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Getting my husband to the point of orgasm.

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Contributor: Terrawantstoplay Terrawantstoplay
Hey everyone! Hope everyone is having a wonderful day!
So the point of my post is, that I am looking for some sex toys or lubes, or really any advice you might have that would help him orgasm. My husband is 32 and I am 25, weve been married for three years now. Anyways, our sex life is not boring by any means, but he does have a hard time getting to the point of orgasm. I thought maybe I was the problem, so I bought him a realistic vagina masturbator, same outcome. Ive seen the desensitizing lubes, but is there anything out there that would sensitize him? Any help would be amazing. I just want to please my hubby as much as he pleases me.
03/08/2016
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Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
Quick question, does he masturbate? If he does, you can ask him to show you how he does it so you can make him orgasm. If he answers no to the masturbation question, he might want to talk to a doctor.

He could also be stressed out or have some other issue but you should really talk to him and see what's going on. Communication can help.
03/08/2016
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Terrawantstoplay
Hey everyone! Hope everyone is having a wonderful day!
So the point of my post is, that I am looking for some sex toys or lubes, or really any advice you might have that would help him orgasm. My husband is 32 and I am 25, weve been married for ... more
My 2 bits, I'm not a therapist or expert by any means: climaxing is mental to some. Meaning it's in the brain. Perhaps find out what fantasies he has. If possible do some of them. Or have him think of some sexy thoughts while doing the deed. Or watch a adult movie and imitate some hot scenes.

I hate to bring it up, but has he had this problem with others or in the past ?

Good luck.
03/08/2016
Contributor: TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
Anorgasmia is quite common we have a thread you may like to read.

Does Anorgasmia dissuade you from pleasuring yourself?

That aside I am a qualified nurse and I am happy to provide clinical information and direction on a purely informational level. My first reference would be to ask if you/he have/has discussed this with a GP/doctor?
04/26/2016