There is a particular topic set up for gay threads, but I know how confusing this site can be at first!

A big reason for sexual heat is what's known as a "barrier." This is when there are restrictions and hurdles that must be overcome in order to have sex, whether those barriers are social, mental, emotional, or physical. When a couple gets very comfortable with each other, most of those barriers fall away. So, to reintroduce them, we have to get creative! You can try roleplaying--there are many options for barrier-simulating scenarios. You can try a new type of toy, especially those that are considered "taboo." You can try new locations, new outfits, new techniques, etc.; just about anything that will add a fresh element and keep things from getting too routine!