Whats to old for you??

Whats to old for you??

CarmenGore262 CarmenGore262
Whyta is to old for you? 40?50?
04/12/2011
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Chilipepper Chilipepper
Dead. No matter how old he is, if he's dead it won't matter.
04/12/2011
Taylor Taylor
Too old for what? Dating?
04/12/2011
Annemarie Annemarie
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Originally posted by Chilipepper
Dead. No matter how old he is, if he's dead it won't matter.
I agree with this, with a couple of caveats.

I think that too old is when one or both of the partners are uncomfortable with the difference. My significant other and I are 18 years apart, but we're both okay with it (I am, more than he is). Any more, though, and he would have been ill at ease about it.
04/12/2011
Shellz31 Shellz31
I probably wouldn't date someone who is older than 60.
Main reason - they need to be able to keep up with me sexually.
But also, they have already experienced the things I'm yet to go through so I don't want them to be too far ahead of me - it can ruin a relationship when ya not both on the same emotional level or at very different stages in ya lives.

So far, I'm yet to meet a guy in his 70's, 80's or 90's who I had any kind of connection with. I'm not interested in being with someone cause they may be rich. That just doesn't float my boat.
04/12/2011
liilii080 liilii080
I think 45 is my cap. I don't want to date someone my parents' age. yuck!
04/12/2011
MaryExy MaryExy
Older than my parents would be odd for me, especially since they're both around 60. I agree with Shellz on why I wouldn't date anyone that old. If my parents were like 40, I'm not sure whether I would lower my limit to 40 as well... That's tough.

My guy now is 11 years older. He's good and that's all that matters to me
04/13/2011
slynch slynch
Too old for what? Dating? Sex?
04/13/2011
virtualmirage virtualmirage
I am 37 and I think 50 would be too old for me. But then again I know of a lot of men that are older than that and very handsome, so I guess it would have to depend on the man.
04/15/2011
Solar Ray Solar Ray
No idea... probably not someone 20+ years older than me but I'd never say never.
04/16/2011
Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
Quote:
Originally posted by CarmenGore262
Whyta is to old for you? 40?50?
meh age isn't a big deal. i probably wouldn't go over 50, unless he was really intellectually stimulating
04/17/2011
CarmenGore262 CarmenGore262
Quote:
Originally posted by Chilipepper
Dead. No matter how old he is, if he's dead it won't matter.
nice
05/12/2011
CarmenGore262 CarmenGore262
Quote:
Originally posted by slynch
Too old for what? Dating? Sex?
either one or even to old for relationship The best one to me is dead.
05/12/2011
Anjulie Anjulie
Depends on the person, but around fifty is pushing it for me.
05/12/2011
Beck Beck
Quote:
Originally posted by Chilipepper
Dead. No matter how old he is, if he's dead it won't matter.
Have to say the same thing! I think men are like wine and get better with age!
07/19/2011
beemonkey beemonkey
I do not have an age limit!
08/08/2011
Retro.old Retro.old
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Originally posted by beemonkey
I do not have an age limit!
Agree - love has no limits!
08/11/2011
slynch slynch
I would say a couple decades older.
08/18/2011
Jenyana Jenyana
Five years or so older than me is too old. Same thing in the reverse, more than five years younger than me and they're too young.
09/08/2011
ashaxmarie ashaxmarie
Quote:
Originally posted by CarmenGore262
Whyta is to old for you? 40?50?
i don't have a limit
09/11/2011
ScotchIrish ScotchIrish
Quote:
Originally posted by CarmenGore262
Whyta is to old for you? 40?50?
I am 48. I am looking for a women between 35-60. I would prefer 40-55. But, there may be some one else out there. And, it would never be a gal younger than 35-40. Unless it was a one night stand or a fling and she proves to me that she really wants me. I doubt that ever happening. But never say never. Just extremely unlikely.
09/30/2011
ThoughtsAblaze ThoughtsAblaze
Quote:
Originally posted by Annemarie
I agree with this, with a couple of caveats.



I think that too old is when one or both of the partners are uncomfortable with the difference. My significant other and I are 18 years apart, but we're both okay with it (I am, more ...
"I think that too old is when one or both of the partners are uncomfortable with the difference."

Ditto to this. My imaginary dream guy was always 5-8 years older than me. But then I met my current boyfriend and that rule fell away: I assumed he was 30, like the mutual friends I met him through, but he was actually 36 at the time (13 years older than me). And the 13 doesn't bother me at all.

Human beings are so versatile that it's hard to set a rule like that. I've met some men in their 40s (20+ years older than me) who I found very attractive, though I haven't dated them. I wouldn't rule them out just because of age, though.
10/01/2011
indiglo indiglo
This all depends on how old you are. For someone in their 20's, the "cut off" age will likely be much younger than it is for someone who is in their 30's, 40's, 50's and beyond. My man and I are 14 years apart, and it does not present a problem for us. I am in my 30's and he is in his 40's.

I once heard a formula, I think it was half your age plus 7, or minus 7, I can't remember. While entertaining, I don't think such a "rule" should be a determining factor. Just as someone said upthread, it's only too much of an age difference if it's illegal or one of the partners is uncomfortable with it.
10/01/2011
Mamastoys Mamastoys
I don't think it is a number..it is a mindset. Some other factors can play into it like health issues, medications, or external factors but I hope that we are never too old to enjoy each other!
05/05/2012
hall5885 hall5885
Mine is about 50+. But that also depends on the person too.
05/06/2012
Youssii Youssii
I'm 18, and my age limit for relationships is about 34- any older and we're just too far apart in terms of where we are in life. Preferably any long term partners, especially monogamous ones would be about 28, but I'd stretch for someone I really liked.
05/21/2012
Llahsram Llahsram
Eh....it depends on the woman.
05/21/2012
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Unique posters: 24