I've only had sex a grand total of two times, and both times were terrible and super painful. He and I aren't together anymore, so I'm alone and in need of some "affection". So I recently bought a dildo.

The problem is that well... I noticed that I'm still "tight" even after warm up and can't seem to penetrate with my dildo. I also used lube.

I guess I just want to know how I can ease myself into this? What do I need to do? I want that penetration, but it's still hard for me. I'd appreciate any advice. Thank you. <33