Intoxicated Sex: Yea or Nay?

I, OH would not want to have sex with a totally drunk gal.

I prefer both of us were somewhat aware of what we are doing. That being said OW and I did have an few episodes while somewhat intoxicated. Neither of us were wasted though. Neither of us regretted it the few times it happened.

I do also remembered trying to fool around with a gal back in my dating days while we both were tipsy. We never got pass 3nd base and woke up in each other's arms.

Drunk sex is fun but I've been on the not drunk enough side as well. Drunk can make u do or say things u normally wouldn't say or do but can be fun at same time. But on the flip side I've had drunk sex 3 some with my ex and I wasn't drunk enough to pass out or not sober enough to hit the road

It definitely lowers your inhibitions, can help you find that inner sex god/goddess that usually lays dormant, you may speak more freely, verbalizing your darkest desires, but it can also lessen orgasms. For that reason alone, I don't care for drunk sex I want to feel my pleasure

Anatomy dictates that at a certain point the man will be trying to play pool with a piece of limp rope.

Alcohol (drugs too) can lower inhibitions and create a mood that people enjoy but over intoxication + sex can lead to various issues. Motion sickness, vomiting, dehydration, diarrhea and death are just a few.

The human body was never designed to operate under certain extreme condtions and you will simply pass out if you go too far.

i believe it is rape, unless you and your partner pre-planned it together while sober, or have talked about in full significance prior to the occasion, and always check after the occasion if anything was particularly displeasing or abusive, intentionally or inadvertently so.

To note, there is a clear distinction between "drunk" and "buzzed". in the event of both individuals being familiar with alcohol, and by experience can tell and function while "buzzed", one may yet be able to consent, as long as neither party pushes consumption to the limit and become truly "drunken".

in all cases, it is important to discuss this with your lover, preferably at length and before "the intended occasion," or in some cases after the first "unintended occurrence." The sexiest thing there is be communication. Without effective communication, which assuredly transcends language, but often requires it in some form, then there is no romance, and certainly no consent.


Now, that said, i, personally am shy. i have never been buzzed or had anything more than 1/3 part red wine, and i am not particular to alcohol. However, as an encourager, with a respectable, safe, and considerate, devoted significant other, i would consider it for my nerves, or his, but not without respectful discussion, first, and never with over consumption. After all, how sexy is it to remember nothing when you wake up because you were TRULY "drunken"?