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Grower or Shower?

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Contributor: Kindred Kindred
There is no correlation between penis size/length in the flaccid and erect state. Kinsey found that a shorter flaccid penis tends to grow twice as much as a longer flaccid penis. Thus why most men have approximately the same size penis when erect despite large differences in the flaccid state.

So my question, are you (or is your man) a Grower (penis that gets much longer when erect) or a Shower (penis does not get much longer when erect)?

I'm just curious if there is a roughly even split between the two.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Grower (generally smaller flaccid penis that gets much longer when erect)
209  (96%)
Shower (generally larger flaccid penis does not get much longer when erect)
9  (4%)
Total votes: 218
Poll is closed
07/26/2010
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
Useful topic breakdown on Shower Dildo:

Better for sex/masturbation - Baths, or the Shower?
What do you find more comfortable for sex/masturbation?

Bath or Shower?
Do you usually take baths or showers? Which do you prefer?

My partner doesn't shower, what do I do?
My partner and I have been together for 3.5 years. We're both 20 (well, I will be this month) and I'm having trouble getting him to shower. He grew..

Shower Play? Best Tools?
What's your favorite toy for shower play solo or with a partner?

When do you like to take a shower/have a bath in the day?
Early or later morning, early or late afternoon? Or early, late evening, early or late Night?
07/26/2010
Contributor: Kindred Kindred
Quote:
Originally posted by Kindred
There is no correlation between penis size/length in the flaccid and erect state. Kinsey found that a shorter flaccid penis tends to grow twice as much as a longer flaccid penis. Thus why most men have approximately the same size penis when erect ... more
Feel free to leave any comments. Thanks.
07/26/2010
Contributor: Blinker Blinker
My man's length is considerable when he's flaccid but it still grows and swells quite a bit when he gets hard. It's fun to watch. I'm fascinated with dicks and their magical growing powers
07/26/2010
Contributor: Rockin' Rockin'
Like Blinker said, it's fun to watch. I really like watching how my boy's body changes with arousal. It's so neat (and hot!) ^_^
07/26/2010
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
Quote:
Originally posted by Rockin'
Like Blinker said, it's fun to watch. I really like watching how my boy's body changes with arousal. It's so neat (and hot!) ^_^
I'll have to give that a x3
07/26/2010
Contributor: Alicia Alicia
My husband is definitely a grower. He actually feels self conscious sometimes because of it, but there's no issue with his erect size. I think he just always has wished he was a shower! I like it though, because like Blinker said it's fun to watch
07/26/2010
Contributor: Taylor Violet LXIX Taylor Violet LXIX
Quote:
Originally posted by Jul!a
I'll have to give that a x3
I whole-heartedly agree! Yay dicks! =)
07/26/2010
Contributor: Ajax Ajax
Can't say I disagree with any of that ^^ They're all quite wonderful I think my man is a grower, but he'll argue that he's a shower. Wishful thinking on his part I suppose.
07/27/2010
Contributor: Kindred Kindred
Quote:
Originally posted by Blinker
My man's length is considerable when he's flaccid but it still grows and swells quite a bit when he gets hard. It's fun to watch. I'm fascinated with dicks and their magical growing powers
Maybe I should have made a third choice?

Grower and Shower (i.e., I could be a porn star).
07/27/2010
Contributor: Lustful Dreams Lustful Dreams
Definitely a grower ... it is fun to watch
07/27/2010
Contributor: fatesrelease fatesrelease
My boyfriend is a grower, but his penis isn't small when non-erect. I agree, I love watching it too! Turns me on
07/27/2010
Contributor: kck kck
Quote:
Originally posted by fatesrelease
My boyfriend is a grower, but his penis isn't small when non-erect. I agree, I love watching it too! Turns me on
Same here. Yummmmmm
07/27/2010
Contributor: YoungCouple YoungCouple
Ok if I could post a tasteful video i would, because no one believes me until they see it; then it's a case of crazy infatuation.

I go from 2-3 inches coming out of a cold pool to 8+ when fully erect, and I am fairly girthy. One of my girlfriends used to lay next to me in bed on winter nights and just play with it and watch it grow, then let it settle and repeat. It was pretty funny for both of us.
07/27/2010
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by Blinker
My man's length is considerable when he's flaccid but it still grows and swells quite a bit when he gets hard. It's fun to watch. I'm fascinated with dicks and their magical growing powers
Magical, indeed! I wouldn't want one of my own, but, DAMN, I love 'em on Men! I can have My Man's whenever I want, (usually) so The Magic Continues.
07/27/2010
Contributor: SexyySarah SexyySarah
definitely a grower!
07/27/2010
Contributor: Annemarie Annemarie
Quote:
Originally posted by fatesrelease
My boyfriend is a grower, but his penis isn't small when non-erect. I agree, I love watching it too! Turns me on
Same. My partner's a grower, but he's not that small flaccid, as it is.
07/27/2010
Contributor: PassionQT PassionQT
Quote:
Originally posted by Blinker
My man's length is considerable when he's flaccid but it still grows and swells quite a bit when he gets hard. It's fun to watch. I'm fascinated with dicks and their magical growing powers
Ha ha! Me too! I once dated this guy who had about 2" flacid, but then it grew to 8". Wowsa!
07/27/2010
Contributor: Carrie Ann Carrie Ann
I can't answer, since my guy is all of the above plus both? It's very weird and very fascinating to watch his different kinds of both flaccid penis and erections.
07/27/2010
Contributor: Kinky Skier Kinky Skier
ive seen questions like this on lpsg.org

yeah im a grower, start out at about 3 inches, go to 7.5
07/27/2010
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
My ex-husband's RETRACTED IN him when he was flaccid. Maybe 3 and 1/2 inches when erect. He still couldn't figure out what to do with it, despite what I did.

I'm not kidding.
07/28/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
I have one of each...Sigel grows much larger but Arch generally looks bigger when flaccid but doesn't grow much.
07/31/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by Chilipepper
My ex-husband's RETRACTED IN him when he was flaccid. Maybe 3 and 1/2 inches when erect. He still couldn't figure out what to do with it, despite what I did.

I'm not kidding.
Could explain his reluctance to have sex...a guy with a smaller penis can still have a great sex life though. Sounds to me like he either had an overbearing Mommy with a sex is bad fixation or some hormonal issues. lack of self esteem could have been an issue though as well....

Interesting factlet: The length and shape of a man's penis is partially genetic and partially based on how much testosterone his mother had during the "hormone storm" that happens to differentiate the sexes.
07/31/2010
Contributor: Kinky Skier Kinky Skier
i honestly think every guy will say grower...
08/01/2010
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
BOTH, He is a shower and a grower. Larger than any guy I have been with flaccid and grown.

There should have been a both option.
08/01/2010
Contributor: NymphetamineKiss NymphetamineKiss
My other half is a grower, definitely. He says himself that in it's flaccid state it's on the small side, but errect is a different story. About average length, but really NOT average girth.. mmm...
08/02/2010
Contributor: B8trDude B8trDude
Definitely a grower! Wish there was more to show before it grows but once it does, it works
08/06/2010
Contributor: SeXXXcapades SeXXXcapades
Grower but I like to show'er!
09/12/2010
Contributor: Kayla Kayla
Quote:
Originally posted by Jul!a
I'll have to give that a x3
Fully agree. The boyfriend doesn't understand why I find it so amusing, but it is.
09/12/2010
Contributor: clp clp
He used to use the phrase 'grower not a shower' to me and I had no idea what it meant. I thought it was funny once he explained. But yes, it is quite a live show; I try not to miss any preview times.
09/12/2010