Why use racket's to play tennis. You can just throw a ball to each other. Why use roller skates, when you can just slide along the sidewalk? Toys...all toys, including adult toys, are an adjunct, addition, enhancement, to some activity you might do without them, but they add another level of play and fun.

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well, to honestly answer the question i would say:

Using sex toys, was honestly a growth maybe you can call it. like a stage of why use them. it was always a different reason as i grew. I hit puberty very early. and basically left to raise one self as a child i explored early with masturbation. Like any child with raging hormones, i felt feelings. The very first toy believe it or not was just being a silly young person. basic attachment vibe. like spencer at the mall, very basic. all the girls had them, it made you feel like an adult. you know, ohh laa laa, turns on the guys and such. ect. ect. i mean i didnt even use to. i stuck with a pillow or something. then years go by. after i became a mommy of four. with my oh so ever dear husband of 13 years. i was still young. we met at 16 had our first child at 17. i bought toys kind of to explore in the bedroom. once again very young. so i bought it for mainly him. like not even thinking about myself. i wanted to please him. turn him on. just had a c-section, feeling a little shy about my body. you know the stretch marks, weight gain. I didnt buy toys for the right reasons. i am very lucky to have a husband who is not like that. actually believe it or not he is SO not the very sexual exploring type in the bed. as far as needing to have arise. he respects our love making and as long as were holding each other that is what is important. he still looks at me as when we first had sex. he looks at my body as if there were imperfections. so for a while i stop using sex toys once again. then after four children with us always on our toes. i purchased first a dildo vibe. then i went to rabbit. now currently i use sex toys because i found my own sexual pleasure of achieving an orgasm. since the c sections, sensitivity below and time and our age, using toys is basically a orgasm thing for me. i think there is so many reasons why and stages too. sex toys all depends. some do it for business reasons if there in the mature films, parties, or because there not ready to be in a intimate relationship, but most important reason is YOU want to. do not let any one ever force you too. dont do it for trying to keep your lover, dont do it because people say your immature. always do it because you want to. do it to explore. whether it be for pleasure, orgasms, feeling like trying it. it is your body. you have control to what you do with it. always love yourself, your beautiful. hope i answered it! you take care. and welcome to eden. nice to meet you and have a sexy, safe, wonderful night!!!

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