Slutwalk

Contributor: SubmissiveFeminist SubmissiveFeminist
I'm working with the Women's Center on my campus and we're hosting our first Slutwalk rally. For those who don't know, Slutwalks are rallies held to address the stigma and slut-shaming that survivors of sexual assault have to face after the crime.

What do you think of the name? Does it offend you, do you love it, or are you neutral?
03/30/2012
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Contributor: Zombirella Zombirella
I don't like the name when it is aimed toward women who are victims of an attack. Even if it's a GOOD thing that is going on, I just think it should be named something else. Slut is a disrespectful word to me.

And as far as the people that actually call these women sluts, that just sickens me. How the hell can they even think to call a victim of a sex crime a slut? Even those victims of sexual slavery/trafficking being called that makes my stomach turn. I'm appalled that people take that low of a blow to someone that has been through something so traumatic. Wow.
03/30/2012
Contributor: LilLostLenore LilLostLenore
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Originally posted by SubmissiveFeminist
I'm working with the Women's Center on my campus and we're hosting our first Slutwalk rally. For those who don't know, Slutwalks are rallies held to address the stigma and slut-shaming that survivors of sexual assault have to face ... more
I dont really like the name for that cause.
03/30/2012
Contributor: Sex Positivity Sex Positivity
Personally, I'm in love with Slutwalks. It's all about reclaiming the offensive word "slut", and these are words we need to reclaim!
03/30/2012
Contributor: underHim underHim
I agree with the cause not the name. I also don't like when women try to reclaim words like bitch or cunt either so. .....
03/30/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
While I am offended when someone calls me a slut, I think it is great. Really we do need to reclaim these words so they have no meaning. If someone calls you one and you turn around and say " So, what is your point?" Then it has lost its value.
03/30/2012
Contributor: mama2007 mama2007
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Originally posted by SubmissiveFeminist
I'm working with the Women's Center on my campus and we're hosting our first Slutwalk rally. For those who don't know, Slutwalks are rallies held to address the stigma and slut-shaming that survivors of sexual assault have to face ... more
wtf. i was raped and i find that offensive. i did say NO and stop, so how the heck is that a slut? =/
03/30/2012
Contributor: js250 js250
I do feel that we need to take that word back sand make it less offensive. However, by using it for women who were abused sexually i the past, it just does not work right for me....brings back the dregs of society and negates the meaning behind your walk. Sorry, but that is how it makes me feel. I am proud you are working with abused women and trying to give them back their pride in themselves.
03/31/2012
Contributor: K101 K101
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Originally posted by SubmissiveFeminist
I'm working with the Women's Center on my campus and we're hosting our first Slutwalk rally. For those who don't know, Slutwalks are rallies held to address the stigma and slut-shaming that survivors of sexual assault have to face ... more
Heard of it and as a rape survivor, I wasn't exactly thrilled, but I TOTALLY love the idea and what it represents! I just don't think it should've been titled Slut Walk. I think a more empowering name would've been a better benefit. I totally know the slut shaming thing though! I went through it and it was almost as hard as the actual attack, BUT when people see Slut Walk, they won't bother to look into what it is. When I first heard of it, I was under the impression it was something to do with prostitutes overcoming prostitution. Anyways, I would love to be involved in a rally that worked toward helping those of us who have gone through that and making others AWARE! Knowledge is power!
03/31/2012
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
I love the idea of it...but I think the title could be a lot better. I hear Slut Walk and I think of a bunch of women, half naked, walking around with all kinds of men watching...
03/31/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
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Originally posted by mama2007
wtf. i was raped and i find that offensive. i did say NO and stop, so how the heck is that a slut? =/
The Slut walk in not labeling all women who were raped or any one a slut because they were raped. There is a story behind why it is called the slut walk.

There was a women who was attacked and an officer made a comment like " if you weren't dressed like a slut, this wouldn't have happened." (It was a story similar to this, maybe not exactly.) So, women have decided to take this an run with it. Calling ourselves sluts and saying that the word has no meaning, so it this does not happen to another women. While the word slut is extremely offensive to most of us, it is not calling us all sluts by saying this is the slut walk. This is bringing all of us women together to help stop the blaming of the victim.
04/01/2012
Contributor: SubmissiveFeminist SubmissiveFeminist
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Originally posted by Beck
The Slut walk in not labeling all women who were raped or any one a slut because they were raped. There is a story behind why it is called the slut walk.

There was a women who was attacked and an officer made a comment like " if you ... more
What he said in reply to her attack was "Women should avoid dressing like sluts in order to not be victimized." Obviously, he's a bit ignorant.

Beck is right, though. Dressing in burkas isn't going to stop rape, because it's not about what you show, or your sexual attractiveness. This walk brings attention to the stupidity behind the logic this officer used in coming up with ways to end sexual assault. I was raped, too. I was wearing sweatpants and a t-shirt that night. I attend these rallies dressed in my most liberal clothing, to prove a point. It doesn't matter what you wear, it is no one's choice to be raped.

