I can't cum with my legs apart...advice please!

Contributor: vanilla&chocolate vanilla&chocolate
I've been masturbating for what most would call a long time, and I've only orgasmed with my legs spread a handful of times. Most other times, I'm on my back, legs pressed together, thighs and butt squeezed with my back arched. I try to deviate from my routine and spread my legs while masturbating, and I'll get relatively close to orgasm but can't quite get there so I revert to my old method. Does anyone have any advice, tips, or tricks for me?
04/15/2012
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I've got this problem too. Pretty much the only way I can cum is on my back like that; I'd also dig tips from people. ):
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Contributor: ValerieRayne ValerieRayne
Very interesting, though am curious as to why this is a problem... It sounds sexy as hell!!

I personally haven't experienced this "problem", but I'm very interested to see what tips will come up for you. I'm curious if you've ever tried masturbating in the bathtub using the tap? In this position, it's most comfortable if you're legs are spread and you really let the water hit you full on the clit. This might be a way to ease into the feeling of spread-legged orgasms, so that you can figure out how to achieve them outside of the bathtub. Just my first thought...

I'd love to hear tips from others though!
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Contributor: kadytheredpanda kadytheredpanda
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Originally posted by ValerieRayne
Very interesting, though am curious as to why this is a problem... It sounds sexy as hell!!

I personally haven't experienced this "problem", but I'm very interested to see what tips will come up for you. I'm curious if ... more
I have the same "problem."

I say problem because for example, if you wanted to spread your legs to have something larger accommodated (or you just needed to stretch even slightly), it can stop buildup to a great orgasm instantly.
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Contributor: vanilla&chocolate vanilla&chocolate
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Originally posted by kadytheredpanda
I have the same "problem."

I say problem because for example, if you wanted to spread your legs to have something larger accommodated (or you just needed to stretch even slightly), it can stop buildup to a great orgasm instantly.
This is a perfect description! Once I spread my legs, I can build myself back up again, but I just can't cum
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