Ladies, how often do you masturbate without your partner's knowledge?

Ladies, how often do you masturbate without your partner's knowledge?

DILF DILF
MARRIED Ladies, would like to know how often you masturbate PRIVATELY. You can include the use of toys and porn, but do not include times if/when you do it for your partner. My wife says she does it at most 2 or 3 times per month, but I suspect its more often than that. I wonder if married ladies are "doing it" more often than us hubbies think you are???
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
1  (17%)
4  (67%)
1  (17%)
Total votes: 6
Poll is open
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Lvstoplay Lvstoplay
I would love to participate in your poll, however I cannot as you did not include enough options. I would not do anything sexual without the consent of my Dom, so my answer would clearly be "Never".
Mar 22, 10:26 pm
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Never at least not nowadays . Few yrs ago, yes. He would know the next day though, when saw the soiled dildo or vibe lying in the sink.
OW
Mar 23, 11:57 am
AmethystQueen AmethystQueen
Sad to say I'm only a few times a month. I am working to get that number higher though. Much higher.
Jun 1, 2:30 pm
DILF DILF
Quote:
Originally posted by AmethystQueen
Sad to say I'm only a few times a month. I am working to get that number higher though. Much higher.
ONLY a few times per month? That's fairly often if you ask me. Why do you want to get that number much higher?...just curious.
Jun 1, 5:55 pm
AmethystQueen AmethystQueen
Quote:
Originally posted by DILF
ONLY a few times per month? That's fairly often if you ask me. Why do you want to get that number much higher?...just curious.
I've always felt shame about exploring my own body for some reason. I used to masturbate when I was little, then just decided I was getting to old for rubbing up against pillows when I hit puberty. Ever since then, I've been ignoring myself.

NO MORE!

I'm choosing to rediscover myself and I'm having fun. Although, those pesky shameful thoughts do take some time to expel completely. More self-touching should equal more self-loving (no more shaming!).

I'm now loving being in charge of my O's (as I should have kept doing).
Jun 1, 8:02 pm
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Yes, it's 2017 now. Many things have changed/ progressed. At one age women were expected to be " home makers" . Now they can be what ever they want to be. There's female boxers, ultimate ring fighters, football,basketball, soccer etc players. Of course women should be allowed to masturbate, have sex when they want, what kind etc.

And if they want to be the domme or giver too.
Why not ?

Sorry, didn't mean to get off topic.
Jun 2, 1:08 am
AmethystQueen AmethystQueen
Quote:
Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Yes, it's 2017 now. Many things have changed/ progressed. At one age women were expected to be " home makers" . Now they can be what ever they want to be. There's female boxers, ultimate ring fighters, football,basketball, soccer ...
You brought up some good points. I'll stray a bit with you and just add that it seems to get lost that being a homemaker is a choice also.
Jun 2, 9:25 am
DILF DILF
As a married guy, I think its quite simple. If horny, take care of yourself (notwithstanding sex with your guy). It shouldn't matter what your profession is, or even if you are a "homemaker". It really CUMS down to how often you get horny. And if the husband isn't around at that moment, or you simply are not in the mood for HIM, then the deed gets done.

My wife is interesting. When she gets horny, it just hits her. She doesn't normally plan to get horny or plan to masturbate, or think too much about it...it just happens. But for her...the more things she does to make herself happy, the more often she masturbates. It may vary each month, but I suspect its more often than she admits to...probably like most wives.
Jun 2, 12:09 pm
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by DILF
As a married guy, I think its quite simple. If horny, take care of yourself (notwithstanding sex with your guy). It shouldn't matter what your profession is, or even if you are a "homemaker". It really CUMS down to how often you get ...
Same with mine. When in the mood, she'll take matters into her own hands. Actually toys / sex aids.
I'm at the gym nearly every day till late at night. Often when I came home , found her in bed satisfying herself. Didn't bother me one bit.