I'll be sure to address that when I speak this month.
04/01/2012
Contributor: hyacinthgirl hyacinthgirl
I'm in support of a "This is an art show, not a buffet" style of SlutWalk. But.... having been raped myself, by an intimate partner, and certainly not because I was dressed revealingly, I don't think it's quite the right thing to bring attention to most rape victims. Though my friends attended one and took pictures of a girl in a long-sleeved turtleneck, casual jeans, and a shapeless hat with a sign reading 'This is what I was wearing'.

My sister told me about a party she went to where a girl was wearing a shibari corset and a guy picked up her up by the rope between her breasts to examine it. He didn't deny doing it, and even apologized, but was completely forgiven by the rest of the party for violating the "Look with your eyes, not with your hands" rule. I think that should be more the focus of a SlutWalk.
04/02/2012
Contributor: xilliannax xilliannax
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Originally posted by SubmissiveFeminist
I'm working with the Women's Center on my campus and we're hosting our first Slutwalk rally. For those who don't know, Slutwalks are rallies held to address the stigma and slut-shaming that survivors of sexual assault have to face ... more
I think it gives off the wrong vibe, but then again I believe that a "slut" is a woman with the morals of a man so....
04/03/2012
Contributor: hyacinthgirl hyacinthgirl
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Originally posted by xilliannax
I think it gives off the wrong vibe, but then again I believe that a "slut" is a woman with the morals of a man so....
That's a bit sexist on your part.
04/03/2012
Contributor: WD40watcher WD40watcher
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Originally posted by SubmissiveFeminist
I'm working with the Women's Center on my campus and we're hosting our first Slutwalk rally. For those who don't know, Slutwalks are rallies held to address the stigma and slut-shaming that survivors of sexual assault have to face ... more
The name seems very derogatory for what the purpose of the walk is for. The women who are sexually assaulted are not sluts and the slutwalk makes them seem like such.
04/05/2012
Contributor: SubmissiveFeminist SubmissiveFeminist
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Originally posted by WD40watcher
The name seems very derogatory for what the purpose of the walk is for. The women who are sexually assaulted are not sluts and the slutwalk makes them seem like such.
It's an ironic statement. We allow participants to dress however they want and walk with us to illustrate that it doesn't matter what you wear, no one has the right to violate you. This is in response to an officer who publicly declared, "women should avoid dressing like sluts in order to not be victimized."
04/06/2012
Contributor: Lilith Bealove Lilith Bealove
I don't agree with the name, the cause, yes. But the proper definition for "slut" is just a promiscuous person. Promiscuous means having many sexual relationships. But these victims didn't have it by choice. They were forced into it. So, no. I don't like the name for THIS cause. For reclaiming the word as something sex +, yea, but not this.
04/06/2012
Contributor: SubmissiveFeminist SubmissiveFeminist
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Originally posted by Lilith Bealove
I don't agree with the name, the cause, yes. But the proper definition for "slut" is just a promiscuous person. Promiscuous means having many sexual relationships. But these victims didn't have it by choice. They were forced into ... more
That is the point, though. It's meant to address that no matter how many people you have sex with in the past or what you wear does not mean anyone has the right to assault you. It is a sex-positive rally to raise awareness. I would like to do a similar rally not dealing with sexual assault, but I've yet to come up with details on that.

I would like people to understand that I did not create the name of this rally. Slutwalk is the name of the movement, and we kept it because it's not ours to change. I think some people are thinking I named it that, which is not true. I would not have gone with the name, but I do see it better than some responses I've gotten here.

It is in no way calling survivors of sexual assault sluts, the point is saying even if someone is labeled as a "slut" they have every right to be safe as anyone else. Also, proving that dressing liberally does not equate to sexual assault.
04/07/2012
Contributor: pootpootpoot pootpootpoot
I really love the idea of Slut Walks. The name is clearly not designed to put down the women participating nor any victims of sexual assault or rape, but to draw attention to the fact that simply because of how a woman is dressed she can be labeled a slut, and that victims of sexual assault face the same labeling.

I've also seen demonstrations where men would dress up in revealing womens clothing to make a similar point - your clothing is not to blame, the rapist is. I had expected some immature behavior because of the cross-dressing, but everyone was very serious and mature, and it was very touching.
04/07/2012
Contributor: Glinteye Glinteye
I am very farmilier with these walks and thnk that they are awsome!
04/10/2012
Contributor: RomanticGoth RomanticGoth
I love the idea, not the name.
04/10/2012
Contributor: SubmissiveFeminist SubmissiveFeminist
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Originally posted by pootpootpoot
I really love the idea of Slut Walks. The name is clearly not designed to put down the women participating nor any victims of sexual assault or rape, but to draw attention to the fact that simply because of how a woman is dressed she can be labeled a ... more
Very much agreed. Thank you for further explaining this. =)
04/10/2012
Contributor: Gracie Gracie
I love the concept of this! I can 100% support the mission! I am concerned about the name, because I feel it will turn off potential supporters and survivors before they have a chance to hear the message. And I believe the message is too important to risk alieniating the people you are trying to reach out to!
04/11/2012