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I do not have children however, I do plan to breast feed until they are at least 2 years old, unless I am unable to due to physical reasons (such as too much pain, bleeding, etc).
Out of the 3 of us, my siblings and I, the only one who has
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I do not have children however, I do plan to breast feed until they are at least 2 years old, unless I am unable to due to physical reasons (such as too much pain, bleeding, etc).
Out of the 3 of us, my siblings and I, the only one who has good health was the one who was breast fed, and the only one of us who isn't constantly sick is the one who was breast fed. I feel that if we weren't supposed to breast feed, we wouldn't produce milk, so why deny a baby something nature clearly intended for it to have?
Sadly, formula doesn't contain even half of what breast milk does, and my friends who have multiple kids who have breast fed some and not the others see differences in their kids as far as health and bonding.
I have sensitive breasts, and I am sure it will be painful, but I would do everything in my power to give my baby something I never had which could've helped me so much.
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I'm glad you are planning to.
Pain and bleeding nipples are NOT supposed to happen. They happen from several reasons; an improper latch (often precipitated by the baby being given bottles, which causes a suck disorder and when they try to nurse, they suck the way they do on a bottle and it doesn't work) or the occasional oral anomaly in the baby. These anomalies are rare and can be remedied. Working with a Private Practice Board Certified Lactation Consultant and following her directions to the letter are the key, here. NOT a hospital LC, they are too swamped to give you enough time, and most are burned out (half my friends are hospital LCs) but a Private Practice LC who can take at least TWO hours each visit with you and RESOLVE the problem. When I work with a client, I don't leave until we have some resolution. My clients have a 97% success rate, and most came to me because of problems their doctors told them were unresolvable (they don't teach Lactation in Medical School, so DO NOT go to a doctor for a Lactation Problem!), most PP LCs have similar or even better numbers.
Being a lactation consultant and having studied lactation for many many years, I can assure you
formula may be "adequate" but it does NOT have "all the stuff" human milk has in it not by a long shot. Babies usually survive on formula, but the biological imperative related to human milk
directly from the breast (as there are more antibodies when the baby in ON the breast rather than taking the milk from a container) are completely PROVEN over and over again by science.
I'm not going to give a run down of my nearly 20 years of study in the field of lactation, but only a few of myriad benefits include stronger immune systems, higher IQs, fewer respiratory, GI and other infections, protection from at least 25 cancers, all the way into adulthood, better smelling diapers, less incidence of breast cancer in both breastfeeding mothers and their daughters, and lower infant death rates, less post partum depression and more. These are all proven. There is simply NO argument.
"Fine" isn't "Optimal." And when I had kids, "fine" wasn't good enough for my babies. I wanted ONLY the best. I worked my ass off to nurse my first and my third babies (number 2 baby was pretty easy) and it was worth every day of work, pain (my youngest had a tight labial frenulum and it hurt like hell) and hard work. My preterm baby may not have survived without it, so I did what I needed to do, pain, meds or not. My children have
thanked me for breastfeeding them, both as toddlers and as older kids. NOTHING can replace that. Except maybe children who have been given the optimal shot at health and development.
I understand on rare occasion it doesn't work out but we're talking about 1 in 1,000 to 1 in 2,000 mother/infant dyads cannot
physiologically breastfeed. The chances of your being that one in two thousand is pretty rare. Those women are usually those on chemotherapy, women who have Post Partum Psychosis and are too sick and too dangerous to be around their babies and the rare case of lack of ductal tissue, which in nearly 20 years, I have seen lack of ductal tissue TWICE. Many of my LC friends have NEVER seen a woman without ductal tissue, so "I can't make enough milk" CAN be remedied with the right treatment.
For virtually every woman who had a reason "not to breastfeed" I have worked with at least a dozen women with the same issues who managed it. Save being on Chemotherapy (most other drugs are not dangerous during lactation, even if small amounts do get into milk, (and often it DOESN'T even if the PDR says it does) or Post Partum Psychosis or lack of ductal tissue. I was treated for severe migraines, depression and several infections while breastfeeding my children, the American Academy of Pediatricians OKed all the meds I was on, and so did my ped, my OBGYN, and my Neurologist, and all stated that "formula would be a greater danger to these babies."
I know some people can't manage it,
but that doesn't mean there isn't a difference.
Breastfeeding is always the optimal choice.