Nowadays she also goes with me on weekdays and and toys much less.
Jun 2, 1:02 pm
wifey wifey
Quote:
Originally posted by Lvstoplay
I would love to participate in your poll, however I cannot as you did not include enough options. I would not do anything sexual without the consent of my Dom, so my answer would clearly be "Never".
No such thing as NEVER, not even with us ladies. You are on this kinky forum, on a website that sells a myriad of masturbation gadgets, but you NEVER take matters into your own hands???

I don't buy it. C' mon, girlfriend!!!
Jun 3, 10:21 pm
DILF DILF
Quote:
Originally posted by AmethystQueen
I've always felt shame about exploring my own body for some reason. I used to masturbate when I was little, then just decided I was getting to old for rubbing up against pillows when I hit puberty. Ever since then, I've been ignoring myself. ...
Please excuse me, and I mean well, but after reading your comments above, I need to go take care of myself now

There is nothing hotter than a horny, married gal taking matters into her own hands
Jun 3, 10:35 pm
DILF DILF
Quote:
Originally posted by wifey
No such thing as NEVER, not even with us ladies. You are on this kinky forum, on a website that sells a myriad of masturbation gadgets, but you NEVER take matters into your own hands???

I don't buy it. C' mon, girlfriend!!!
I have to agree with Wifey on this, but with a different perspective...

We have all heard that comment: There are 2 types of people - those who masturbate and those who lie about masturbating. Not to suggest you are lying, as I see you need "consent". However, this poll assumes all ladies masturbate, some more often than others. Considering the forum we are in here and that the forum is a derivative of an adult toy website that sells toys/gadgets for masturbation purposes, there is no such thing as never...never is a bad word to use. Frequency is a better word to use here.

Sure there are women who don't masturbate (perhaps a medical, psychological, or severe emotional issue, for examples). For some reason, they are not horny. That is fair and understandable. But they still make that choice themselves. Everyone else, including those on this forum/website, does masturbate without their partner's knowledge - that is life. If you are being "controlled" by another entity, then you have surrendered that choice to another, so that doesn't qualify.

I certainly did not make the comments above to be insensitive. Everyone is free to do what they like. This is just a survey. But now you know why I didn't include NEVER as a choice.
Jun 3, 11:35 pm
wifey wifey
Just checked back with this poll after a while...can't believe there aren't more ladies taking care of themselves.

Cum on ladies, you're making me look like a finger freak...please tell me I'm not one of the few who does the deed with reasonable frequency
Jul 12, 4:03 pm
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by wifey
Just checked back with this poll after a while...can't believe there aren't more ladies taking care of themselves.

Cum on ladies, you're making me look like a finger freak...please tell me I'm not one of the few who does the ...
My wife claims that having sex 2-4/week is enough to keep her satisfied - which I can believe since she averages 3+ orgasms per session.

However! She's recently taken to tying me to the door - striping my ass with her favorite paddle then making me watch as she gets off a few times! Not only is it great fun - but a bit educational as well!
Jul 12, 5:15 pm
AmethystQueen AmethystQueen
Quote:
Originally posted by DILF
Please excuse me, and I mean well, but after reading your comments above, I need to go take care of myself now

There is nothing hotter than a horny, married gal taking matters into her own hands
go right on ahead. I've been realizing I have a preference for a particular opening... although that probably belongs in another forum.
Jul 27, 3:41 pm
20yearstogether 20yearstogether
My wife does it privately 2 - 3 times a week. She always tells me about it too. We work different schedules, so time together is limited. We are at a point in our lives where we have decided that it is sexier to share our masturbation rather than keep it a secret. I encourage her to play any time she is horny. We are getting older & that feeling usually doesn't last very long for her. I really enjoy knowing she feels good!
Aug 26, 11:40 am
DILF DILF
Quote:
Originally posted by 20yearstogether
My wife does it privately 2 - 3 times a week. She always tells me about it too. We work different schedules, so time together is limited. We are at a point in our lives where we have decided that it is sexier to share our masturbation rather than ...
That is a great reply. Sounds like me and my wife exactly.

I think your wife and my wife should get together and go bowling or something
Oct 5, 9:47 am
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