Does it hold up that women become much more sexual beings in their late thirties?

Contributor: Madeira Madeira
I really really hope it doesn't get any higher... because I would probably die. I mean, I'm in my very early 20s (I'm 20) and if it gets any more so, it'll be... crazy.
10/27/2010
Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
Lol, I don't know what I am saying to make you think I am waiting around. I am still active. I just don't go crazy and hump somebodies brains out 7 times a day anymore. I stopped smoking and drinking and have relaxed and have other things on my mind these days. When I am horny I either pleasure myself or hookup with an ex. I am not actively looking for a sexual partner because I don't want one. I am happy the way that I am living my life now. I am very satisfied with my sex life at the moment. There is no reason to do anything differently.

Thank you for the kind words though.
10/27/2010
Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
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Originally posted by Madeira
I really really hope it doesn't get any higher... because I would probably die. I mean, I'm in my very early 20s (I'm 20) and if it gets any more so, it'll be... crazy.
Thats how I was in my early twenties. My life has become more stable and I have far more to think about these days. So as a result I think less about sex. I think with most people it is an ebb and flow kind of a deal. I find it hard to believe that everybody is insanely horny all the time.
10/27/2010
Contributor: Sera Sera
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Originally posted by KinkyShay
I'm wondering who has experienced this and who has found it to be a myth.
I don't know. I'm in my twenties now so I haven't reached that age.....yet.
11/12/2010
Contributor: Kim! Kim!
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Originally posted by Madeira
I really really hope it doesn't get any higher... because I would probably die. I mean, I'm in my very early 20s (I'm 20) and if it gets any more so, it'll be... crazy.
Mine was insane around 19-20, although so far it's gone down to a manageable level (I'm 27). It's still fairly high though. If it goes back to those early levels then I cannot imagine what 10 years from now will be like! I'll be sneaking away from my son and any other children that I have to go take care of business at that rate. I remember anxiously waiting for my roommate to leave for class and then trying so hard to leave a window of safety in chase she forgot anything.
11/13/2010
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
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Originally posted by KinkyShay
I'm wondering who has experienced this and who has found it to be a myth.
I am in my late thirties and I am WAY more sexual as I age. I think it is because the older I get the more confident I am in myself and I sort of have a "I don't give a fuck attitude of what someone thinks of me". I am beginning to really love myself and it shows in my sex life for sure! My husband and I are having more sex lately than we had in our twenties. It only gets better honey!
11/15/2010
Contributor: Kitt Katt Kitt Katt
I'm in my early 40's and it just keeps getting better. I think it has to do with kids growing up and stress levels declining. I am much more open now and aware of my sexuality than I ever was as a young teen/early 20's.
12/15/2010
Contributor: Madeira Madeira
I had a high drive as a teenager, have a high drive now, and I'm hoping it'll stay high forever.
12/15/2010
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
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Originally posted by KinkyShay
I'm wondering who has experienced this and who has found it to be a myth.
I'm currently in my 20s, so I don't know where my sex drive will go from here. I feel like my sex drive has fluctuated more since having a child. I would still consider it high though.
02/12/2012
Contributor: SexyLilPixi SexyLilPixi
I don't think it always has to do with age at all. I've been the horniest person alive since.....well, before I even knew what horny was.

I am hypersexual (a nymphomaniac of sorts). When I'm not in a happy relationship where I'm constantly needing and coaxing into getting sex, I am always thinking about it, heavily. I don't see how I could POSSIBLY become hornier at any age than I've already been through most of my life!
08/03/2012
Contributor: Istanbull Istanbull
You shoud have seperated Teens from Twenties.
08/03/2012
Contributor: Rory Rory
I peaked in my late 30's and it hasn't dropped much since than.
08/08/2012
Contributor: MissYouBubbles MissYouBubbles
Well..... I am 39, and had a hysterectomy around this time last year and ever since my sex drive is totally insane! I even went to my GYN and asked her for something to LOWER my sex drive, of course that didn't happen, so my hubby has to endure sex on a daily basis unless either one of us are deathly ill! In fact thanks to my insane sex drive, that is how I found EF!!
But no matter what your age, just go with it,it is awesome!!
08/28/2012
Contributor: travelnurse travelnurse
I have always been terminally horny. It was bad in my late teens and early twenties. The 30's it decreased with bad menstrual issues and an eptopic pregnancy then the last part 30's hit and it has ramped up considerably. I had a hysterectomy last year and I had fears but honestly now, I could go anytime and I am currently 42 years old.
08/28/2012
Contributor: Gone (LD29) Gone (LD29)
I had a number of external factors that contributed to my having little to no sex drive for a majority of my 20s. I'm 32 now, and my sex drive has definitely gone way up since around the time I turned 30.
08/28/2012