Does anyone get their lover "little gifts", expecting sexual relations will follow, more or less related to having "done something nice"?
Do "lovers gifts" (cards, flowers, candy...etc) equal an expectation of sex?
02/25/2012
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for us, sex happens when it happens
02/25/2012
Sex has nothing to do with gifts
02/25/2012
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Yeah same with us.
Originally posted by
Ryuson
Sex has nothing to do with gifts
02/25/2012
Pretty pathetic if a person have to exchange gifts for sex.
02/25/2012
yup, sex doesn't correlate with gifts for me
02/25/2012
I am so happy how people are voting. Sometimes it seems that some people put sex before love and the person. Good work everyone!
02/25/2012
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I am HAPPY to hear this IS the general consensus.
Originally posted by
Ryuson
Sex has nothing to do with gifts
02/25/2012
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BINGO. In a PRIVATE poll, I was hoping folks would be honest. This is a GOOD sign indeed.
Originally posted by
dynasty123
I am so happy how people are voting. Sometimes it seems that some people put sex before love and the person. Good work everyone!
02/25/2012
I expect only a Smile and the Love shining through His Eyes, that's plenty for me to be running around shrieking happiestly out of my mind...
02/25/2012
bsgs
i give my wife flowers and cards and stuff randomly, i dont expect to get sex in return, but i dont complain when it happens either
02/26/2012
Nope. I only do things like that because I want to and enjoy doing it.
02/26/2012
I give him little gifts when I find something he would really like. Sex, that happens anyways but not as an expected or implied association to the gift.
02/26/2012
I love these answers. Aren't we all such nice partners?
02/26/2012
Gifts are nice, but sex happens all the time anyway.
02/27/2012
Reminds me of guys who buy drinks at bars and expect sex for an $8 drink. Prostitutes get paid more for the same service.
Anyways, never ran into such a person, and I don't expect it in return when I give things.
Anyways, never ran into such a person, and I don't expect it in return when I give things.
02/28/2012
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One of the most sage things my Mother ever said to me was that gift giving is the one time you are truly allowed to be selfish...you give a gift because it makes you feel good to do so. So I am a totally self absorbed selfish gift giver! I don't expect anything in return all i really want is to watch a loved one's face light up. Sounds silly but I just LOVE giving gifts, I love getting them in return as well but it's more fun for me to go shopping or make a gift than to receive one.
Originally posted by
Bignuf
Does anyone get their lover "little gifts", expecting sexual relations will follow, more or less related to having "done something nice"?
02/28/2012
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It really is nice to see isn't it?
Originally posted by
Bignuf
I am HAPPY to hear this IS the general consensus.
02/28/2012
Uh...definitely not. If I'm going to get my partner something nice it's because I really care about her, or want to cheer her up, or found something that's perfect. There's absolutely no expectation of sex in that.
02/28/2012
If my husband gets me a gift, it's because he knows I'll enjoy it and his "reward" is seeing me enjoy it. It works the same way when I give him gifts. I don't expect gifts in return, I just enjoy knowing that he liked what I got him.
02/28/2012
I give him little things all the time and don't expect anything in return. He doesn't do things often, but when he does I don't believe that he expects anything either.
03/01/2012
I know My Man doesn't buy me things in expectation of sex. We have sex frequently, so no persuasion is necessary anyway.
However, he thinks it's really funny to buy a "Score" candy bar virtually every time we have sex. He'll come home from work that evening and stick it in my bra. Do you have any idea how sick I am of Score Bars? Any idea how many are lurking on the shelf over our stove?
However, he thinks it's really funny to buy a "Score" candy bar virtually every time we have sex. He'll come home from work that evening and stick it in my bra. Do you have any idea how sick I am of Score Bars? Any idea how many are lurking on the shelf over our stove?
03/01/2012
sex happens when it happens some gifts can imply things, a sexy message in a card for example, but nothing should be expected.
03/01/2012
One exception: If he buys me a sex toy, he wants to immediately tear the package open and see how I like it.
Aside from that, no. Flowers, candy etc are either because he simply wanted to or to let me know he really appreciated a special time in our bed.
Aside from that, no. Flowers, candy etc are either because he simply wanted to or to let me know he really appreciated a special time in our bed.
03/01/2012
No. My guy buys me those and he doesn't expect sex. He says that sometimes he hopes, but he always hopes for sex even without gifts. Haha.
03/09/2012
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No, they should not be given with expectation of sex
Originally posted by
Bignuf
Does anyone get their lover "little gifts", expecting sexual relations will follow, more or less related to having "done something nice"?
03/12/2012
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Agreed. Expecting sex for a drink..pfft! I don't really get things for people with the motive of "okay, you owe me now".
Originally posted by
Chilipepper
Reminds me of guys who buy drinks at bars and expect sex for an $8 drink. Prostitutes get paid more for the same service.
Anyways, never ran into such a person, and I don't expect it in return when I give things.
Anyways, never ran into such a person, and I don't expect it in return when I give things.
03/15/2012
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I bought my girlfriend a necklace and a sweater from Marc Jacobs this week. I wasn't expecting sex. They look great on her
Originally posted by
Bignuf
Does anyone get their lover "little gifts", expecting sexual relations will follow, more or less related to having "done something nice"?
03/29/2012
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