Commenting on my own post but I swear it's not for points, I just wanted to separate my opinion from my question so as to not sway peoples answers.
I feel like out sex education programs are sorely lacking, I would like to have more included in the lessons. For example talking about how to safely engage in oral and anal sex. The should even talk about pleasure in sex, I don't expect the teacher to do a whole unit on sex positions (although I'd love to take that test ) but I would like them to at least mention the clitoris (which was not on any diagrams in my textbooks. I think it's also important to explain to teenagers that porn is not an accurate depiction of sex, because so many are assuming that's exactly what it's like and it's not. I mean yea the basics are the same but porn stars are actors and they are being paid to do things that are pleasing to the camera not to them.
Another thing that is left out of many classes is LGBTQ issues and people are so uneducated about this and that feeds much of the bias.
Yes, I think it would be great if teenagers could learn these things at home from their parents, but fact it too many of them don't and I think this means that the responsibility now falls on the school.