck if you find that the first speed is too strong for you, as some folks have. It's my all-time favorite vibe, but I like jack-hammer vibes.

That said, it's inexpensive and makes a wonderful body massager, so it wouldn't be a total loss if you didn't like it.
02/24/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
I'm still choosing the mystic wand like i did nthe last time. I don't have the rechargeable one, but I have the battery operated one and really like it.
02/24/2012
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by Nazaress
People are voting in the thread I abandoned instead of this one. Lol. So vote in this one!
You can change the date on the closing of the poll to today, so that it is effectively closed. People can still post, but they won't vote on your abandoned poll.
02/24/2012
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by Nazaress
Lol. Yes! It was, actually! So hopefully this thread is useful to us both.

@ Missmarc: The Ina looks clampy but I'm not sure yet. There's so many rabbits in the Jopen line, it's going to take me a while to pick one. I plan on ... more
Addressing the fact that you can dull the strength of things like the Wahl and even the Hitachi, but you can't strengthen any of the lower strength vibes: A lot of women feel their "desire for strength and lower register vibrations" increases as they use more sex toys, so your Wahl might last you a lifetime, being muted by fabric in the beginning and being used full strength as you decide your body wants or needs more power.
02/24/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
Not the rechargeable fairy! Seriously it dies within 30-40 minutes of use! I have it and never use it because it dies! I hate rechargeable batteries that die that fast.

The Couture, I could see the same thing happening that happened to my My Mini Miracle Massager. You bend the cord at and angle to use it and when you do that it loosens the wire. Then it makes is so the cord has to be wiggled to get it to work.

If you are a squirter, you need to make sure what you pick is waterproof otherwise you will ruin it too. I did this on my Miracle Massager.

I do have the Wanachi Mini, which is waterproof and great. The only issue is that it rattles.
02/24/2012
Contributor: Nora Nora
I highly recommend NOT getting the Wanachi Multi with attachments! I notice no one else has recommended it either. I got this one several weeks ago when it was on sale for cheap, it you want a clit only toy, it's "ok" but bulky for that purpose. The attachments are crap too unless you have a very specific anatomy (that I don't have).

These are all fairly "bulky" toys...if you're looking for less "bulk", there are smaller Fairy Wands that have very similar power levels it the bigger vibes. The Fairy Mini Mini or even the Fairy Baby are good "small" options!
02/24/2012
Contributor: Nazaress Nazaress
Quote:
Originally posted by MGDavicnigirl
Do you like more throbby or buzzy sensations?
I started out with buzzy and I didn't mind them but I've gotten some more rumbly toys and I like them, too. It depends on HOW rumbly it is. I've had REALLY rumbly toys (maybe I'd even call them rattly) and they were numbing.

@ P'Gell: Thank you. I did that right before I posted that, actually. I didn't think to before but then I was, like, "Duh!"

That is very true. If nothing else, I'll get the Wahl and/or the Hitachi for massages and the like NOW and maybe when I'm older and more used to toys (I'm only 22 and I've only been using them for a few months), I could use them for their not-intended purpose.

@ beck: Thank you for such an in-depth answer! I have never squirted before but I've only been having sex for a little over a year and using toys for a few months (plus I masturbated very little before all this) so I'm hoping it'll happen one day! Lol.

@ Nora: I know that there will be some bulk to them. I want it to also be good for massages so a little bulky is okay. I was mostly referring to the HUGE size of the Hitachi Wand and that if they're smaller than that, that's great.
02/24/2012
Contributor: sweetpea12 sweetpea12
Quote:
Originally posted by Nazaress
Which ones of these best fits my preferred criteria and is just overall the best? (I'm making it multiple choice, in case you're having a tough decision deciding which to suggest)
A rechargeable toy would be fun
03/01/2012
Contributor: roskat roskat
Quote:
Originally posted by Beck
Not the rechargeable fairy! Seriously it dies within 30-40 minutes of use! I have it and never use it because it dies! I hate rechargeable batteries that die that fast.

The Couture, I could see the same thing happening that happened to my My ... more
Good points.
03/01/2012
Contributor: CindyH CindyH
like rechargeable batteries
03/13/2012
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by Nazaress
Which ones of these best fits my preferred criteria and is just overall the best? (I'm making it multiple choice, in case you're having a tough decision deciding which to suggest)
Mystic wand. So cute!
03/14/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
Mystic wand
03/20/2012
Contributor: GS500 GS500
Probably going to need two or more
03/20/2012
Contributor: dhig dhig
we like the fairy
03/20/2012
Contributor: Terri69 Terri69
I would go with the Couture collection Inspire
08/15/2012
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by Nazaress
Which ones of these best fits my preferred criteria and is just overall the best? (I'm making it multiple choice, in case you're having a tough decision deciding which to suggest)
Mystic wand is amazing.
10/07/2012