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Contributor: celibacysucks celibacysucks
As a woman, what is the best way to introduce a condom when it is clear the guy isn't going to pull one out on his own?
11/21/2010
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Contributor: Alicia Alicia
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Originally posted by celibacysucks
As a woman, what is the best way to introduce a condom when it is clear the guy isn't going to pull one out on his own?
Well, it's been a very, very long time for me since I've been in the situation..but I always just asked if he had one. If he said no and acted like he didn't need one I'd be like "oh, well luckily I do!" I was never in the habit of having casual sex..so it was never really a surprise for the guys that I wasn't going to be sleeping with them without a condom, we'd already had that talk.

But, if I was in the habit of casually sleeping with people I'd have done it the same way, ask if they have one and then if they say no just present my own.
11/21/2010
Contributor: darthkitt3n darthkitt3n
All of the guys I have slept with have wanted to use a condom, though I only remember my boyfriend not having one on him. We were in my bed, though, so really it would make more sense for me to provide the condom, since they are right next to my bed..

If a guy didn't seem to want to pull one out, I'd just say, "Just a minute, let me get out a condom," and if he said he did not want to use one, I'd tell him to put one on or hit the road.
11/27/2010
Contributor: Taylor Taylor
I usually keep one in my purse. I make it pretty clear that I'm not going to have sex without one that usually will make them change their mind about not wanting to wear a condom.
11/27/2010
Contributor: Envy Envy
It's never been much an issue to me as my bf knows damn well he wears one or he gets none since I'm not longer on birth control. I have a bunch that i find in the packets and all at work (I am a motel maid) and hang onto them and give them to friends and such if they need them as well. My bf doesn't live in the same state as me, though, so they're not finding much use atm.
11/27/2010
Contributor: Jobthingy Jobthingy
I have always had them and I have no issues saying "here ya go"

I remember once I was out and I actually sent the guy out to the store. If he wants it that bad, he will go.

Of course that is not the case now and the only time we use them is for porous toys
11/27/2010
Contributor: Xavier7 Xavier7
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Originally posted by celibacysucks
As a woman, what is the best way to introduce a condom when it is clear the guy isn't going to pull one out on his own?
Tell him you're not going to provide the goodies unless he wears a condom.
02/03/2011
Contributor: Rebecca.Keyes Rebecca.Keyes
I usually have a variety of condoms by my bedside--in the drawer. If he doesn't say something about a condom, I'll ask him if I can put the condom on him. I've never had a guy refuse. [And it is sorta enjoyable to cover his cock, knowing that that's gonna be in me next.]
06/26/2012