Female masterbation

Female masterbation

JB1 JB1
Watching my wife masturbate is a huge turn-on for me. (Or even thinking about her doing it.) She tells me though that she never really masturbated in life. She does say that she did fantasize about having sex, but with no self touching. We currently have pretty good sex. She enjoys it and often starts it, but does not have orgasms. How normal is the above? Most of us guys get our sex education from porno films, so we think you guys masturbate every time we turn our backs.... and orgasm 3 times. Is there a typical female when it comes to masturbation? Is this something normally done when you are 16, 25, or 40?
Thanks
09/14/2015
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OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Hey JB 1. Mine is the same. No self touching. She says that is my job. Maybe is the shower for cleaning I figure. Sometimes I'll sneak up to check out of curiosity. She like toys/tools for it. Yours starts it, Lucky you ! OW only has a few times.

There are polls and threads here if you would like to learn about typical (what's typical) females habits. Try going to history section. On the News and announcement page. All the 1 1/2 of page is sections and categories. Of course those will be answers from members who saw the post. You would expect higher end of spectrum here though. After all this is a sex forum.
09/14/2015
JB1 JB1
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Hey JB 1. Mine is the same. No self touching. She says that is my job. Maybe is the shower for cleaning I figure. Sometimes I'll sneak up to check out of curiosity. She like toys/tools for it. Yours starts it, Lucky you ! OW only has a few times. ...
Thanks.
09/14/2015
Brianne Brianne
Your lady is missing out! She should explore her body so she can share her findings with you. It will improve your sex life together. Communication about your preferences is vital, and self-love will not only help her discover new/more preferences, it should give her more confidence and willingnes to experiment. for Christmas!
11/27/2017
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by Brianne
Your lady is missing out! She should explore her body so she can share her findings with you. It will improve your sex life together. Communication about your preferences is vital, and self-love will not only help her discover new/more ...
I kind of agree with this.

Early on my wife claimed to be a non-masturbator. I'm not sure if it was true - or just out of embarrassment.(confuse )

I broke the ice by buying the Pure Wand - and giving it to her before going on a business trip. I told her to figure it out - and teach me how to do it when I got back. So didn't say 'masturbate' but that was necessary to complete the assignment. Low and behold when I came home the toy had a new name "The Gusher" and it was now safe for her to admit to what she had for so long denied.

More recently my fondness for blindfolds and cuffs gave her the opening to masturbate - without me watching. The sound effects were great.

Now she tears off the blindfold - cuffs intact - and 'orders' me to watch her get off - and gush!

Patience my friend - and a little devious planning and you'll get there!
11/27/2017
Jess.McCleod Jess.McCleod
Obviously every girl is different but I think its very rare to find someone who NEVER masturbates. When I was single I'd masturbate almost every day, my girlfriend was much more when the feeling struck - sometimes daily, sometimes weeks without.

If she isn't strictly against it maybe its something you too could explore together? If she flat out doesn't feel the mood to go for it alone then that's definitely her prerogative but I speak from experience that its incredibly sexy to watch someone watching you get yourself off.
Feb 12, 10:51 am
Lena Eden Lena Eden
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Originally posted by Jess.McCleod
Obviously every girl is different but I think its very rare to find someone who NEVER masturbates. When I was single I'd masturbate almost every day, my girlfriend was much more when the feeling struck - sometimes daily, sometimes weeks without. ...
Ab-SEX-solutely!
This is one of my fantasies...
Feb 13, 11:47 am
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